Ok, is your Netgear MR814 hooked up like I mentioned in my other message? If so can you open IE and input 19.2.168.0.1 and have the router logon page come up? If you can do that enter admin for the username and password for the password. Since you using DSL you probably have to set the router to login to your DSL account with username and password. I take it your DSL requires you to login? If so on the main router page check the yes box for your connection requires a login. then select other for the internet service provider Then enter the username and password that your DSL requires to login. If your DSL does not require a login since I have only worked with DSL that does, I am not sure what you would enter.
The first thing you need to do is try to login to the router. If you can not something is plugged in wrong or maybe the windows firewall is turned on. Let us know what happens when you try to login to the router.