Racism Doesn't Exist Anymore Except In The Eyes of Those Being 'Targeted'

destrekor

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People who act like thugs are the reason racism still exists. They don't understand they are turning back all the progress 'their people' have made by living the lives they currently lead.
I'm not a racist by any means, I'm a realist. I don't hate anybody because of their skin color, but I hate people because of the lives they lead. Their are some caveats to this, because there are a lot of variables, but for the most part skin color is not connected. In history, the reason black people are the way they are in the inner city is well... tough to really figure out. But it's just become a circle of logic these days, and they continue to just revolve around that circle. Whatever the original reasoning is, no longer exists. Some in the inner city strive to get out and try as hard as possible to lead successful lives, and I commend those that go that route, but the rest, the ones that thrive in violence, living off of welfare and milking the system... fuck them, fuck them all.
And before anyone comments, that is not racism. That is classism to an extent if anything.
There are plenty of white people who do the same. I look past skin color, it means nothing to me. However, I judge by appearances. The way they dress, the way they act. If they look like a thug, I judge them as one. It's up to the individual to prove me wrong. If they act civilized but dress like thugs, well that's different. I don't understand it, but it's different and I'll judge them as civilized. The thugs I try as hard as possible not to even interact with, I want nothing to do with them. I do have a few friends who I grew up joking with them as being white, but then they started dressing the thug style, and I just laugh at them. Good friends though, and very 'normal'. Good parenting imho, hard working parents who are successful.

People, including many blacks, see any negative views on them as racist and continue to act out because of it, when in reality it is only because of their actions and their lifestyles. Stop acting like ghetto thugs and society will accept you. I'll view all ghetto white people as exactly the same as ghetto black people. Color is nothing, it's the life.
The black people who act as normal members of society, they are just that, another member of society to me. Goes for all 'races'. People need to stop segregating themselves and at that point we can all live in harmony. The continued segregation is all done at their own hands, and society will never look at them the same as the rest of society. Their own damned fault, and they deserve any consequences brought on as a part of it. However, the innocent store keepers do not, and these people, after the rioting, should all be thrown in jail for awhile.

And it is likely the shooting wasn't racism either. It may have been, but most of our society has moved beyond racism for the most part, and is now all 'classism'. We look down on the negative members of society, and it just so happens that a good portion are black. Same as in LA central, where a good portion are Latino. I don't hate latinos, again, just the thugs.
Not knowing anything about the unarmed person, obviously something sparked a gun being drawn. Was it a violent acting person? Most likely. Even if they aren't armed, if they are acting violent and aren't backing down, then they are going to get hurt. Should a gun have been used? Cannot say, did the person act like he had a gun? Suspicious behavior of some sort? Without all the facts, I'll boil it down to likely being a thug-like black man who was causing trouble. Acting like a thug and being violent or acting in such a way that threatens someone is going to get you in trouble with the law. It could have been a very racist cop, sure... who knows.
Most of society doesn't give any trouble to a black man or woman who blends right in with society. Dresses acceptably, holds steady employment, like in an office or something. These individuals are also never the ones who get shot by 'racist' cops. A racist cop will give problems to anyone of such a race, but you never hear about that. Why? Because these people don't give cops problems, so the cops don't give them any trouble either. Welcome to life.

Act like a productive member of society, or act like a thug and be treated as such.

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This was to be posted in response to this thread, then discovered it was locked after I pressed submit.

This may be asking to be banned, but I'll argue that that shouldn't be the case. I was going to post it in OT as it truly belongs more in that thread imho, though after that thread I knew it would be an instant ban.

****Mods****, treat this as a serious topic of discussion please, and that is the reason I posted it in this forum. Racism and classism can be dangerous topics of discussion, but this kind of topic needs to be discussed, and my reasoning is all in the above paragraphs. This isn't about racism at all, but rather the idea of people stating racism exists when in reality people only dislike those individuals because they are leading lifestyles that are the exact opposite of that of a productive member of society. We as a society need to press this topic on more, because we can get over this hurdle in life... eventually. People just need to wake up (and welfare needs to be drastically overhauled), and realize that for society to be a good society, everyone needs to be putting in effort to be an acceptable member of society.

