Originally posted by: Davidpaul007
Originally posted by: Qbah
Obviously some of you have never been raiding - doing several hour long sessions is a typical raiding night (at least it was when I was still around). With a full time job and having a kid, I don't really see how you can find even a ~4h window to do a small raid. Not to mention the other stuff you do in WoW.
Our raids started at 8 (my time, after the kids are in bed) and went until 11 or so, and I did this twice a week before our baby.
How can you even think about "cutting a bit" on a stupid game when you're getting a new family member is beyond me. It's like saying you will be only able to get drunk twice a week now, instead of the usual 5. The difference being you're not really hurting anyone else (besides your family). The general idea is the same.
Again, I suggest some of you go and see Second Skin.
Not sure if this is directed at me or not since this is obviously not what my post said. I just plain quit raiding when my son was born because of the time investment and sleep was at such a premium (for us parents) initially that I couldn't in good conscience squander 3 hours of sleep doing the same dungeon over and over

I kept playing WoW after my son was born but in much smaller time increments which meant I basically did dailies (gag).
I am just speaking my mind, based on my personal experience

This was not directed strictly at you. Gaming would be the last thing on my mind with a son that needs to be taken care of (obviously by both parents

) - but it's not something obvious to people addicted to MMO games (it was somehow logical for me to skip work or uni because I had to play a bit more for example - don't ask me why). Luckily something snapped in my head and I had a "revelation" of sorts

Sounds stupid, I know, but that's how I managed to break free.
My advise may sound extreme, but just to be safe, I'd say stay away from any MMO games. Regular games are loads of fun too and you get to play many different types (RPGs, racing, shooters, strategy, etc) not just the same thing over and over again. And best thing is, you can just sit and have a 30 minute "chill out" time blowing some stuff up on Shadow Complex (example, nice game btw

) or race a track or two on GRID. It's still plenty of fun and you aren't constrained by anything.