PSA: Spoiled != A good thing

Agentbolt

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Had this conversation with a friend the other day:

Her: There's plenty of cute guys around, but they're all deadbeats. I just want a nice, cute guy who's going to spoil me.
Me: Spoiled is a bad thing, you realize that, right?
Her: Well, not THAT way, I just... you know, the good kind of spoiled. Where they treat me like a princess.
Me: You're not a princess. You take tickets at the movie theatre.
Her: You're such a jerk!!

Just in case anyone is curious:

having the character or disposition harmed by pampering or oversolicitous attention; "a spoiled child"

My friend isn't an atypical dumb bimbo. A staggeringly large % of women seem to want that kind of treatment. You see girls looking to be spoiled in commercials, movies, personals ads, whatever, they use the word consistently. It's a bad thing to be spoiled, geniuses. Make your own money and buy your own stuff and pamper yourself. I know it's a really out-there concept, but it might be slightly more fulfilling than only putting out when your man buys a suitably large piece of jewelry for you. Unless of course you actually ARE a prostitute, in which case, congrats! :thumbsup:

/rant
 

ColdFusion718

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Originally posted by: Agentbolt
Had this conversation with a friend the other day:

Her: There's plenty of cute guys around, but they're all deadbeats. I just want a nice, cute guy who's going to spoil me.
Me: Spoiled is a bad thing, you realize that, right?
Her: Well, not THAT way, I just... you know, the good kind of spoiled. Where they treat me like a princess.
Me: You're not a princess. You take tickets at the movie theatre.
Her: You're such a jerk!!

Just in case anyone is curious:

having the character or disposition harmed by pampering or oversolicitous attention; "a spoiled child"

My friend isn't an atypical dumb bimbo. A staggeringly large % of women seem to want that kind of treatment. You see girls looking to be spoiled in commercials, movies, personals ads, whatever, they use the word consistently. It's a bad thing to be spoiled, geniuses. Make your own money and buy your own stuff and pamper yourself. I know it's a really out-there concept, but it might be slightly more fulfilling than only putting out when your man buys a suitably large piece of jewelry for you. Unless of course you actually ARE a prostitute, in which case, congrats! :thumbsup:

/rant

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Estrella

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Originally posted by: Agentbolt
Had this conversation with a friend the other day:

Her: There's plenty of cute guys around, but they're all deadbeats. I just want a nice, cute guy who's going to spoil me.
Me: Spoiled is a bad thing, you realize that, right?
Her: Well, not THAT way, I just... you know, the good kind of spoiled. Where they treat me like a princess.
Me: You're not a princess. You take tickets at the movie theatre.
Her: You're such a jerk!!

Just in case anyone is curious:

having the character or disposition harmed by pampering or oversolicitous attention; "a spoiled child"

My friend isn't an atypical dumb bimbo. A staggeringly large % of women seem to want that kind of treatment. You see girls looking to be spoiled in commercials, movies, personals ads, whatever, they use the word consistently. It's a bad thing to be spoiled, geniuses. Make your own money and buy your own stuff and pamper yourself. I know it's a really out-there concept, but it might be slightly more fulfilling than only putting out when your man buys a suitably large piece of jewelry for you. Unless of course you actually ARE a prostitute, in which case, congrats! :thumbsup:

/rant
QFT
 

Lonyo

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And they want equality too.
If they want equality, then maybe they can spoil US sometimes too.
 

Descartes

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Eh, that's something a lot of women say. I think you took the immature chauvinist route. A lot of times they just want someone to "take care of them", but that often just means someone that makes them feel "special", etc.

I think you blew it.
 

91TTZ

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Originally posted by: Agentbolt
Had this conversation with a friend the other day:

Her: There's plenty of cute guys around, but they're all deadbeats. I just want a nice, cute guy who's going to spoil me.
Me: Spoiled is a bad thing, you realize that, right?
Her: Well, not THAT way, I just... you know, the good kind of spoiled. Where they treat me like a princess.
Me: You're not a princess. You take tickets at the movie theatre.
Her: You're such a jerk!!

Just in case anyone is curious:

having the character or disposition harmed by pampering or oversolicitous attention; "a spoiled child"

My friend isn't an atypical dumb bimbo. A staggeringly large % of women seem to want that kind of treatment. You see girls looking to be spoiled in commercials, movies, personals ads, whatever, they use the word consistently. It's a bad thing to be spoiled, geniuses. Make your own money and buy your own stuff and pamper yourself. I know it's a really out-there concept, but it might be slightly more fulfilling than only putting out when your man buys a suitably large piece of jewelry for you. Unless of course you actually ARE a prostitute, in which case, congrats! :thumbsup:

/rant


She sounds high-maintenance. Good job avoiding that.
 
