Rant about a Really Immature Guy.

Dufman

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Here is the situation. A girl that i meet at one of my parties at school, invites me to her house over spring break. Since her home town is only about 30 mins from my house, i give her a call last night, and i head to hang out with her. I get to her house a little early, and her parents give me directions to her place of work, and said it would be alright if i went up their and hung out.

I get there, and she was very happy to see me, she gave me a big hug. Then she warned me that her ex was lifting weights there. I asked her if it would be a problem if i was there, and she said no. After he got done lifing he came up to her office, and just sat there, in total silence. I introduced myself to him, and put my hand out to shake it, but he blew me off. So i blew him off in return, i decided since he was very immature that i was just going to leave well enough alone.

I was with the girl and him in the office for an hour. About every 10 mins she would leave to check on something at work, and he would pretend to call someone. Finally i got fed up with him, and politely asked him if he had anything better to do. (she has complained about him several times to me that she doesnt want him around) He said no, and just sat there in total silence. Trying to intimidate me

It came time to leave, the 3 of us walked out to the parking lott, he was parked behind me. So i opened her door to get into my car, he saw that, and laid tire in his car, nearly hitting me.

Through out the course of the night, i discover a lot about this guy. He is 21, dropped out of high school as a junior, has no job, and does nothing but call, and bother this girl.

What i dont understand is why this really bright girl dated this loser for 4 years

/end rant
 

Fencer128

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Originally posted by: amdmang
Here is the situation. A girl that i meet at one of my parties at school, invites me to her house over spring break. Since her home town is only about 30 mins from my house, i give her a call last night, and i head to hang out with her. I get to her house a little early, and her parents give me directions to her place of work, and said it would be alright if i went up their and hung out.

I get there, and she was very happy to see me, she gave me a big hug. Then she warned me that her ex was lifting weights there. I asked her if it would be a problem if i was there, and she said no. After he got done lifing he came up to her office, and just sat there, in total silence. I introduced myself to him, and put my hand out to shake it, but he blew me off. So i blew him off in return, i decided since he was very immature that i was just going to leave well enough alone.

I was with the girl and him in the office for an hour. About every 10 mins she would leave to check on something at work, and he would pretend to call someone. Finally i got fed up with him, and politely asked him if he had anything better to do. (she has complained about him several times to me that she doesnt want him around) He said no, and just sat there in total silence. Trying to intimidate me

It came time to leave, the 3 of us walked out to the parking lott, he was parked behind me. So i opened her door to get into my car, he saw that, and laid tire in his car, nearly hitting me.

Through out the course of the night, i discover a lot about this guy. He is 21, dropped out of high school as a junior, has no job, and does nothing but call, and bother this girl.

What i dont understand is why this really bright girl dated this loser for 4 years

/end rant

You are suffering from *loser ex syndrome*. I really feel for you.

Andy
 

Hoober

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Originally posted by: amdmang
Here is the situation. A girl that i meet at one of my parties at school, invites me to her house over spring break. Since her home town is only about 30 mins from my house, i give her a call last night, and i head to hang out with her. I get to her house a little early, and her parents give me directions to her place of work, and said it would be alright if i went up their and hung out.

I get there, and she was very happy to see me, she gave me a big hug. Then she warned me that her ex was lifting weights there. I asked her if it would be a problem if i was there, and she said no. After he got done lifing he came up to her office, and just sat there, in total silence. I introduced myself to him, and put my hand out to shake it, but he blew me off. So i blew him off in return, i decided since he was very immature that i was just going to leave well enough alone.

I was with the girl and him in the office for an hour. About every 10 mins she would leave to check on something at work, and he would pretend to call someone. Finally i got fed up with him, and politely asked him if he had anything better to do. (she has complained about him several times to me that she doesnt want him around) He said no, and just sat there in total silence. Trying to intimidate me

It came time to leave, the 3 of us walked out to the parking lott, he was parked behind me. So i opened her door to get into my car, he saw that, and laid tire in his car, nearly hitting me.

Through out the course of the night, i discover a lot about this guy. He is 21, dropped out of high school as a junior, has no job, and does nothing but call, and bother this girl.

What i dont understand is why this really bright girl dated this loser for 4 years

/end rant

What I don't understand is why she hasn't filed a restraining order if she really doesn't want him around.

 

Dufman

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Originally posted by: Hoober
Originally posted by: amdmang
Here is the situation. A girl that i meet at one of my parties at school, invites me to her house over spring break. Since her home town is only about 30 mins from my house, i give her a call last night, and i head to hang out with her. I get to her house a little early, and her parents give me directions to her place of work, and said it would be alright if i went up their and hung out.