And before anyone replies, I'll NEVER use the word African-American. Unless that individual has direct lineage from Africa, they are no more African-American than I am European-American. Yes, that is fully reasonable too. It's the damn politically-correct morality police that push that bullshit, because 'black' is apparently such a strong word. Why? It's only describing the color of their skin. You don't hear anyone calling people that hail from South Africa as African-American, but dammit they are just as much African as that random black guy, especially if they have grandparents from that country.

But we as a society need to also move beyond the issue of skin color, period. Using it more day to day is the first step. Get used to it as a simply description. Nobody gets upset at referring to someone as blonde or brunette. It's a descriptor, something that helps in identifying someone to anyone who doesn't know the person in question. But we need to move beyond the idea of any descriptor actually defining someone. Nobody races fuss about any black individual who works a 9-5 job at an office. Why? Because they blend right in. Sure they look different on the outside, but most civilized folk fully accept this. Who cares what they look like as long as they act like, and live the life of a productive member of society. That's all we need, and all we a humans care about. Our tribal nature works for and against us every day. We want to belong, but we want to see reasons for others we do not trust to not belong. Religion, race, class, its all the same in the end - they are ways for people to group like and different, so that everyone can belong in some group, but in the end that means there will be groups that have conflict with each other, and everyone in the group immediately dislikes the entirety of the 'opposing' group. Referring to my stance in the first half of this post as 'classism' was a little wrong. I'm not classist, in that I don't hate poor or rich people, as long as they are productive. I'll hate a rich person who does jack shit just as much as a poor person who does jack shit. It's purely the act of laziness, or in the case of the thugs/ghetto, the act of violence. Anyone who acts out in violence against others for such arbitrary reasons is completely retarded and doesn't get the bigger picture.

So, hopefully this doesn't get me banned, and I suspect this'll most likely get locked either way. I mostly just needed to say this, kind of venting. Society annoys and pisses me off at times, at how backwards we all really are. So few people in society actually accept we are animals, but yet... look at us. We show more animal nature than our damn pets on most occasions

READ THE REPLIES AND MY REPLIES TO THEM. Everything you likely have to say has likely been said by them, this isn't a one-way conversation topic and the evolution of the conversation has already progressed quite a bit.
My full beliefs, most contrary to the Topic Title, are mixed in with the other replies.
 

spidey07

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So true. I've said it for a long time that it's done. We have a black president, if that isn't yet more proof then I don't know what will be. Victim mentality never gets anywhere regardless of how it is applied.
 

dlx22

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that thread should have been posted in politics and news to begin with, posting serious topics in OT just begs for comments that people may not necessarily believe in, but just post to be funny/sarcastic.
 

feralkid

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Originally posted by: heyheybooboo
I predict great things for this thread ...

Agreed; hey what's going on in any other thread that doesn't suck?
 

Jiggz

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Wasn't this "R" card just recently used or employed in Illinois! I mean they actually referred to Prince Harry (Reid) as being racist!
 

destrekor

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Originally posted by: Gonad the Barbarian
Racism is one of those rare things that if ignored actually will go away. But it certainly does still exist.

But how much of it these days can be blamed on the total hatred of all other colors, and not simply more or less 'classist' beliefs, where you basically just hate the people who are ghetto. I've known many people in Toledo, somewhat of a Detroit-lite (very lite), who are just that way: don't hate blacks, as they are even friends with some black people, but do very much dislike the ghetto folks and think they are the scum of society and what is bringing us down at times.
That's a fair belief, as long as one can separate the life choice from the color of the skin.

I don't doubt that true racism still exists. I've been to the south, and it's quite real down there.
 

destrekor

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Originally posted by: Capt Caveman
So, did the KKK and all White Supremacy groups just disappear today?

read my reply to the post before yours.