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SlitheryDee

Originally posted by: Descartes
Eh, that's something a lot of women say. I think you took the immature chauvinist route. A lot of times they just want someone to "take care of them", but that often just means someone that makes them feel "special", etc.

I think you blew it.

Wouldn't you feel "special" if someone took care of you and treated to like a prin...er... royalty? It's not bad to want to feel special. What's bad is what some girls require in order to feel "special".
 

doze

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pics?

...and she was probably hinting that you can get in her pants by treating her nice
 

Agentbolt

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Eh, that's something a lot of women say. I think you took the immature chauvinist route. A lot of times they just want someone to "take care of them", but that often just means someone that makes them feel "special", etc.

I think you blew it

I think you're a retard. Glad we're on the same page!

First, I'm already dating someone. Second, this girl is fat and not remotely attractive. Third, even if she was hot and I was single, I sincerely doubt I'd want to date someone who professed right off the bat to wanting cute guys to spoil her.

Well done, grasshopper. Any other insightful commentary?

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Bill Brasky

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Originally posted by: ColdFusion718
Originally posted by: Agentbolt
Had this conversation with a friend the other day:

Her: There's plenty of cute guys around, but they're all deadbeats. I just want a nice, cute guy who's going to spoil me.
Me: Spoiled is a bad thing, you realize that, right?
Her: Well, not THAT way, I just... you know, the good kind of spoiled. Where they treat me like a princess.
Me: You're not a princess. You take tickets at the movie theatre.
Her: You're such a jerk!!

Just in case anyone is curious:

having the character or disposition harmed by pampering or oversolicitous attention; "a spoiled child"

My friend isn't an atypical dumb bimbo. A staggeringly large % of women seem to want that kind of treatment. You see girls looking to be spoiled in commercials, movies, personals ads, whatever, they use the word consistently. It's a bad thing to be spoiled, geniuses. Make your own money and buy your own stuff and pamper yourself. I know it's a really out-there concept, but it might be slightly more fulfilling than only putting out when your man buys a suitably large piece of jewelry for you. Unless of course you actually ARE a prostitute, in which case, congrats! :thumbsup:

/rant

:thumbsup:
I LOLed when I thought about the look on her face. I bet that was priceless.
 

Isla

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Spoiled:

A man who expects you to work just as hard as he does for less money, to forgive him for being unkind to you because he was tired or in a bad mood, and STILL get sex on a regular basis.
 

sixone

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Where did she say she wasn't willing to offer the same treatment?

Maybe she was just hoping to get what she's willing to give.
 

91TTZ

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Originally posted by: sixone
Where did she say she wasn't willing to offer the same treatment?

Maybe she was just hoping to get what she's willing to give.

lol, yeah, right.


I've never heard a generous person come off that way. Never.
 

Isla

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Originally posted by: theprodigalrebel
You're not a princess. You take tickets at the movie theatre.

LMFAO!

In which case, she's still just a little college age baby and you should probably consider her potential. Will she always be taking tickets at the movie theatre? Or will she be running rings around you 10 years from now?

My EE husband thinks he is superior, but I get all the love. I feel sorry for guys who don't understand that there is more to life than a fat wallet.''


My husband has a great job that pays REALLY well and has great benefits, but he is miserable. I am a school teacher, my families love me and I love what I do. This makes it a LOT easier for me to just blow him off when he acts like he is better than me. :)
 

Descartes

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Originally posted by: Agentbolt
Eh, that's something a lot of women say. I think you took the immature chauvinist route. A lot of times they just want someone to "take care of them", but that often just means someone that makes them feel "special", etc.

I think you blew it

I think you're a retard. Glad we're on the same page!

First, I'm already dating someone. Second, this girl is fat and not remotely attractive. Third, even if she was hot and I was single, I sincerely doubt I'd want to date someone who professed right off the bat to wanting cute guys to spoil her.

Well done, grasshopper. Any other insightful commentary?

Actually, I think you just proved my point.
 

sixone

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Originally posted by: 91TTZ
Originally posted by: sixone
Where did she say she wasn't willing to offer the same treatment?

Maybe she was just hoping to get what she's willing to give.

lol, yeah, right.

I've never heard a generous person come off that way. Never.

So that makes it impossible? You have much to learn.