I have reviewed all the suggested games and have come to these conclusions.
Axis and Allies, Risk, & Risk 2 - Look to be turned based and mostly combat driven. I still like Risk though.
Close Combat Series - I personally found these hard to play myself let alone my son, seven years old.
Army Men RTS - I have played the demo, it's ok but a little slow for my tastes. My son didn't like it either.
Empire Earth - Haven't tried it yet, plus I'm too cheap to by it.
Rising Sun Gold - Looks like a board game and I believe it is turn based.
Commandos & Commandos 2 - Again not a RTS
I found Sudden Strike to be worth a try, since I found it on clearance for $6.00 at my local Office Depot (Dearborn, MI). Even though it has no resource gathering, the game play reviews I read seem to make a very interesting game. I will let you know how we like it. Thanks again for all your suggestions.