I mostly used that original statement as simply a topic starter of sorts, something to draw the attention.
The KKK and other groups are very much real, no doubt about that. But their strength, prevalence, and even internal beliefs are very much different today than in the past.
Hell, some KKK members who have been interviewed have even stated that they don't hate all black people and those of other skin colors, just the people who are the scum of society (though they don't realize they are that same scum too, but that's another topic).
 

feralkid

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Originally posted by: destrekor
Originally posted by: Gonad the Barbarian
Racism is one of those rare things that if ignored actually will go away. But it certainly does still exist.

But how much of it these days can be blamed on the total hatred of all other colors, and not simply more or less 'classist' beliefs, where you basically just hate the people who are ghetto. I've known many people in Toledo, somewhat of a Detroit-lite (very lite), who are just that way: don't hate blacks, as they are even friends with some black people, but do very much dislike the ghetto folks and think they are the scum of society and what is bringing us down at times.
That's a fair belief, as long as one can separate the life choice from the color of the skin.

I don't doubt that true racism still exists. I've been to the south, and it's quite real down there.


Well, good; it sure seemed like you were arguing that Racism Doesn't Exist Anymore Except In The Eyes of Those Being 'Targeted'

Glad it was all a misunderstanding.

 

glenn1

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Originally posted by: destrekor
People who act like thugs are the reason racism still exists. They don't understand they are turning back all the progress 'their people' have made by living the lives they currently lead.
I'm not a racist by any means, I'm a realist. I don't hate anybody because of their skin color, but I hate people because of the lives they lead. Their are some caveats to this, because there are a lot of variables, but for the most part skin color is not connected. In history, the reason black people are the way they are in the inner city is well... tough to really figure out. But it's just become a circle of logic these days, and they continue to just revolve around that circle. Whatever the original reasoning is, no longer exists. Some in the inner city strive to get out and try as hard as possible to lead successful lives, and I commend those that go that route, but the rest, the ones that thrive in violence, living off of welfare and milking the system... fuck them, fuck them all.
And before anyone comments, that is not racism. That is classism to an extent if anything.
There are plenty of white people who do the same. I look past skin color, it means nothing to me. However, I judge by appearances. The way they dress, the way they act. If they look like a thug, I judge them as one. It's up to the individual to prove me wrong. If they act civilized but dress like thugs, well that's different. I don't understand it, but it's different and I'll judge them as civilized. The thugs I try as hard as possible not to even interact with, I want nothing to do with them. I do have a few friends who I grew up joking with them as being white, but then they started dressing the thug style, and I just laugh at them. Good friends though, and very 'normal'. Good parenting imho, hard working parents who are successful.

People, including many blacks, see any negative views on them as racist and continue to act out because of it, when in reality it is only because of their actions and their lifestyles. Stop acting like ghetto thugs and society will accept you. I'll view all ghetto white people as exactly the same as ghetto black people. Color is nothing, it's the life.
The black people who act as normal members of society, they are just that, another member of society to me. Goes for all 'races'. People need to stop segregating themselves and at that point we can all live in harmony. The continued segregation is all done at their own hands, and society will never look at them the same as the rest of society. Their own damned fault, and they deserve any consequences brought on as a part of it. However, the innocent store keepers do not, and these people, after the rioting, should all be thrown in jail for awhile.

