Question for all unmarried ATOTers...
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Bateluer
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MovingTarget
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Protip: Don't even think about planning a wedding when your fiancée is studying for the bar exam. Worst. Timing. Ever.
Not waiting for anything, just don't want to be married at this moment. Otherwise I would be.
ravana
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DainBramaged
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I've been dating a girl for about 1 1/2 years. I'm pretty optimistic, but I still plan on waiting another year or so just to make sure.
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When hell freezes over I might consider it again. Short of Universal Armageddon, nothing comes to mind. It took me a long time to get my head on straight after my last marriage. I like being sane and calm.
middlehead
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I do not plan to get married, it's not at all on my daily radar.
That's not to say I refuse to get married; if I meet a woman that I think I'll still want to be with in 60 years, I'm open to the idea.
That's not to say I refuse to get married; if I meet a woman that I think I'll still want to be with in 60 years, I'm open to the idea.
I'm not anti-marriage, but I also don't see any reason for me to get hitched right now. I have no real desire to have kids which is really the only thing that would absolutely make me want to get married. My current girlfriend seems like she has real long-term potential, but we only met this past February so why rush?
I also recently bought my first house, and let me tell you I LOVED the fact that I didn't have to compromise or negotiate with another person on what I was looking for. Location, house size, features, etc were all what I wanted.
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shortylickens
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I thought we had a Love & Relationship forum.
And I also thought this question was answered in a thread there recently.
And I also thought this question was answered in a thread there recently.
FelixDeCat
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ya... maybe you are right... should be moved... L&R totally slipped my mind.
This.
I am not looking for it, nor am I completely against it. I have not found a good reason to yet, and until I do I don't see the point. I see many more negatives to marriage than positives, but that's not to say I won't do it. There are a few things for me personally that have to happen before marriage is even an option though (like graduating college, a steady job, etc).
InflatableBuddha
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InflatableBuddha
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Not planning to get married necessarily, but if I did, it would be with a woman I've dated for a few years, lived with and am sexually compatible with. We would both need to be out of full-time school and working.
Also, I would look to see whether her parents are married or divorced...if it's the latter, I would think twice.
Also, I would look to see whether her parents are married or divorced...if it's the latter, I would think twice.
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