"I asked this girl to Prom in the first place because of all the time we spent together prior to it. There were never any issues of this sort. She was always so cool. I'm not gonna shut off any feelings I have for her (friendship or otherwise) because of how she acted at one event, after all the good times we had before it. But my feelings are hurt, and I eventually will demand an explanation...a real one.
I had a nice long talk with my older sister last night (she and I are really close), and combined with my friends' kindness and support, it's hard for me to stay bitter. I'm going to let a few days pass, and then I'm going to find out what happened."
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You're on the right track here... Sounds like there was something going on with her. The two of your were friends before, hopefully she'll open up. Make sure you let her know you're her friend first.
Good luck!
I had a nice long talk with my older sister last night (she and I are really close), and combined with my friends' kindness and support, it's hard for me to stay bitter. I'm going to let a few days pass, and then I'm going to find out what happened."
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You're on the right track here... Sounds like there was something going on with her. The two of your were friends before, hopefully she'll open up. Make sure you let her know you're her friend first.
Good luck!
I don't know enough about the history between the two of you but could it be she felt like you liked her but she didn't like you? (She felt that you were coming on too strong?)
I've had this problem before, where it's all good in friendship and hanging out but when the next move comes to a more date-ish thing, the girl starts to do EVERYTHING you said. Being short with you, frustrated, angry looking, ignoring you, disinterested, etc.
Anyway, just a thought...a confrontation is in order.
I've had this problem before, where it's all good in friendship and hanging out but when the next move comes to a more date-ish thing, the girl starts to do EVERYTHING you said. Being short with you, frustrated, angry looking, ignoring you, disinterested, etc.
Anyway, just a thought...a confrontation is in order.
Heh, I hated my school (fellow students, most teachers, admin, etc...) didn't bother with either of the proms my junior & senior years.
dont drink to much at the after party, you dont want to spend time in the hospital getting your stomach pumped. believe me, not fun
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And judging by what I've read here, she needs to add another name to that list.
Bail. Now.
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I think I'll talk to her first, thanks. You don't just abandon someone after one rough event if you've been hanging out for months.
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I'm trying to decide whether to call her tonight or just give it another day or two. Thing is, everyone was talking about her today (everyone, that is, who was in my "prom group"). Seems that just about all of them are confused by her behavior, most were almost as upset by it as me (which is strange, but hey, I guess I have supportive friends). I'm kind of thinking that maybe I should just relax and let it gor a while, none of her closest friends have even talked to her yet (not about me, I mean they haven't talked at all period).
Ok, I'm sorry, I won't post in this thread anymore until I have an actual update, after I've talked to her (if you guys are interested). Peace.
Ok, I'm sorry, I won't post in this thread anymore until I have an actual update, after I've talked to her (if you guys are interested). Peace.
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In an ideal world, this would happen. But if she's truly pissed at me for some reason, then she's not gonna be calling me anytime soon, and I'll remain oblivious.
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Right, but like I said, if she's pissed off at me, I'm probably the last person she'd call...if she called at all....
What a head case. Screw her. You're young. It's not really fun unless you're a senior (iirc you're not right?)
hey johnjohn! my prom was EXACTLY like yours! haha! it kinda sucked that it didnt work out, but dont worry about it.
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