And it is likely the shooting wasn't racism either. It may have been, but most of our society has moved beyond racism for the most part, and is now all 'classism'. We look down on the negative members of society, and it just so happens that a good portion are black. Same as in LA central, where a good portion are Latino. I don't hate latinos, again, just the thugs.
Not knowing anything about the unarmed person, obviously something sparked a gun being drawn. Was it a violent acting person? Most likely. Even if they aren't armed, if they are acting violent and aren't backing down, then they are going to get hurt. Should a gun have been used? Cannot say, did the person act like he had a gun? Suspicious behavior of some sort? Without all the facts, I'll boil it down to likely being a thug-like black man who was causing trouble. Acting like a thug and being violent or acting in such a way that threatens someone is going to get you in trouble with the law. It could have been a very racist cop, sure... who knows.
Most of society doesn't give any trouble to a black man or woman who blends right in with society. Dresses acceptably, holds steady employment, like in an office or something. These individuals are also never the ones who get shot by 'racist' cops. A racist cop will give problems to anyone of such a race, but you never hear about that. Why? Because these people don't give cops problems, so the cops don't give them any trouble either. Welcome to life.

Act like a productive member of society, or act like a thug and be treated as such.

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This was to be posted in response to this thread, then discovered it was locked after I pressed submit.

This may be asking to be banned, but I'll argue that that shouldn't be the case. I was going to post it in OT as it truly belongs more in that thread imho, though after that thread I knew it would be an instant ban.

****Mods****, treat this as a serious topic of discussion please, and that is the reason I posted it in this forum. Racism and classism can be dangerous topics of discussion, but this kind of topic needs to be discussed, and my reasoning is all in the above paragraphs. This isn't about racism at all, but rather the idea of people stating racism exists when in reality people only dislike those individuals because they are leading lifestyles that are the exact opposite of that of a productive member of society. We as a society need to press this topic on more, because we can get over this hurdle in life... eventually. People just need to wake up (and welfare needs to be drastically overhauled), and realize that for society to be a good society, everyone needs to be putting in effort to be an acceptable member of society.

And before anyone replies, I'll NEVER use the word African-American. Unless that individual has direct lineage from Africa, they are no more African-American than I am European-American. Yes, that is fully reasonable too. It's the damn politically-correct morality police that push that bullshit, because 'black' is apparently such a strong word. Why? It's only describing the color of their skin. You don't hear anyone calling people that hail from South Africa as African-American, but dammit they are just as much African as that random black guy, especially if they have grandparents from that country.

But we as a society need to also move beyond the issue of skin color, period. Using it more day to day is the first step. Get used to it as a simply description. Nobody gets upset at referring to someone as blonde or brunette. It's a descriptor, something that helps in identifying someone to anyone who doesn't know the person in question. But we need to move beyond the idea of any descriptor actually defining someone. Nobody races fuss about any black individual who works a 9-5 job at an office. Why? Because they blend right in. Sure they look different on the outside, but most civilized folk fully accept this. Who cares what they look like as long as they act like, and live the life of a productive member of society. That's all we need, and all we a humans care about. Our tribal nature works for and against us every day. We want to belong, but we want to see reasons for others we do not trust to not belong. Religion, race, class, its all the same in the end - they are ways for people to group like and different, so that everyone can belong in some group, but in the end that means there will be groups that have conflict with each other, and everyone in the group immediately dislikes the entirety of the 'opposing' group. Referring to my stance in the first half of this post as 'classism' was a little wrong. I'm not classist, in that I don't hate poor or rich people, as long as they are productive. I'll hate a rich person who does jack shit just as much as a poor person who does jack shit. It's purely the act of laziness, or in the case of the thugs/ghetto, the act of violence. Anyone who acts out in violence against others for such arbitrary reasons is completely retarded and doesn't get the bigger picture.

So, hopefully this doesn't get me banned, and I suspect this'll most likely get locked either way. I mostly just needed to say this, kind of venting. Society annoys and pisses me off at times, at how backwards we all really are. So few people in society actually accept we are animals, but yet... look at us. We show more animal nature than our damn pets on most occasions.

So I should tell my wife (31 y.o. registered nurse urbanite yuppie) that the only reason she gets racist things said to her because she's such a thug?
 

destrekor

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Originally posted by: glenn1
Originally posted by: destrekor
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So I should tell my wife (31 y.o. registered nurse urbanite yuppie) that the only reason she gets racist things said to her because she's such a thug?

sigh

you quoted the entire post, and yet only take a few lines, at most, to reply to?

i get it. racism is real. no fucking duh.
I'm only speaking of a specific topic here, which does have a broader base than some of you seem to be thinking. But it is not to say that racism doesn't exist.
The title of the thread, as stated already, is to simply provoke conversation, and get the curious into the thread.

