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Poll: What should I do?

Scouzer

Lifer
Sooo...I frequent a message board pertaining to the car I own, a Chevy Beretta. I sometimes surf the For Sale board...and sure enough, there's something I need on there.

I email the guy privately (mistake) to buy the filler panels for my car. He gives me an address, full name, real house address, and a cell phone number so I feel confident this guy isn't just eating my money. I send away my $135 CDN money order to him. This was June 17th.

I wait...wait...wait...and after 3 weeks, I realize it isn't coming. I send numerous emails, with no reply. So I remember...ah yes, he has a cell phone number! So I call it up, explain who I am and he acts very convincingly that it must have been a mistake and he'll send the extra filler panels off of his car (being a fellow Beretta owner...supposedly...). I ask why he hasn't replied to the emails, and he says his computer has been down and he'll have it back tommorrow. Plausible, I think.

2 hours later, and he's sent me an email. So much for getting it back tommorrow? Oh, and he 'confirms' my address with me which was TOTALLY wrong to an extent it was obvious (to me) that he just added random letters all over the place. So I call him and leave a message the address is wrong and email him the correct one. He replies in the morning that its already been sent and he'll let me know if the post office returns it...

Another 3 weeks later, and I realize again I am not getting anything from this guy. I am very discouraged from calling him again, as he is 48 (The message board displays birthdate...and he sounded like it) and really phone intimidates me (I'm 17).

Should I goto the cops? Both of my parents are in consensus they will do nothing for me as this guy lives on the oppisite side of Canada...and I'm 17...and its such a small amount of money. I'm thinking they are right.

Eat the loss? It was a mistake, but I could sure use that $135 right now...

I gave a shot and emailed his ISP (I got his IP from the message board Admins) about my problem, that was Tuesday, doesn't look like they are going to bother giving me a hand.
 
when you play sometimes you fall down
i am so sorry you got ripped you could blacklist him as a theif on the car forums or something
sign him up on every spam list this side of the mississippi or something
 
For $135CDN it might be hard to convince the police to take you seriously, I've run into similar situation twice (for $40 and $75) and both times ended up getting the run-around from the police. Going public on the forums might be a good idea, I got my money back in one of the cases because he apparently didn't want to ruin his online image.
 
Neither of your parents will even speak to the guy on the phone? It doesn't seem like *that* much of a small amt of money. At least try to get it back, go to police or post on the board you bought off of, or something, you won't be any worse off than you are now, no money and no door panel.
 
I think I have the MO stub, its around somewhere.

I hadn't even suggested it to my parents, seems like trying to get them to fight my battles...my mom already did me a favour by getting me the MO in the first place. And my dad is a big pushover, so I don't think he'd really be much help...

The guy wasn't a regular on the board, so I can't really nail his persona...he was just an occasional poster like myself. He may have an alternate nickname though, so I just sent a PM to an Admin asking him to check...
 
believe me i lost over $1000 trading/selling online.... 135cdn is not much.. police cant do anything since its matter of small cost... u will have to get over this and be smart next time...

always use paypal with a CREDIT CARD (mom/dads) so u can dispute if u dont get it... never send/use paypal funds
 
Originally posted by: kami333
For $135CDN it might be hard to convince the police to take you seriously, I've run into similar situation twice (for $40 and $75) and both times ended up getting the run-around from the police. Going public on the forums might be a good idea, I got my money back in one of the cases because he apparently didn't want to ruin his online image.

and yea if he is known on the board, i would keep trying and calling him EVERYDAY... it might just work.. dont give up kid
 
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