Poll: Would you Cheat?

[ztadmin]

Here's a situation: You're going out with this great girl, and have been for like 8 months, when your ex-girlfriend randomly starts talking to you again and wants to hook up. You broke up with your ex-girlfriend a year ago because she was too clingy, but now she just wants casual sex. You trust that she won't tell your current girlfriend. Do you do it?

And no, I'm not asking because i'm in this position. I've been with my girlfriend for like 14 months and i broke up with my ex-girlfriend because she was too clingy and was trying to run my life, but she's not back looking for casual sex. So, not looking for advice here, just curious to see what the majority of you people would do in this situation.

 

[deftron]

I write all the answers on the inside of my eyelids

 

[jimmyhaha]

I believe most ppl are opportunists.

It all depends on the "tradeoff"

leave alone the moral and ethical issue, will you fvck a supermodel or a hot chick if u have chance ?

 

[Dark54555]

if you have any respect for the girl you're with now, you won't cheat on her. I don't cheat, I won't ever cheat, and if any girl ever cheated on me, it's 1 strike and you're out.

 

[gooseman]

The current girlfriend WILL find out. They always do!

 

[Siddhartha]

I really try not to cheat. It is one of the worst things you can do to a relationship.

 

[RichieZ]

the opportunity cost is too high

 

[slikmunks]

yes, but only if i were having issues with the girl i was with

 

[TranceNation]

depends on who is hotter

 

[hzl eyed grl]

Absolutely not. When I'm in a relationship, I give my all and expect that in return. Why would I want to sleep with someone else if I was in love with my current bf? On that note....he wouldn't be my current boyfriend if I wasn't in love or had deep feelings for him. Meaning: Break up with that person if you wanna screw around with someone else. 'Sides....the world isn't safe enough to go around screwing random people.

 

[Dark54555]

Originally posted by: hzl_eyed_grl
Absolutely not. When I'm in a relationship, I give my all and expect that in return. Why would I want to sleep with someone else if I was in love with my current bf? On that note....he wouldn't be my current boyfriend if I wasn't in love or had deep feelings for him. Meaning: Break up with that person if you wanna screw around with someone else. 'Sides....the world isn't safe enough to go around screwing random people.

wow, a girl who makes sense...what a rare find.

 

[TallBill]

not a chance. just silly and a waste of time.

 

[hzl eyed grl]

Originally posted by: Dark54555

Originally posted by: hzl_eyed_grl
Absolutely not. When I'm in a relationship, I give my all and expect that in return. Why would I want to sleep with someone else if I was in love with my current bf? On that note....he wouldn't be my current boyfriend if I wasn't in love or had deep feelings for him. Meaning: Break up with that person if you wanna screw around with someone else. 'Sides....the world isn't safe enough to go around screwing random people.

wow, a girl who makes sense...what a rare find.

Heehee Thanks. This is a subject about which I'm very adamant.

 

[Dark54555]

Originally posted by: hzl_eyed_grl

Originally posted by: Dark54555

Originally posted by: hzl_eyed_grl
Absolutely not. When I'm in a relationship, I give my all and expect that in return. Why would I want to sleep with someone else if I was in love with my current bf? On that note....he wouldn't be my current boyfriend if I wasn't in love or had deep feelings for him. Meaning: Break up with that person if you wanna screw around with someone else. 'Sides....the world isn't safe enough to go around screwing random people.

wow, a girl who makes sense...what a rare find.

Heehee Thanks. This is a subject about which I'm very adamant.

good choice on something to be adamant about. i'm the same way:

if you have any respect for the girl you're with now, you won't cheat on her. I don't cheat, I won't ever cheat, and if any girl ever cheated on me, it's 1 strike and you're out.

and based on the other replies, maybe there is still hope for the human race after all.

 

[hzl eyed grl]

good choice on something to be adamant about. i'm the same way:

Good job.

 

[thomsbrain]

i wouldn't do it. it's a trust and respect issue.

 

[Alphazero]

Never

 

[MomAndSkoorbaby]

Bad.

 

[Storm]

Originally posted by: thomsbrain
i wouldn't do it. it's a trust and respect issue.

 

[bootymac]

No - relationships are all about trust IMO

 

[Electric Amish]

YES!

....at the drop of a hat....


......and I'd drop the hat...

amish

 

[Rob9874]

If you're just boyfriend/girlfriend, cheat it up! You'll have many relationships, one means nothing more than the next. But once you're married, you must be done with that.

 

[Orsorum]

NEVER go for the ex, especially if you've had issues like you're describing. By and large, cheetahs do not change their spots.

Obvious moral and ethical issues aside, of course.

 

[nativesunshine]

Originally posted by: hzl_eyed_grl
Absolutely not. When I'm in a relationship, I give my all and expect that in return. Why would I want to sleep with someone else if I was in love with my current bf? On that note....he wouldn't be my current boyfriend if I wasn't in love or had deep feelings for him. Meaning: Break up with that person if you wanna screw around with someone else. 'Sides....the world isn't safe enough to go around screwing random people.

So true but it's not so much about being in love....it's showing your current bf/gf the respect they deserve.
I think that if you're willing to cheat on someone...then you probably didn't want to be with them in the first place. So save both parties the trouble and break up.

And why would you want to cheat anyway? Just for sex? Is it just a guy thing? Why would you be willing to give up a loving and all around great relationship for meaningless sex? (assuming it's a good relationship).

 

[rudder]

You trust that she won't tell your current girlfriend. Do you do it?

hahaha sucker. She will rake you over the coals.