Koing
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For all you dudes with relationship problems, this oughtta clear up some sh!t for you.
#1. My chick wants her space.
Either she's not "feeling you anymore or she's cheating on you or has her eye on someone else. Why else would she feel crowded unless you're fvcking up her game?
#2. "But if she wants her space, why doesn't she just spare me the heartache and break up with me?"
You fool you. If she just broke up with you, she would be sad. A woman can't just cut you out cold turkey, so they play head games, either so they can find reasons to hate you, or find reasons to leave you.
They ultimately wish "You" would break up with them so their conscience would be guilt free. Do them the honors and DO IT. Break up with them and don't look back. See how quick she comes groveling back. But you wont do that cause you're a pussy.
They want to go out and not tell you where they went. Why? So when you question them, they can say, "You are so controlling, I need a break." Don't you get it yet?
#3. "But she loved me so much before, why did she change?"
Girls need constant fvcking attention and reassurance. They are needy and insecure creatures. If you forget to bring her flowers and some dickweed at the office DOES remember...she's gonna be like, "Awww, he's so tweet and my man doesn't care anymore." Women live for the thrill of romance and all that sh!t. They will get it how they can... even if it means dumping your sorry ass.
#4. "But I am so good to my woman.
Maybe that's just the point. You're too good to her. You don't put her on her toes. Maybe she's the type of broad that likes to be treated like crap. Maybe she's the "break up to make up" type of chick who loves creating drama from nothing. Maybe you don't need a bitch like this in your life.
#5. "No, you can't be right. My woman would never cheat on me. That is not the type of person she is. You don't know her like I do...
You sir are a lost cause. If you cannot "fathom" that your chick could possibly find another man more interesting than you are, then you are stupid or gullible or both.
Anybody can find someone better. The trick is...will she just cheat on you outright? Or will she create drama so that you break up with her first...so she can go get her little man? Either way, she is capable and you are a dumbass for thinking she's not.
She may have more morals than the next woman, but that doesn't mean she wont leave you first to avoid the "guilt" of cheating on you. Isn't breaking up with someone to cheat just as bad as cheating itself?
Now stop being a puss and start going out with your friends. It's gonna be painful for a while, but the best lesson you can learn in life is this...
Let this burn in real hard.
The more you call her and try to work things out, the worse things will get. The nicer you try to be, the worse it will get. The more you try to make things happen, the more smothered she will feel.
You are better off to just STOP talking to her once the games begin. You cannot win the game, you can only save face by refusing to play the game. The way to refuse is to cut her off.
And you know what bro? I promise you this... since I've learned to cut girls out of my life, you would be amazed to see that 100% of them ALWAYS come crawling back.
They never used to come back because I gave a sh!t. When you stop giving a sh!t... they will be back wanting to make things right. And you know what? By then, your "not giving a sh!t" wont be an act...you really wont care. Because you'll have realized that bitches games are for little girls and you don't want a little girl...you want a real woman.
Not writen by me. Just ripped from another message board...............
Koing
#1. My chick wants her space.
Either she's not "feeling you anymore or she's cheating on you or has her eye on someone else. Why else would she feel crowded unless you're fvcking up her game?
#2. "But if she wants her space, why doesn't she just spare me the heartache and break up with me?"
You fool you. If she just broke up with you, she would be sad. A woman can't just cut you out cold turkey, so they play head games, either so they can find reasons to hate you, or find reasons to leave you.
They ultimately wish "You" would break up with them so their conscience would be guilt free. Do them the honors and DO IT. Break up with them and don't look back. See how quick she comes groveling back. But you wont do that cause you're a pussy.
They want to go out and not tell you where they went. Why? So when you question them, they can say, "You are so controlling, I need a break." Don't you get it yet?
#3. "But she loved me so much before, why did she change?"
Girls need constant fvcking attention and reassurance. They are needy and insecure creatures. If you forget to bring her flowers and some dickweed at the office DOES remember...she's gonna be like, "Awww, he's so tweet and my man doesn't care anymore." Women live for the thrill of romance and all that sh!t. They will get it how they can... even if it means dumping your sorry ass.
#4. "But I am so good to my woman.
Maybe that's just the point. You're too good to her. You don't put her on her toes. Maybe she's the type of broad that likes to be treated like crap. Maybe she's the "break up to make up" type of chick who loves creating drama from nothing. Maybe you don't need a bitch like this in your life.
#5. "No, you can't be right. My woman would never cheat on me. That is not the type of person she is. You don't know her like I do...
You sir are a lost cause. If you cannot "fathom" that your chick could possibly find another man more interesting than you are, then you are stupid or gullible or both.
Anybody can find someone better. The trick is...will she just cheat on you outright? Or will she create drama so that you break up with her first...so she can go get her little man? Either way, she is capable and you are a dumbass for thinking she's not.
She may have more morals than the next woman, but that doesn't mean she wont leave you first to avoid the "guilt" of cheating on you. Isn't breaking up with someone to cheat just as bad as cheating itself?
Now stop being a puss and start going out with your friends. It's gonna be painful for a while, but the best lesson you can learn in life is this...
Let this burn in real hard.
The more you call her and try to work things out, the worse things will get. The nicer you try to be, the worse it will get. The more you try to make things happen, the more smothered she will feel.
You are better off to just STOP talking to her once the games begin. You cannot win the game, you can only save face by refusing to play the game. The way to refuse is to cut her off.
And you know what bro? I promise you this... since I've learned to cut girls out of my life, you would be amazed to see that 100% of them ALWAYS come crawling back.
They never used to come back because I gave a sh!t. When you stop giving a sh!t... they will be back wanting to make things right. And you know what? By then, your "not giving a sh!t" wont be an act...you really wont care. Because you'll have realized that bitches games are for little girls and you don't want a little girl...you want a real woman.
Not writen by me. Just ripped from another message board...............
Koing