And most of the meat of this topic was a reply to a different topic, so the context is kind of dead. I probably should change the title to something more appropriate, but I'm leaving it. It's what I came up with when struggling for a topic regarding racism, and well... it works apparently.
Just everyone is taking things so damn literally it makes me head hurt. No wonder racism still exists. Everyone is too damned troubled to 1) read things to a full understanding, and 2) "read in-between the lines"
take something at face value, and boom, here we are. way to prove to me that we are so capable

oh, and you're in Virginia as per your profile. There's your problem... live in a state that claimed to be part of the Confederacy and where said states STILL have the strongest racism beliefs in the country.
Yes, there is still all too real racism rampant in said part of the country, and even in parts of the North, but the majority of the problem is still very much stemming from the blacks who are bringing the problem on themselves. Continue living the thug ghetto lifestyle, and you break down all of the progress for the rest of the population.
A LOT of the very real racism would vanish if the scum of our society cleaned themselves up and took the burden off of the rest of the hard working blacks in society.

And we see that whole problem again in the Latino community. Some are living a very ghetto life, while others are just freeloading off of our country and living here illegally, providing some very real, and sometimes deadly consequences for those of that population that ARE here legally, and are hard working. Some of the most successful still have trouble they encounter on a daily basis.

If we all helped to clean up the problem of the scum, the hatred and injustice would start to diminish.

And yes, true racism would still exist, but as time went on, those type of folks would slowly diminish in numbers as the generations went by. That's happening now. Almost all of the white population was basically racist in the south at one time, and hell, even in the North. But as time goes by, those family lines that just breed racism are slowly diminishing and people are waking up. It'll take a LONG time for it to disappear, but no one can argue that the number of racists today is the same as it was 50, 100 years ago. It might not be going away as fast as we like, but we cannot change something that is a family affair that quickly. And the ghetto scum aren't helping that progress whatsoever.
 

feralkid

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Originally posted by: destrekor

The title of the thread, as stated already, is to simply provoke conversation, and get the curious into the thread.


You say that only after it was proven 100% weapons-grade Balonium.

:roll:


I think you need to do some actual research, gather your thoughts and try again. Maybe sleep on it first.

;)

 

OrByte

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so basically you hate the ghetto "thug" lifestyle.

ok sounds good.

I still think racism would exist even without the "thugs"

The issue is simply too complex to single out one particular aspect

Plus, people will always be intolerant of those that are different.

btw - people of all races are capable of living the "thug" lifestyle. Whites too. :)
 

spidey07

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Originally posted by: OrByte
so basically you hate the ghetto "thug" lifestyle.

ok sounds good.

I still think racism would exist even without the "thugs"

The issue is simply too complex to single out one particular aspect

Plus, people will always be intolerant of those that are different.

btw - people of all races are capable of living the "thug" lifestyle. Whites too. :)

You hit on some good points - particularly the anthropological aspect that humans/primates simply don't like those that don't look like them. That fact cannot be denied but society has succeeded in overcoming that. As has America and our Constitution and it's amendments.

But you also cannot deny that MOST white people aren't racist in anyway but MOST black people are via the victim mentality. That is what perpetuates racism in America, a self fulfilling prophecy.
 

blackangst1

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Well thought out and said. I agree for the most part. I especially love this: "I'll NEVER use the word African-American. Unless that individual has direct lineage from Africa, they are no more African-American than I am European-American.". Youre exactly correct. We perpetuate rasism by classifying people by...race. If you've got dual citizenship with an African country and the USA, you are African-American. If you were born here, youre American.

I think I'll call myself Finnish-American since Im 3rd generation American from Finland...
 

