Poll, would you let your 17yo daughter go on a road trip with a 29 year old dude?

Page 2 - Seeking answers? Join the AnandTech community: where nearly half-a-million members share solutions and discuss the latest tech.

Would you let your 17 year old as a sexy rabbit go on a road trip with a 29 y/o dude?

  • yes what could go wrong

  • NO


Results are only viewable after voting.

Newell Steamer

Diamond Member
Jan 27, 2014
6,894
8
0
I would go with her. Provided there already was a precedent of going with her from a very young age. A father/daughter thing.

When we get to the point where she wants to go off on her own and act like a raging sex pot/druggie/alcoholic, she will be over 21 and pretty much on her own. Same applies for any male children.

They want to act a certain way under my house that I do not agree with, they are on their own.
 

ElFenix

Elite Member
Super Moderator
Mar 20, 2000
102,353
8,444
126
i'm going to guess the pool has decent security cam footage, shouldn't be too hard to see who dumped her
 

nakedfrog

No Lifer
Apr 3, 2001
59,123
13,676
136
I wouldn't let my 17 year old daughter wear that costume in public -- period.
I, in no way in hell, would let her wear that custom and travel with another teenage boy.
I, in no way in hell, would let her wear that custom and travel with a grown man.

For the record I would be disappointed in my daughter at any age for wearing such a costume. I'm a man. And I know what men think about...

Sad this ended this way for her.
I have a secret...

No matter what your daughter wears, someone is still going to be thinking about doing things to/with her.
 

Rakehellion

Lifer
Jan 15, 2013
12,181
35
91
I have a secret...

No matter what your daughter wears, someone is still going to be thinking about doing things to/with her.

Exactly. Where did this "she was asking for it" myth come from? She could be wearing a poncho and five trenchcoats and guys will try to look at her ass.
 

halik

Lifer
Oct 10, 2000
25,696
1
0

Hugo Drax

Diamond Member
Nov 20, 2011
5,647
47
91
I have a secret...

No matter what your daughter wears, someone is still going to be thinking about doing things to/with her.

So would you let your 16 year old daughter dressed in a sexy bunny suit go on a field trip with a 29 year old guy friend of hers?

(she just turned 17 apparently)
 

Jaskalas

Lifer
Jun 23, 2004
33,896
7,920
136
Sounds like they parted ways and she was left to do her own thing, which apparently meant finding a killer. I hope they get clear evidence.
 

smackababy

Lifer
Oct 30, 2008
27,024
79
86
So would you let your 16 year old daughter dressed in a sexy bunny suit go on a field trip with a 29 year old guy friend of hers?

(she just turned 17 apparently)

No, but that is because the guy is a photographer. And, having had a father who was a professional photographer and ran a studio that developed for other professional photographers, I know they are all (100%) fucking creeper, scumbags. =)

But, would I let my 17 year old go on a field trip with a good friend of hers (who is likely friendzoned; any 29 year old not hitting that is a friendzoned loser) dressed like that? Sure. It is a cosplay convention. 90% of those people are fat, neckbeards who jizz their pants at the site of boobs. It is highly unlikely it was one of them that did it. And, this wasn't a "road trip". He was going to leave that night and drive back home. They didn't live in fucking Texas...


Also, as it turns out, a lot of these models who dress extremely provocatively bitch about being hit on at these kind of conventions. Oh? You mean you aren't dressing like a slutty, female Roger Rabbit for attention? I must have missed your obvious championing of the character integrity... Cosplay 'models': dresses up as characters strictly used for fan service; cries about being treated like fan service...
 

nakedfrog

No Lifer
Apr 3, 2001
59,123
13,676
136
So would you let your 16 year old daughter dressed in a sexy bunny suit go on a field trip with a 29 year old guy friend of hers?

(she just turned 17 apparently)
She didn't go dressed in the costume, she put it on when she was there.
I can't really answer your question, because there would be a lot of variables. In general I'd certainly not be keen on the idea.
 

Hugo Drax

Diamond Member
Nov 20, 2011
5,647
47
91
No, but that is because the guy is a photographer. And, having had a father who was a professional photographer and ran a studio that developed for other professional photographers, I know they are all (100%) fucking creeper, scumbags. =)

But, would I let my 17 year old go on a field trip with a good friend of hers (who is likely friendzoned; any 29 year old not hitting that is a friendzoned loser) dressed like that? Sure. It is a cosplay convention. 90% of those people are fat, neckbeards who jizz their pants at the site of boobs. It is highly unlikely it was one of them that did it. And, this wasn't a "road trip". He was going to leave that night and drive back home. They didn't live in fucking Texas...