I get there, and she was very happy to see me, she gave me a big hug. Then she warned me that her ex was lifting weights there. I asked her if it would be a problem if i was there, and she said no. After he got done lifing he came up to her office, and just sat there, in total silence. I introduced myself to him, and put my hand out to shake it, but he blew me off. So i blew him off in return, i decided since he was very immature that i was just going to leave well enough alone.

I was with the girl and him in the office for an hour. About every 10 mins she would leave to check on something at work, and he would pretend to call someone. Finally i got fed up with him, and politely asked him if he had anything better to do. (she has complained about him several times to me that she doesnt want him around) He said no, and just sat there in total silence. Trying to intimidate me

It came time to leave, the 3 of us walked out to the parking lott, he was parked behind me. So i opened her door to get into my car, he saw that, and laid tire in his car, nearly hitting me.

Through out the course of the night, i discover a lot about this guy. He is 21, dropped out of high school as a junior, has no job, and does nothing but call, and bother this girl.

What i dont understand is why this really bright girl dated this loser for 4 years

/end rant

What I don't understand is why she hasn't filed a restraining order if she really doesn't want him around.



she doesnt want him around, but he makes her feel quilty taht she broke up with him, and she is such a sweet girl, that she cant break his heart
 

Keego

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Restraining order is too much, no physical threat I bet. But really, this guy needs to be banned from her job or something.. Stalking her (basically that's what it is!) cannot go on! but that's not your job, she should have done something about it a LONG FREAKING TIME AGO.

Find out why she hasn't done anything... There should be a good reason or there's something wrong with her.
 

BooGiMaN

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i foresee a lot of headache and problems in your future if you get into a relationship with this girl..i think there will always be a love triangle type of thing..watch your back
 

Iron Woode

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Originally posted by: amdmang
Originally posted by: Hoober
Originally posted by: amdmang
Here is the situation. A girl that i meet at one of my parties at school, invites me to her house over spring break. Since her home town is only about 30 mins from my house, i give her a call last night, and i head to hang out with her. I get to her house a little early, and her parents give me directions to her place of work, and said it would be alright if i went up their and hung out.

I get there, and she was very happy to see me, she gave me a big hug. Then she warned me that her ex was lifting weights there. I asked her if it would be a problem if i was there, and she said no. After he got done lifing he came up to her office, and just sat there, in total silence. I introduced myself to him, and put my hand out to shake it, but he blew me off. So i blew him off in return, i decided since he was very immature that i was just going to leave well enough alone.

I was with the girl and him in the office for an hour. About every 10 mins she would leave to check on something at work, and he would pretend to call someone. Finally i got fed up with him, and politely asked him if he had anything better to do. (she has complained about him several times to me that she doesnt want him around) He said no, and just sat there in total silence. Trying to intimidate me

It came time to leave, the 3 of us walked out to the parking lott, he was parked behind me. So i opened her door to get into my car, he saw that, and laid tire in his car, nearly hitting me.

Through out the course of the night, i discover a lot about this guy. He is 21, dropped out of high school as a junior, has no job, and does nothing but call, and bother this girl.

What i dont understand is why this really bright girl dated this loser for 4 years

/end rant

What I don't understand is why she hasn't filed a restraining order if she really doesn't want him around.



she doesnt want him around, but he makes her feel quilty taht she broke up with him, and she is such a sweet girl, that she cant break his heart
Unfortunately, it is that kind of woman that gets killed at the hands of those kind of guys. you know the type: If I can't have you, no one else will.

 

AvesPKS

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You are trying to understand women. Cease and desist before your brain explodes! (You have been warned.):)
 

Dufman

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hey guy was a real tool too. he came in after lifting with jeans, and a sweatshirt on, with a bandanna, and a mini-mullet. a real work of art.

not that i sterotype people, but this guy fell right into the white trash category. and she is such a nice, and pretty girl

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y2kc

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when I met my wife she had recently broken up with a loser similiar to the one you described. He was under the impression that I would be intimidated by his shenanigans (phone calls, uninvited visits, threats etc). If you like this girl, go for it, but never give the guy the impression that his presence is anything more than an annoyance to you. He will go away eventually. But before you invest the time, she has to make a strong statement to him that his presence is not wanted. Allowing him to hang in her office once you came is not doing it. Find out what she really wants first.
 

wnied

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What i dont understand is why this really bright girl dated this loser for 4 years

Because Love is Blind Genius.(She likes you dont she?);) The fact is, she got over him, he never got over her. So take your time and show the patience this guy didnt and you'll be in like Flynn.
~wnied~
 

Mallow

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Originally posted by: Kiyup
Other fish in the sea without losers hanging around to make your life miserable.

He probably wasn't such an obvious loser in High School. Often people have great potential until they exit high school and do nothing with their lives. Did she date him after high school?