Ramblings about girls and guys

[gopunk]

just thinking about a friend i have... he says that guys should pay for the date because girls don't really like guys as much as guys like girls.

what do you guys think?

i think this poor guy has been tricked by "society" into thinking this. i've heard women talk about having sex as if they were doing the guy a favor, or as a reward. i dunno, i guess i can't really say since i'm not a woman, but judging from conversations i've had with female friends, women get pretty freaky horny. so what's going on here?

i think this whole thing started with putting women on a pedestal and thinking they were all innocent and whatnot, and now some women are using the societal constuct to get power over men.

anyways, just my thoughts..

 

[spanky]

yeah from what i heard, women r pretty horny too. oh wait... that's porno. nevermind.

 

[diskop]

Originally posted by: spankyOO7
yeah from what i heard, women r pretty horny too. oh wait... that's porno. nevermind.

No dude! They want it bad! They'll moan and say give it to me now oh yes give it to me right there yes that is it oh yes. And then when you finish they finish at EXACTLY THE SAME TIME. Don't believe the hype! They want it too!

 

[AlphaWolf829]

I think it is only tradition that the guy pays for the meals.... showing how he is the "caretaker" in the relationship....showing how he is the one that provides money and food on the table.... plus it is just common courtesy... thats how I see it.... so it is only in mans nature to pay... as for those who don't though... regression could also be the case.....

 

[gopunk]

Originally posted by: AlphaWolf829
I think it is only tradition that the guy pays for the meals.... showing how he is the "caretaker" in the relationship....showing how he is the one that provides money and food on the table.... plus it is just common courtesy... thats how I see it.... so it is only in mans nature to pay... as for those who don't though... regression could also be the case.....

sorry, i don't follow... regression?

yea i know it's tradition... his explanation just got me thinking.

anyways my take on the dinner thing is whoever initiates should offer to pay.

 

[rgwalt]

Women are often portrayed as frigid or uninterested in sex. The truth is that they are just as interested as guys are on average. Of course it varies from individual to individual, but on the whole women want it just as much as men.

Now, on the whole, it is really tough to say if guys like girls more than girls like guys on a purely plutonic level. Girls like being around other girls, and guys like hanging out with other guys. Girls and guys like to do different things. I don't think your friend as a very good foundation to his reasoning. I do think he was tricked by some cunning female.

Ryan

 

[AlphaWolf829]

ok the one who initiates should pay I guess.... but its probably better if they split the bill...... if anything....

 

[Kadarin]

gopunk, your friend doesn't have very much experience with women, does he? Women love men (and sex) just as much as men love women.

 

[KEV1N]

Paying for a meal is not so much the male subjugation of women. I pay for my friends sometimes when we go out, male or female, or small group, just because I want to be a gentleman. Yes, gentlemanhood is another arbitrary social concept but it does show how much you care about your friends want how much you want them to have a good time. Treating a guest is an outwardly gesture.

However, if you go to pay and the girl doesn't even move to even OFFER to pay.. then you're being used.

 

[AlphaWolf829]

yes I feel the exact same way... would have stated it.. but im to lazy to type...

 

[AlphaWolf829]

about the meals thing...