Also, as it turns out, a lot of these models who dress extremely provocatively bitch about being hit on at these kind of conventions. Oh? You mean you aren't dressing like a slutty, female Roger Rabbit for attention? I must have missed your obvious championing of the character integrity... Cosplay 'models': dresses up as characters strictly used for fan service; cries about being treated like fan service...


Maybe its a cultural thing, but I am not letting my 16-17 year old go out with a "29 year old adult male friend" to any trip period, I do not care if he is the son of the queen of england, or a tibetian monk.

http://youtu.be/gejDiCCjXeE?t=12m7s
 

mikeford

Diamond Member
Jan 27, 2001
5,671
160
106
If she goes with another 17 year old and they fool around, nothing you can do, 29 years old JAIL.

BTW the notion you can keep a 17 year old from doing what they want sexually is insane.
 

smackababy

Lifer
Oct 30, 2008
27,024
79
86
Here's the thing: if your 17 year old daughter is asking to go on any kind of trip with a male, especially one older than her; she is already fucking him. His dick has been insider her. You stopping this trip isn't going to stop him from smashing that.
 

Ns1

No Lifer
Jun 17, 2001
55,418
1,597
126
well here's his side of the story

The 29-year-old photographer arrested in connection with the beating of a teen at Comic-Con this weekend gave an interview about what happened that night.
Justin Kalior was arrested early on Sunday morning after a 17-year-old girl was found "unconscious and bloody" in the pool area at the San Diego Marriott Marquis and Marina where Comic-Con is held. (Her mom initially said it was "on the side of the road.") San Diego Harbor Police say he's being charged with sexual contact with a minor and providing her alcohol.
The girl's memory is fuzzy, so police aren't sure whether Kalior was involved in the attack. No one including Kalior has been charged with assault in the case, and police say there may be other suspects, according to NBC San Diego.
Kalior is photographer who runs the YouTube channel and Facebook page Project Cosplay. He told Polygon his story about what happened that night. Kalior says that he is friends with the victim who lives in Lake Elsinore, and he insists the two weren't romantically involved. He offered to drive her to Comic-Con. He took pictures at the convention, while she was dressed up like Roger Rabbit.
The pair had gone to a party in a hotel room that had been broken up after a noise complaint, San Diego Harbor police Sgt. Todd Rakos told the Union-Tribune. Kalior says the pair didn't have sex, and he didn't give her alcohol. The pair stayed until around midnight when they got into a fight about leaving. He told Polygon that he wanted to call it a night and bring her back to her home, but she wanted to stay: "She ran off and I didn't follow. She didn't answer the phone. She was gone for so long I asked security if they had seen her."
Her mom told NBC that she also lost contact with her daughter at one point, which unnerved her: "My daughter was great about checking in all day with me with her phone and when I lost contact with her I kept trying to contact her and I knew something was wrong."
About an hour after Kalior says he last saw her, the victim was found still wearing her costume. Kalior says he was with security when they got the call about her around 1:15 a.m. It sounds like the initial report saying that she was found without an ID was also wrong. Kalior said police searched her purse and found out that she was 17—in fact Sunday was her birthday. Kalior said he was under the impression that she was 20.
Kalior wrote on his Facebook page in a post (that looks like it has since been taken down):
"This past weekend, I attended SDCC and came back with lots of pictures, but I don't feel it's an appropriate time to share them due to the fact my close friend [redacted] was assaulted and left in critical condition at the convention. This has been a few very hard days for me. I wasn't there for her when this happened and I regret every second. I just hope that she pulls through this with a safe and fast recovery. Please pray for her."
The victim was treated in an intensive care unit for skull and eye-socket fractures and cerebral hemorrhaging, Polygon says. Her dad wrote on his Facebook page, "Worst night ever... daughter in ICU San Diego brain bleed still waiting for answers. I love you [redacted]. Get well. Falling apart..." Her mom wrote on hers, "A better day.....each day she is getting better...very grateful."
"It's just so sad, that on her birthday she had one of the most horrific things happen to her," her mother told NBC. She added, "Somebody knows something and they’re just not saying it. I just want them to come forward. Be brave."

http://laist.com/2014/07/31/29-year-old_cosplay_photographer_ar.php
 

Fritzo

Lifer
Jan 3, 2001
41,908
2,141
126
My daughter wanted to drive there with a 21 year old dude. I screamed NO in 42 different languages.
 

JimKiler

Diamond Member
Oct 10, 2002
3,559
205
106
I wonder if someone wanted to rape her and she fought back enough that he did this to her and was unable to rape her.
 

smackababy

Lifer
Oct 30, 2008
27,024
79
86
My daughter wanted to drive there with a 21 year old dude. I screamed NO in 42 different languages.

And guess what? That 21 year old penis has already been in at least two of your daughter's holes. A third if he is lucky!