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POLL: Who wears the pants in your relationship?

Definitly me. Women try to fool us into thinking men wear the pants. But in reality, men just let women think they've BEEN fooled. 😛
 
Early on when I met my gf, she told me she felt that the man should be the head of the household. That's the way it still is today. I set the direction and she helps to achieve the goals I set forth. I'm lucky to have such a woman.
 
the b/f is a laid back, easy going..never stress, never get mad.. type guy. I am in complete control of the house, the money and all the daily activities. He comes home every friday and hands me the paycheck. he does not even open it to see what is inside. as long as there is money there when he wants/needs it, he is happy.

All he has to do is go to work. (he busts his azz 12-15 per day) I deal with all the taxes, bills, 941's, 927's accountant, insurance companies, banks, budgets... etc. I do all the cooking, all the cleaning, all the laundry, all the shopping and am primary care provider for the animals.

Whatever I ask, he never denies... BUT... there is NO WAY on God's green earth I could EVER get him to do what he doesn't want, or stop him from doing what he does want. I deal with all the day to day stuff and all the big decisions are left to him. But since he has my best interests at heart, I have no problem letting him be in .. control is too strong... I have no problem letting him make all the major decisions.

We love each other respect each other, are very suited to each other, have learned to pick our fights and we have had about four fights in 6 years. We try to put what is best for the relationship and best for the family before what we personally want for ourselves.

🙂
 
I get flamed for saying this all the time, but my gf and I are equal, there are just parts we have control over, but over all its equal.

example: I pay for expensive dinners,but she alwaysmakes up for it by paying for movies afterwards, and then pay for the next meal or two that we eat
example: When either one of us don't agree on a movie, or restaurant, we let the current loser pick the next show/place
example: we dont' yell at each other.

we need options for the few ladies of ATOT "I'm **whipped"??
 
Im usually easygoing enough not to care about the big decisions, not there are really any to make in our relationship. But Im the man, and she knows it.
 
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