Farang

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Racism definitely exists, thug culture aside. You must be living in a cave to think it doesn't.

edit: and I'm middle class white. I recognize it in the way other whites and I talk to one another, as well as what I see in the news and whatnot.
 

destrekor

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Originally posted by: Farang
Racism definitely exists, thug culture aside. You must be living in a cave to think it doesn't.

edit: and I'm middle class white. I recognize it in the way other whites and I talk to one another, as well as what I see in the news and whatnot.

someone didn't read the replies.

and me and my friends also joke about things that could be misconstrued as racism if taken out of context.
There are stereotypical/racist jokes, and then there is bleeding heart racism. Big difference.
I don't fear black people, don't hate them, but I will joke about the thugs that cause trouble in society and tarnish their progress.
No race or type of person is safe from me and my friends joking. The overly religious, the Jewish in general, blacks, asians, latinos, ass-backwards white people, southerners in general, etc etc etc. All topics for good, not for the ears of neo-hippies jokes. But the difference is between a joke, aka something you know only applies to select individuals that by any stretch of the imagination the norm for that population, and racism is quite easily distinguished amongst that style of conversation.
You can tell when someone truly believes every single thing they state applies to the whole of the population. Yes jokes can cross lines, but crossing lines is fun. But... that's not everyone's style. I think I get it from my grandpa and from my friends who have the twisted style of humor, especially funny when a good portion of them, or their family, fits quite a few of those categories mentioned earlier.
:)
 

Farang

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Originally posted by: destrekor
Originally posted by: Farang
Racism definitely exists, thug culture aside. You must be living in a cave to think it doesn't.

edit: and I'm middle class white. I recognize it in the way other whites and I talk to one another, as well as what I see in the news and whatnot.

someone didn't read the replies.

yea bud I'm already working on reading a novel and it's a lot more interesting than yours
 

destrekor

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Originally posted by: Farang
Originally posted by: destrekor
Originally posted by: Farang
Racism definitely exists, thug culture aside. You must be living in a cave to think it doesn't.

edit: and I'm middle class white. I recognize it in the way other whites and I talk to one another, as well as what I see in the news and whatnot.

someone didn't read the replies.

yea bud I'm already working on reading a novel and it's a lot more interesting than yours

most are.

don't worry, I'm writing a real novel that you'll enjoy. To be finished in 10 or 20 years though, but it'll be good.

The OP though... well, you haven't seen some of my other posts have you? I think I've made one or two that might just rival the greatest joke ever told in length, or at least I think I have, cannot remember. ;)
I type and type and sweet jesus I know I don't know how to summarize all that well. :p So I keep typing and by time I finish, damn they end up like a novel.

Oh and read my edit to my original reply to you.
 

MikeMike

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I might get banned, but racism exists because there are multiple types of one race...
blacks have
blacks
ghetto
nlggers

whites have
white
trailer trash
redneck

mexican have
mexicans
illegals
spics

its the same in every race.




Yes , you might. Your post is being discussed by the mods.


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Sinsear

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Originally posted by: dlx22
that thread should have been posted in politics and news to begin with, posting serious topics in OT just begs for comments that people may not necessarily believe in, but just post to be funny/sarcastic.


To tell the truth I really didnt see much racist stuff at all posted in the other thread. But I did see some of the usual suspects posting about:

Police are shooting innocent people on a regular basis
 

Zebo

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I know lots of black rednecks out here in Texas. One of my fishing buddies Charlie drives a F250 lives on 80 acres chews tobacco (discussing habit BTW) and is black as tar. He was also an officer in Vietnam and his kids are all red necks too. His friend Glenn who is a rodeo clown and super redneck.

I'm from Costa Mesa California originally and it's a sight to see.
 

eternalone

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Lock the thread already, Op obviously has issues with people of color and is trying to mask it under the term of "Thugs", and people are starting to use the racial slurs, I think its reasonable to say this thread will not be productive and should be locked.

Please Mods Thank You.