Poll, would you let your 17yo daughter go on a road trip with a 29 year old dude?

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Would you let your 17 year old as a sexy rabbit go on a road trip with a 29 y/o dude?

  • yes what could go wrong

  • NO


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Rakehellion

Lifer
Jan 15, 2013
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If she goes with another 17 year old and they fool around, nothing you can do, 29 years old JAIL.

BTW the notion you can keep a 17 year old from doing what they want sexually is insane.

17 is legal in most of the United States.
 

PliotronX

Diamond Member
Oct 17, 1999
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I have a five month old daughter so my hatred for male prospects will only grow with time.
 

Ns1

No Lifer
Jun 17, 2001
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Not unless he found the key to her belt.

master key:
smirnoff-vodka-flavors-san-diego-003.jpg
 

Ns1

No Lifer
Jun 17, 2001
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shitface drunk and fell? damn she got f'ed up though.

The girl, who turned 17 on Sunday, was treated for skull and eye-socket fractures and cerebral hemorrhaging, among other injuries. The circumstances surrounding her injuries drew attention from friends, the cosplaying community and San Diego Comic-Con attendees who rallied support to provide police and other officials with information about what was believed to be an assault.

A review of footage from surveillance cameras and information gathered from Comic-Con attendees concluded that the girl's injuries were not the result of an assault, but likely that of a fall from a distance of approximately six feet, police said.
 

Imp

Lifer
Feb 8, 2000
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shitface drunk and fell? damn she got f'ed up though.

Well, we're all assholes for assuming... But he's still being charged?

So, assuming she's not 6' tall, did she fall off a diving board?
 

Hugo Drax

Diamond Member
Nov 20, 2011
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I wonder if he got arrested because he was buying her drinks.

I bet they went drinking and someone saw them drinking, him buying her drinks. At some point they got into an argument. She ran off half drunk and fell during the course of the night.

Interestingly enough the officers asked him about her age (She just turned 17 this sunday) and he claimed he thought she was 20. Then they handcuffed him.
 

Ns1

No Lifer
Jun 17, 2001
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Well, we're all assholes for assuming... But he's still being charged?

So, assuming she's not 6' tall, did she fall off a diving board?

delinquency of a minor, so maybe someone saw him buying/giving her alcohol.
 

Hugo Drax

Diamond Member
Nov 20, 2011
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delinquency of a minor, so maybe someone saw him buying/giving her alcohol.

"San Diego Police arrested 29-year-old photographer Justin Kalior in connection with the case, charging him with sexual contact with a minor and contributing to the delinquency of a minor."

Probably making out also at the bar etc. Someone witnessed them drinking together and making out.



Note to parents, there is a reason why a 29 year old dude wants to hang with your 16 going on 17 daughter. Don't be stupid.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iGmRJjZr9GU
 

OlafSicky

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Feb 25, 2011
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It's a sad world where if something happens to a girl a man gets arrested and charged with sexual assault. Guy will be linked with this for the rest of his life. He is dead professionally now no way comcon will let him in again.
 

Attic

Diamond Member
Jan 9, 2010
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Where's the 29 year old when this happened and after it happened? He gave her booze and then isn't watching out for her? Asshole.

Parents should have smelled this rat fucker from a mile away, yet they let him take a 17yr old (kids are wildely stupid at this age) to this thing?

Whole thing pisses me off. You watch out for people, the 29 year old dropped the ball, and the parents obviously dropped the ball. And 17 year old made a mistake,... holy shit, that's what they do, a lot. That's why they're 17 and they can't appreciate making good life decisions yet.

The parents should feel horrible.
 

Ns1

No Lifer
Jun 17, 2001
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Where's the 29 year old when this happened and after it happened? He gave her booze and then isn't watching out for her? Asshole.

Parents should have smelled this rat fucker from a mile away, yet they let him take a 17yr old (kids are wildely stupid at this age) to this thing?

Whole thing pisses me off. You watch out for people, the 29 year old dropped the ball, and the parents obviously dropped the ball. And 17 year old made a mistake,... holy shit, that's what they do, a lot. That's why they're 17 and they can't appreciate making good life decisions yet.

