Okay, I am bound to be misunderstood here, but I'm still going to say what I think.
The whole rating thing is bullsh!t.... there is no validity to the numbers, no criteria, no nothing! If there was a system in place, something to rate on in a uniform way, well then it might mean something. As it is, it is just a toy.
I guess guys just enjoy bashing each other over the heads in whatever creative ways they can devise.
Realizing this, albeit a few posts too late, all I can say is Enjoy bashing each other to your heart's content. I guess it is a 'guy' thing.
Just don't cry about it when nobody likes you.