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Questions about asking someone out

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Zysoclaplem

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Have you ever just taken a chance and just walked up to someone who you found attractive and asked them out for a cup of coffee or something? What happened?
I am always afraid of being punched or turned down in an extremely aggressive manner.
But I am single and tired of of looking online.
 
Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Have you ever just taken a chance and just walked up to someone who you found attractive and asked them out for a cup of coffee or something? What happened?
I am always afraid of being punched or turned down in an extremely aggressive manner.
But I am single and tired of of looking online.
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Looking for love in the land of the amazons?
 
for every 10 times you get rejected, you might get a good response once. i say go for it every time.

i would say getting punched out would definitely be a worst-case scenario! 😛
 
You're a gay guy right? Yeah, I'd be afraid of getting punched too...most sane guys would probably just turn you down politely, but there's enough homophobe nutjobs out there that might take it as an affront to their manhood or something.
 
Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Have you ever just taken a chance and just walked up to someone who you found attractive and asked them out for a cup of coffee or something? What happened?
I am always afraid of being punched or turned down in an extremely aggressive manner.
But I am single and tired of of looking online.
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The worst that is going to happen is they'll say no. They might even laugh a little. So what? At least you won't be wondering for the rest of days if she would have.

I did it one time. Turned out we were together for 9 months, and I had some of the most amazing experiances of my life with her.
 
Originally posted by: meltdown75
for every 10 times you get rejected, you might get a good response once. i say go for it every time.

i would say getting punched out would definitely be a worst-case scenario! 😛
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It's more like 100 in 1 for the OP.. straight men do not take kindly to gay men asking them out.
 
Originally posted by: CorporateRecreation
Originally posted by: meltdown75
for every 10 times you get rejected, you might get a good response once. i say go for it every time.

i would say getting punched out would definitely be a worst-case scenario! 😛
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It's more like 100 in 1 for the OP.. straight men do not take kindly to gay men asking them out.
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:Q oh. well in that case, yeah. i guess if you were in a gay bar you'd be all set OP. i wouldn't recommend it otherwise. 🙂
 
yeah you won't ever get punched. you'll either get "i have a boyfriend" or "no thanks" or just a sour "no".

don't worry about it and talk to the females.

thank you.
 
I asked this girl out the other night. Here is how the conversation went:
Me: Would you like to go out some time?
Her: Well, do you like sex?
Me: Uh, yeah.
Her: Do you like travel?
Me: uhhh, yeah.
Her: Then take a fvcking hike.
 
Originally posted by: CorporateRecreation
Originally posted by: meltdown75
for every 10 times you get rejected, you might get a good response once. i say go for it every time.

i would say getting punched out would definitely be a worst-case scenario! 😛
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It's more like 100 in 1 for the OP.. straight men do not take kindly to gay men asking them out.
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I concur. I personally wouldn't punch a guy in the face for asking me out, but I can name about 10 people I know off the top of my head that would.
 
Originally posted by: meltdown75
Originally posted by: CorporateRecreation
Originally posted by: meltdown75
for every 10 times you get rejected, you might get a good response once. i say go for it every time.

i would say getting punched out would definitely be a worst-case scenario! 😛
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It's more like 100 in 1 for the OP.. straight men do not take kindly to gay men asking them out.
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:Q oh. well in that case, yeah. i guess if you were in a gay bar you'd be all set OP. i wouldn't recommend it otherwise. 🙂
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Never cared for bars or clubs. I know what kind of people dwell in those places and it's nothing I want any part of.
 
Originally posted by: Reel
I asked this girl out the other night. Here is how the conversation went:
Me: Would you like to go out some time?
Her: Well, do you like sex?
Me: Uh, yeah.
Her: Do you like travel?
Me: uhhh, yeah.
Her: Then take a fvcking hike.
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Nice.
 
Yes but usually not on the first time we meet and trust me it takes lots of effort on my part to finally say it and yes i was turn down.
One of the things i hate is not knowing if they are single or not before asking, because if they are not single there is no point in asking.
 
Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Originally posted by: meltdown75
Originally posted by: CorporateRecreation
Originally posted by: meltdown75
for every 10 times you get rejected, you might get a good response once. i say go for it every time.

i would say getting punched out would definitely be a worst-case scenario! 😛
Click to expand...

It's more like 100 in 1 for the OP.. straight men do not take kindly to gay men asking them out.
Click to expand...

:Q oh. well in that case, yeah. i guess if you were in a gay bar you'd be all set OP. i wouldn't recommend it otherwise. 🙂
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Never cared for bars or clubs. I know what kind of people dwell in those places and it's nothing I want any part of.
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i don't know of any other places gay men gather. 😕
how about a rest stop on the interstate? 😉 😛
 
I've cold asked women I've never talked to or even seen before. I got a lot of rejection, lots of boyfriends (whether they were real or not is irrelevant) and one date. Girl turned out to be a retard...but such is life.
 
Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Have you ever just taken a chance and just walked up to someone who you found attractive and asked them out for a cup of coffee or something? What happened?
I am always afraid of being punched or turned down in an extremely aggressive manner.
But I am single and tired of of looking online.
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Check this out, I used to be afraid of doing it until I was about 20. After the first few rejections it starts getting easier and easier to ask chicks out on dates and stuff. I have been rejected so many times, and have heard them all (boyfriend bomb, lesbian, leaving town, I hate you, etc...). Think of it like fishing though, sure you might be fishing in a stream with alot of boots, but eventually you may catch a fish and it may even turn out to be a 12lbs bass, or in some situations a 2 lbs mullet 🙁

Either way, just ask a chick out for some drinks at a bar sometime. They usually like to do that and you can usually gauge if she likes you by how she starts acting towards you at the end of the night. If she is rude (like the date I went on with the chick I met before my current one, that punk biatch) just dont talk to her again, and shoot spaghetti out of your fingertips at her (Dane cook reference). I recently got a chick 3 weeks ago without even freakin trying, and am having slices of poontang pie all the time!

Just dont be shy, life is too short to always be worrying about being rejected. Have a :beer: , talk to some women, and get some action satisfaction.
 
Tip: If you have a massive dong, try not wearing any pants or underwear when you ask them, that way they will know you have a massive dong. If that doesn't work, say "Did you happen to notice my massive dong?"
 
Originally posted by: PingSpike
Tip: If you have a massive dong, try not wearing any pants or underwear when you ask them, that way they will know you have a massive dong. If that doesn't work, say "Did you happen to notice my massive dong?"
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And if my dong isn't so massive?
I'll just wear a neon sign pointing to my ass that flashes the words: "Open for business!"


 
Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Originally posted by: PingSpike
Tip: If you have a massive dong, try not wearing any pants or underwear when you ask them, that way they will know you have a massive dong. If that doesn't work, say "Did you happen to notice my massive dong?"
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And if my dong isn't so massive?
I'll just wear a neon sign pointing to my ass that flashes the words: "Open for business!"
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See, you know how to do this just fine...I'm not sure why you aren't having more success.
 
Originally posted by: PingSpike
Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Originally posted by: PingSpike
Tip: If you have a massive dong, try not wearing any pants or underwear when you ask them, that way they will know you have a massive dong. If that doesn't work, say "Did you happen to notice my massive dong?"
Click to expand...

And if my dong isn't so massive?
I'll just wear a neon sign pointing to my ass that flashes the words: "Open for business!"
Click to expand...

See, you know how to do this just fine...I'm not sure why you aren't having more success.
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I haven't tried yet. You should write a book about these things. I'll be sure to write in a testimonial of how your book lead me to success. That is, after my arms heal. You see, I will find that soon after I started using your tips, a group of local drunk cowboys will decide to break most of the bones in my body with a rather large graphite bat one of them happened to have in the back of his pickup truck. 😛
 
I wonder on an average week, how many times does an attractive girl gets asked out? Single and Not single.
Any ladies here on ATOT that could give some input on that?
 
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