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Rant on love

UncleWai

Diamond Member
Lately I've seen too many unhealthy relationship between people. I sometimes wonder do I just have a really high standard on "love" or people just don't know what love is.

My brother is 27 soon, still living under my parents house. He is dating this rich spoiled girl 4 years younger than him. The two of them act like 16 years old. He wastes a sh!t load of money on toys and video games. What really piss me off the most is he feels content at the way he lives. He's a failure at school and working at a mediocre job. I really fvcking hate his girlfriend because she is making him to become even more immature than he already has. My grandpa was dying, and my parents flew back to Hong Kong. So this imbecile brother of mine decided it's fine to bring his girlfriend home to live because my parents are not here. I don't feel like confronting him because I simply gave up on this brother of mine. It just seemed like the most childish, most disrespectful thing to do.
I am just pissed that I am here working my ass off to finish school early and start working so I can relieve burden off my parents, but he is here just here living nonchalantly about the family.

Second, I got this friend of mine, it's just ridiculous. Every freaking picture in his MSN is him and his girlfriend. And there's a sentence on his MSN screen name saying how much he loves her. That's not love at all in my book. It just seems like he is here to show the world that he has a girlfriend. If you love someone, you don't have to pull stupid stunts like this. I seriously cannot comprehend why the guy is doing this.

Finally, my best friend is a douchebag. Him and his gf transferred out state to different universities. It's been only a couple weeks, but he didn't call her much during the time. She constantly in msn whine about how he never called to me and another friend. I don't see how the relationship would last. Before he left, I already told him to treat her better. He was lucky to find a gf like her, I seriously doubt he could do any better. I mean why would someone commit to a relationship if he is not going to put up with the simplest thing like making a call. We've all been very close to each other, it would be hella suck if they broke up.

Now I get this off my chest, I can go to sleep.
/end
 
of the 3 i only see 2 legitimate complaints...

your #2 complaint makes you seem like you're jealous.

I don't see the problem of having pictures of yourself with your GF, or saying how much you like them in whatever way you want?

I guess your idea of love/good relationship is never mentioning you like them and having all your pictures taken seperate?
 
Originally posted by: xSkyDrAx
Yea I see a lot of that, except the brother part. Usually goes on with teenagers.

Yes, he is becoming 27 in a month, I feel sorry for him and my parents. God damn he acts like a 16 years old, I don't even talk to him anymore. Even more sad, he was taking a couple classes in community college. A few times he got stucked on homework or something like that, he was throwing sh!t and hitting the keyboard cursing at the homework.

Originally posted by: novasatori
of the 3 i only see 2 legitimate complaints...

your #2 complaint makes you seem like you're jealous.

I don't see the problem of having pictures of yourself with your GF, or saying how much you like them in whatever way you want?

I guess your idea of love/good relationship is never mentioning you like them and having all your pictures taken seperate?

Last year this guy was a humble person who wished for a girlfriend. Now, he is a complete ass. Loving someone means you don't use the person like a trophy. Love her, don't use her. I don't mine him having pictures in msn, but don't keep renewing messages of how he loves his girlfriend. Like I said, if you really love someone, you don't need to pull publicity stunts like this.
And no, I am not jealous. Unlike a lot of the people, I don't feel the need to have a girlfriend for the sake of not being single. I will have a girlfriend when I know I am actually in love with the person and that a relationship between us will improve our lives.
 
Originally posted by: UncleWai
Originally posted by: xSkyDrAx
Yea I see a lot of that, except the brother part. Usually goes on with teenagers.

Yes, he is becoming 27 in a month, I feel sorry for him and my parents. God damn he acts like a 16 years old, I don't even talk to him anymore. Even more sad, he was taking a couple classes in community college. A few times he got stucked on homework or something like that, he was throwing sh!t and hitting the keyboard cursing at the homework.

Originally posted by: novasatori
of the 3 i only see 2 legitimate complaints...

your #2 complaint makes you seem like you're jealous.

I don't see the problem of having pictures of yourself with your GF, or saying how much you like them in whatever way you want?

I guess your idea of love/good relationship is never mentioning you like them and having all your pictures taken seperate?

Last year this guy was a humble person who wished for a girlfriend. Now, he is a complete ass. Loving someone means you don't use the person like a trophy. Love her, don't use her. I don't mine him having pictures in msn, but don't keep renewing messages of how he loves his girlfriend. Like I said, if you really love someone, you don't need to pull publicity stunts like this.
And no, I am not jealous. Unlike a lot of the people, I don't feel the need to have a girlfriend for the sake of not being single. I will have a girlfriend when I know I am actually in love with the person and that a relationship between us will improve our lives.


You don't need to be IN LOVE with someone to be bf/gf with them. The potential for love should be there, but you don't always start off by LOVING them.

How old are you again?
And also, when I am writing an essay and I have writer's block, I curse at my essay also. It is called frustration =P
 
Originally posted by: Eli
it sounds like you have never been in love before.
yea wtf is the deal with that dr. love!? im calling the love police for such an outrageous and love-naive post!
 
Sounds like you are jealous to me. If I think someone is a douchebag, they sure as heck aren't my friend and surely not my best friend.

You have issues.
 
Originally posted by: Codewiz
Sounds like you are jealous to me. If I think someone is a douchebag, they sure as heck aren't my friend and surely not my best friend.

You have issues.
one word:

PROZAC
 
Originally posted by: Eli
it sounds like you have never been in love before.

Nay. I think and worry too much to be in a relationship. I think I am becoming a schizo.

I am 21. I might be going back to Hong Kong for work once I am done with shcool, so I kept a small distance between female friends to prvent myself from commiting to a relationship. It's pretty dumb I know, but that's the price to pay when I decided to put school and work as priority.

I know everyone will experience writer's block. But he should be old enough to not throw a baby tandrum.
 
Originally posted by: OverVolt
Originally posted by: Codewiz
Sounds like you are jealous to me. If I think someone is a douchebag, they sure as heck aren't my friend and surely not my best friend.

You have issues.
one word:

PROZAC

Nah drugs aren't needed.

He just needs to get a life and stop worrying about other people so much.

 
Originally posted by: OverVolt
Originally posted by: Codewiz
Sounds like you are jealous to me. If I think someone is a douchebag, they sure as heck aren't my friend and surely not my best friend.

You have issues.
one word:

PROZAC
three words:

CRACK PIPE DOWN
 
Originally posted by: Eli
Originally posted by: OverVolt
Originally posted by: Codewiz
Sounds like you are jealous to me. If I think someone is a douchebag, they sure as heck aren't my friend and surely not my best friend.

You have issues.
one word:

PROZAC
three words:

CRACK PIPE DOWN
after i google the directions to the nearest crack clinic

 
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