promise ring?????????

Ciber

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#1- what exactly is a promise ring?

#2- what does this ring mean?

#3- why does she want one?


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EDIT *only serious replies please, stupid NEFFING idiots like yobarman and uber neuman dont bother replying.
 

Kelvrick

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<< #1- what exactly is a promise ring?

#2- what does this ring mean?

#3- why does she want one?


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I wanna know too. I think I might run into this situatino sooner or later.
 

Namlemez

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I think its like a promise to marry sorta thing. Pre-engagement to some degree. Just another thing the jeweler's thought up for you to buy :)
 

iamwiz82

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<< #1- what exactly is a promise ring?

#2- what does this ring mean?

#3- why does she want one?


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to collect your soul even before you propose. It makes women feel as if you are commiting without saying "Will you marry me?"
 

Ciber

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<< are you in 3rd grade? >>



umm, if you paid attention you would notice that she wants the ring and NOT me, therefore it's obviously her idea and not mine.
 

Emulex

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promise rings are pre-engagement, vows to remain true to each other exclusively, typically a solitaire diamond (small one) or fancy other ring.

Might as well go all the way get the real mccoy if you've gotten that far eh?
 

Zenmervolt

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Answers:
#1) A promise ring is a pre-engagement ring, it basically represents a promise to become engaged at some point in the future.

#2) The ring would mean that you intend to become engaged at some future time.

#3) I have no idea, women are hardly my strong suit.

Zenmervolt
 

rgwalt

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A promise ring can mean two things, so I'll give you both definitions.

Def 1:

A promise ring is a token that a man/boy gives his woman/girl whom he is dating. It is a symbol saying they are in an exclusive dating relationship, and plan to take that relationship further one day. Typically a promise ring is given when a real engagement isn't practical for whatever reason (under 18, living in seperate places, no money, only been going together for a short time). She wants one as a symbol of your love and commitment to her.

Def 2:

My GF wore a promise ring, but as a promise of chastity.

Ryan
 

iamwiz82

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<< My GF wore a promise ring, but as a promise of chastity. >>



that couldnt have been fun.
 

crabbyapple1

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I've never bought my GF a promise ring. But have bought her rings. Like I've stated in another thread regarding relationships, the woman always wants something to look forward to. If she sees nothing in the future or is not assured of it, then she's gone. A promise ring IMO, is another way for a man to show that he believes they will be together in the future. A promise of trust and faithfulness.

The rings I've bought my GF are a mikimoto pearl ring, 2 24K rings from asia, and some silver tiffany rings. Yeah some of yo umay think it's crazy to blow all that money on jewelry, but it sure beats blowing it on chocolate or flowers which don't last. ;)
 

rgwalt

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<< My GF wore a promise ring, but as a promise of chastity. >>



that couldnt have been fun.
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Don't know what to say but this:

;) :eek:

Ryan
 

iamwiz82

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<< My GF wore a promise ring, but as a promise of chastity. >>



that couldnt have been fun.
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Don't know what to say but this:

;) :eek:

Ryan
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are you saying that the ring was removed? ;)
 

crabbyapple1

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Sorry about that dude. All I gotta say is in my relationships, sex is always on the table. not literally. ;) well sometimes.
My past 2 GFs were both virgins and I tapped both of them on the first night out. I'm not trying to brag about it but I do want to make one statement.

COLLEGE RULEZ!!!! I'm now with my last GF for 3 years now. Sh1t reminds me we got an aniversary coming up! :D
 
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She wants you to start paying for sex. And the 'promise' that comes along with that ring is that you'll keep paying her. Think about it.
 

rgwalt

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<< My GF wore a promise ring, but as a promise of chastity. >>



that couldnt have been fun.
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Don't know what to say but this:

;) :eek:

Ryan
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are you saying that the ring was removed? ;)
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Well, her ring ended up getting lost in my car.... We dated for 3.5 years, in college, and the last two years I had my own room/place. I'm not one to kiss and tell, but that should give you the right idea.

Ryan :)
 

yodel

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Women like rings, jewelry, and such because women like "symbols" of love/commitment/emotional slavery whatever......Where as most men like things that have a use or a purpose! To quote Carlin, "I'll leave symbols to the simple-minded."
 

Daniel

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How serious are you 2? I mean doesn't it strike anyone else as odd that she is asking for one, I mean in the fact that if it really means promise to get engaged later
and she means it that way then has it been a discussed thing already?
 

UberNeuman

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Sorry if you think I'm neffing, but if you don't understand what a promise ring is, or what it means to a woman, then you've got a long road ahead of you...