Qualities of the perfect spouse ?

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Lola

open
kind
supportive
makes me laugh
strong( as in, will be there for me when i am at my worst)
honest

He is not perfect at all, but is perfect for me.
 

TheSlamma

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We are not married yet, but the reasons we are together is.

We don't have to be together all the time, she has her friends and fam, I have mine.
She doesn't smoke
She doesn't want children either
She is from the burbs, I am from the city, she accepts our different views on things.
We like Zoo's, museums, IMAX
We are both practical and do not live beyound our means

Those are some of the things. The biggest though is we do not try to change and mold each other into something we are not.
 

Fraggable

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My almost-g/f is:

Smart
Cute
Sweet
Compassionate
Caring
Patient (more than me)
Christian
Athletic

There's nothing else I could ask for.

And she's NOT 43, dangit!
 

PingSpike

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I think most men want a feminine woman, who is leveled headed, doesn't cheat on them and supports them.
 

OOBradm

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1) Optimistic <--- crucial
2) active <---- in SOMETHING, it is tough to find a female nowadays that is actively involved in something... ie. has their own life
3) has the ability to see things from anothers perspective
4) attractive
 

MasonLuke

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Originally posted by: JEDI
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
what's on your list ?

ok, i'll be the first to spiral this thread into the gutter:
likes lube
swallows



maybe i old fashion, but i dont think i want my wife to do those things. gf and booty calls are a different story. the first quality in a perfect wife for me is whether or not she has the qualities of being a good mother.
 

Anghang

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Originally posted by: DaShen
BTW, Lists are not good. When you are mature enough, you will know someone is compatable when you see it. You won't need to keep a list.

Originally posted by: DaShen

Marriage takes work.

:thumbsup:
 

GasX

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Feb 8, 2001
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a virgin who will become a dirty filthy whore in the bedroom and a good mother. Sharing similar interests to mine is a plus.
 

Chryso

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Originally posted by: MasonLuke
Originally posted by: JEDI
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
what's on your list ?

ok, i'll be the first to spiral this thread into the gutter:
likes lube
swallows

maybe i old fashion, but i dont think i want my wife to do those things. gf and booty calls are a different story. the first quality in a perfect wife for me is whether or not she has the qualities of being a good mother.

Wives usually frown upon having a girlfriend after you get married.
 

iwantanewcomputer

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Originally posted by: Fraggable
My almost-g/f is:

Smart
Cute
Sweet
Compassionate
Caring
Patient (more than me)
Christian
Athletic

There's nothing else I could ask for.

And she's NOT 43, dangit!

we never said she was, but she looks it in those pics. Don't forget: Her biological clock is ticking...for now.
 
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Lola

Originally posted by: Chryso
Originally posted by: MasonLuke
Originally posted by: JEDI
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
what's on your list ?

ok, i'll be the first to spiral this thread into the gutter:
likes lube
swallows

maybe i old fashion, but i dont think i want my wife to do those things. gf and booty calls are a different story. the first quality in a perfect wife for me is whether or not she has the qualities of being a good mother.

I think that a wife should be able to be both... a "good" wife should still be able to turn her husband on when they are alone. She still can be fun and wild in bed AND take care of the kids too.