The parents should feel horrible.

this is his side of the story:

The pair stayed until around midnight when they got into a fight about leaving. He told Polygon that he wanted to call it a night and bring her back to her home, but she wanted to stay: "She ran off and I didn't follow. She didn't answer the phone. She was gone for so long I asked security if they had seen her."
 

Spungo

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Jul 22, 2012
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Note to parents, there is a reason why a 29 year old dude wants to hang with your 16 going on 17 daughter. Don't be stupid
Oh, we know. Why do you think we say yes when a 29 year old asks us to go on an adventure?

It really seems like most Americans have some kind of brain disease that tells them they must control women. Can't let women go out, can't let women date certain people or sleep with certain people. News flash: women are not property.

These articles always bring stupid people out of the woodwork. A woman gets attacked in her own home, therefore we should make it illegal for women to own homes. A woman gets attacked at bar, therefore we should make it illegal for women to go to bars.


Hush! Let's not allow facts to get in the way of controlling women.

article said:
The findings do not affect the charges against Kalior, police said, and because the case involves a minor, San Diego Police say they won't release further information about the incident.
And, of course, let's not miss this opportunity to throw a man in jail because his girlfriend just happens to be younger than 65 or 70 or whatever the hell today's legal sex age. By the time I'm retired, sex will be 100% illegal across all age categories.
 

OBLAMA2009

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Apr 17, 2008
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as a guy who is older than 17 i fully support letting older dudes take 17 yo chicks on road trips
 

LaserBlast

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It's a sad world where if something happens to a girl a man gets arrested and charged with sexual assault. Guy will be linked with this for the rest of his life. He is dead professionally now no way comcon will let him in again.

Yea.

I sincerely hope the police have some legitimate basis for charging him with providing her alcohol and having sexual contact with her. I would like to think they MUST have such evidence, because it would say some very negative (but unsurprising) things about where our society has gotten to, in terms of how it views males and females, if they just merely charged him with those very serious, life-altering crimes on an assumption and out of a desire to be able to hold him for questioning or something.

They'd really, really better have a good reason for thinking he's guilty of that.

I can't imagine why he'd lie and claim he thought she was 20 if one of the issues at hand was him giving her alcohol, as opposed to claiming he thought she was 21. I also suspect that given the nature of this event, any sources of alcohol in that hotel are probably pretty careful about checking the ages of those around drinking.

Wouldn't be the least bit surprised if she had a little tantrum when he wanted to call it a night, had found a group of people she was enjoying hanging with and ran off to continue doing things with them. I would find it much more believable that she was off getting drunk with such a group in someone's actual hotel room, rather than out in the common areas of the hotel. Again, I have to believe that the event organizers and hotel staff are pretty careful about anyone who looks that young drinking out in the main areas. I could be wrong.

If he did what he's charged with, he should be punished. If he didn't and now his name is attached to that? He should be compensated.

If his story is 100% true and he was just being nice and giving someone he knew via the cosplay community a ride to Comic-Con on her birthday, and then the thanks he gets is her ungratefully running off to get drunk and injure herself when he's ready to go... and then he gets charged with serious offenses he didn't commit... then this guy has my utmost sympathy and anger on his behalf.

I can't know the truth yet, but I find it very telling that it's already changed so much as the details have solidified, and all the ways it has changed seem to be making it less sensational and him less guilty. I would not be surprised if that trend continued. We have a rape culture hysteria and a victimhood addiction going on in our society right now. Lots of people just salivate at the idea of being about to finally have their example of something like this. There's been a group ranting about sexual harassment at conventions, including this convention... other groups ranting about it at atheist group conventions... the lady at Pycon or whatever, with the dongle jokes... but every time you look into the claims, the evidence of these supposed epidemics of sexual harassment is just not there.

Looks like it isn't here either.
 

sportage

Lifer
Feb 1, 2008
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I guess she is too old to just leave in your car on a hot Summers day with the windows rolled up. ie the new trend. So I suppose this would be option # 2 ???