Question: Would you call your ex's mom to wish her Happy Mothers Day??

Oct 9, 1999
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My ex and I were in a relationship for a year and a half and then she broke it off to pursue her own interests. She and I dont talk, partly due to issues between us. I dont trust her, and she left me after what was an eternity of me trying to make things work with her (and she created more problems when one was fixed).

Anyway apparntely she called my mom to wish her happy mothers day. I havent called her mom and i wouldnt, her mom doesnt want to talk to me, so why call. But what I am surprised is that she called my mom and wished her happy mothers day. My mom really liked my ex and she used to get her stuff and she was like a 'daughter'. Well then my ex broke up with me and she lost that part. I mean she got so much from me and my family, love, respect etc etc, all that was lost when she went after her own selfish needs. I dont know what her intention is now? I mean she is dating some guy right now and i dont give a fvck. But it feels like wants to protray to my mom and dad that she is still that 'sweet girl' that they remember, yeah true, but deep down she is something so different.

so would you call your ex's mom to wish her happy mothers day.
 

Rudee

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Apr 23, 2000
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Definitely not the right thing to do. That's absurd. Your ex sounds like she has unresolved issues to do such a thing.
 

BobDaMenkey

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Originally posted by: Rudee
Definitely not the right thing to do. That's absurd.

Especially if your ex's mom didn't like you. No way in hell I'd call my ex's mom to wish her a happy mothers day. Any of my ex's.
 

b0mbrman

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Originally posted by: TheGoodGuy
what about your ex calling your mom??? any feelings.. especially after she broke up with you.

It's happened to me...and it was also ridiculous...
 

Goosemaster

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"Hi, Mrs. Robinson? I was just calling to wish you a happy mothers day and thank you for acting so cordiallly when I was fvking the ever living sh!t out of your daughter. I know you absolutely hate my guts and wanted to let you know that it really meant a lot to me."
:D
 

LongAce

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I've had several conversations with my friends about this and it seems that females think it's the right thing to do, calling your ex's mother to wish them mother's day. Also, come visit them on their B-days. It's just weird to me and if I break up with someone, I'm not going to be that close to her family.
 

KarenMarie

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a few of my ex's got to be friendly with my mom.... as did the ex's of my siblings.

it was not unheard of for them to keep in touch with my mom and i would not think anything of it if any one of them were to contact my mom on mother's day or on her birthday.

 

Robor

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In the right situation like where all parties remained in good standings I'd say sure but in your situation I would say no.