RE sex before marriage: "The few couples I know that have waited to have sex until they're married are absolutely miserable now, sexually. I dunno... I guess what I'm saying is that if you're considering waiting for it, at least get married for the girl you love, not for the girl you think you love and the pussy you know you'll get on the honeymoon.
That is all! "
Taken from another post.
There is a Freudian theory that says that people "punish" themselves by "splitting" thier attraction. In other words.. people who love someone for sex and love other people for personality are in fact assuring eventual failure of the relationship. Just something to keep in mind next time you say "damn I only care about personality". Ideally, you are attracted in all ways to a person. Maybe its possible to sort of explore your partner's body in such a way that doesnt totally violate your religion/morals, but makes sure you have some physical attraction as well.
Note- this is coming from a guy who likes a muslim girl who covers her arms and legs 90% of the time with long pants and sleeves
*sigh*
That is all! "
Taken from another post.
There is a Freudian theory that says that people "punish" themselves by "splitting" thier attraction. In other words.. people who love someone for sex and love other people for personality are in fact assuring eventual failure of the relationship. Just something to keep in mind next time you say "damn I only care about personality". Ideally, you are attracted in all ways to a person. Maybe its possible to sort of explore your partner's body in such a way that doesnt totally violate your religion/morals, but makes sure you have some physical attraction as well.
Note- this is coming from a guy who likes a muslim girl who covers her arms and legs 90% of the time with long pants and sleeves
*sigh*
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