You want to upgrade a laptop CPU? Short answer: You might as well forget it.
Long answer:
You'll encounter a number of problems. First of all, the processor may be soldered to the motherboard (varies, could also be socketed).
Second, you'll have to acquire the processor, which isn't trivial.
Third, the laptop's motherboard probably won't support it (if you're lucky there's a BIOS update that adds support for Penryn processors, but it's unlikely).