There would even be less death for you and your family if all cars were small with the exception of you and 5% of the population which is why (some) people try to get the biggest SUV possible

This is why there are SUVs and then full-sized SUVs which everyone seems to scorn about "one upping others". Thats not the case really, they just want to provide the most safe trip for their family. As more transports, trucks and SUVs hit the road, your safety lowers even in a big SUV, but then you're still more safe with respect to all the small cars on the road.
That is the way I look at it at least. Then again I'm the person who is all for the ability to get private medical (faster service and higher quality) in a society that provides somewhat acceptable healthcare system for free (social system in Canada where I live). That can't happen though because the government won't let you which is stupid. If I pay to have myself taken care of:
1). Less money out of the tax payers wallet
2). I get serviced faster, thus my road to recovery and chances of survival are higher
3). Others benefit from a shorter waiting line and they too benefit like #2
Tell me Jean Chretien, if your wife had cancer would she have to wait months to get an appointment for the unique and expensive equipment like the rest of us do? Don't think so. Oh yeah thats right, its okay for everyone else BUT them
People will reply that this is an "unfair advantage for the financially well people" which is right. But nothing in life is fair. Get over it. As Mel Gibson said about critics trying to ban his movie "This is not communist Russia."