Question for people in a relationship

[JohnCU]

Do you and your significant other go out with other people a lot (this may not apply to everyone since I'm in high school)? Last weekend, my girlfriend and I went out with four other people bowling. We had fun but she was paying more attention to her friends than me. This weekend, I find out we're going out with seven other people (same ones as last week but a few more added). None of these people are in a relationship, so she and I are the only ones who are a couple. I told her that I didn't mind, but I really wanted to be by ourselves tonight.

 

[DAPUNISHER]

Don't smother her by being to "greedy" about your time with her. Go, have fun, hang with the gang, show her you don't mind "sharing" her, but let her know how much you care about her and that you treasure your time alone together and would like to make advanced plans with her to do so. Give her a set date so she can plan group activities for another time.

 

[minendo]

I think your problem is that you are involved with the "highschool dating scene." The "highschool dating scene" is just like girls going to the bathroom, they always need to go in groups. Plan on going out in groups often, but do try to fit in some nights out with just the two of you.