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POLL: What is worse for children to be exposed to?

Violent sexuality...such as last night's halftime "show".

Action movies are so overblown these days I cannot imagine a child being affected by it. If it's something more intense, such as, say, the movies The Silence of the Lambs or Se7en, there's no way my kids would watch it.

Anything that even remotely condones violent, sexual behavior over women or controlling behavior over women is definitely not something for kids to see.
 
Originally posted by: TwinkleToes77
Originally posted by: vi_edit
Depends on the context of how it is displayed.

Yeah.. what kind of violence/sexuality are we talking about?

you're going to have to figure that out for yourself because the more i try to define something the less precise this admittedly unscientific poll becomes
 
Originally posted by: conjur
Violent sexuality...such as last night's halftime "show".

Next time JT should remove her clothes carefully. 😕

Rape is a serious stretch.

I was brought up to not take what I saw on TV seriously. Last I checked, I'm still normal.
 
Originally posted by: virtuamike
Originally posted by: conjur
Violent sexuality...such as last night's halftime "show".

Next time JT should remove her clothes carefully. 😕

Rape is a serious stretch.

I was brought up to not take what I saw on TV seriously. Last I checked, I'm still normal.

He shouldn't have put a hand on her at all!
 
Originally posted by: conjur
Originally posted by: virtuamike
Originally posted by: conjur
Violent sexuality...such as last night's halftime "show".

Next time JT should remove her clothes carefully. 😕

Rape is a serious stretch.

I was brought up to not take what I saw on TV seriously. Last I checked, I'm still normal.

He shouldn't have put a hand on her at all!

Wow, I hope your kids don't watch Friends at 8:00 on Thursdays. It may not have boobage (well, if you don't count Jennifer Anistons EVER present hard nippleage on the show), but you'll see and hear more sexual references than you can shake a stick at.
 
It's just one of those things that is never an absolute. There are so many shades in between the black and white that it's impossible to make a call on.

From a violence standpoint you have cartoonish stuff like Looney Tunes and The 3 Stooges. But then, you the other way around to stuff like American History X with a guy getting his face kicked into curb or horror movies with a fiend disembowling somebody complete with entrails being thrown about.

From a sexual standpoint, you can have something remotely light like eluding to sex - a man and women walking into a bedroom, the door shutting and the scene fading away. And then you can have full on hardcore sexuality that gives you a lesson in anatomy.

There is no absolute.

It's when either is shown in a context that doesn't counter the act with consequences about the decision that it is bad.
 
Originally posted by: NFS4
Originally posted by: conjur
Originally posted by: virtuamike
Originally posted by: conjur
Violent sexuality...such as last night's halftime "show".

Next time JT should remove her clothes carefully. 😕

Rape is a serious stretch.

I was brought up to not take what I saw on TV seriously. Last I checked, I'm still normal.

He shouldn't have put a hand on her at all!

Wow, I hope your kids don't watch Friends at 8:00 on Thursdays. It may not have boobage (well, if you don't count Jennifer Anistons EVER present hard nippleage on the show), but you'll see and hear more sexual references than you can shake a stick at.

Exactly why my kids do not watch that show.

Heck, I haven't watched Friends in years. It became unfunny after a couple of years.

I also don't let my kids listen to Howard Stern. They don't watch Jerry Springer.

Etc.
 
Originally posted by: conjur
Originally posted by: virtuamike
Originally posted by: conjur
Violent sexuality...such as last night's halftime "show".

Next time JT should remove her clothes carefully. 😕

Rape is a serious stretch.

I was brought up to not take what I saw on TV seriously. Last I checked, I'm still normal.

He shouldn't have put a hand on her at all!

you are seriously overreacting about this
 
Originally posted by: Ameesh
Originally posted by: conjur
Originally posted by: virtuamike
Originally posted by: conjur
Violent sexuality...such as last night's halftime "show".

Next time JT should remove her clothes carefully. 😕

Rape is a serious stretch.

I was brought up to not take what I saw on TV seriously. Last I checked, I'm still normal.

He shouldn't have put a hand on her at all!

you are seriously overreacting about this

You're not a parent are you?

You didn't see the look my 9 year-old daughter's face.

I'm not overreacting at all.
 
I would rather my kids watch a mindless violent zombie movie about sexualy deviant prostitutes, over a movie that uses gratuitous harsh language. But I didn't see that in the poll.

For me, it's easier to explain away violence and sex in a movie, I can't do much for unwarrented foul language. Perfect example is Me, Myself and Irene with Jim Carrie.
 
Originally posted by: Ameesh
Originally posted by: conjur
Originally posted by: virtuamike
Originally posted by: conjur
Violent sexuality...such as last night's halftime "show".

Next time JT should remove her clothes carefully. 😕

Rape is a serious stretch.

I was brought up to not take what I saw on TV seriously. Last I checked, I'm still normal.

He shouldn't have put a hand on her at all!

you are seriously overreacting about this

 
Either can be bad, as many have said, based on the context. Sexuality is being used everywhere as a selling point - sexy women posing with cars, and even computer hardware now, as a means to attract potential buyers. Heck, you see pictures online of them at tech expos. I'm not entirely sure, but I doubt that they're there purely for their tech knowledge (which they may have a lot of, not saying they're dumb, just saying, that's not why they were employed.)
Violence can be damaging too - people violently assault others in some TV shows. But in the Three Stooges, getting hit repeatedly on the head with a hammer, or getting one's head smashed through a wall, was considered funny. And heck, there was gun violence in Looney Tunes cartoons. Daffy Duck got shot in the head at point-blank range with a shotgun several times. Hardly a despicable thing. 🙂
 
Originally posted by: Astaroth33
Sexuality. Because any priest will tell you that bewbies make the baby Jesus cry..

Plus it makes it harder for the priests to seduce young boys if they are already liking chicks
 
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