POLL: What happened in your worst breakup?

[SpiderX]

Well I broke up with my first real serious girlfriend on December 21st. We had been having problems for a month and I couldn't go thru Xmas faking it. So I did it. She came over on Xmas day to exchange gifts. She walked in, my mom took one look at her and they both started crying. Real nice. Didn't I feel like quite the ass.

Also a friend of mine probably had the most traumatic breakup ever...she walked in on her BF in bed...naked...with another guy. He just looked at her, then kept going and asked her to close the door. Ouch.

 

[Iron Woode]

Originally posted by: SpiderX
Well I broke up with my first real serious girlfriend on December 21st. We had been having problems for a month and I couldn't go thru Xmas faking it. So I did it. She came over on Xmas day to exchange gifts. She walked in, my mom took one look at her and they both started crying. Real nice. Didn't I feel like quite the ass.

Also a friend of mine probably had the most traumatic breakup ever...she walked in on her BF in bed...naked...with another guy. He just looked at her, then kept going and asked her to close the door. Ouch.

Sometimes time apart can help a relationship. Counselling can also help.

If he is gay then nothing will help that relationship.

 

[PatboyX]

Originally posted by: shinerburke

Originally posted by: Iron Woode

Originally posted by: shinerburke
Hmmm...well let's see.

That would have to be the time I walked in on my fiancée' riding another guy.

:Q

I would have snapped.

I did....he got a trip to the hospital. I freaked out when I saw them. Next thing I remember was sitting on the sofa being watched by the cops while he was loaded into an ambulance.

what did you do to him?

something similiar happened to me...but i was cheating on her so i didnt really care so much.

 

[bcterps]

She cheated on me with a person that she said was like a "brother" to her. I guess that would be incest then?

Then she wondered why I never talked to her anymore and kept on avoiding her like the plague.

 

[shiner]

Originally posted by: PatboyX

Originally posted by: shinerburke

Originally posted by: Iron Woode

Originally posted by: shinerburke
Hmmm...well let's see.

That would have to be the time I walked in on my fiancée' riding another guy.

:Q

I would have snapped.

I did....he got a trip to the hospital. I freaked out when I saw them. Next thing I remember was sitting on the sofa being watched by the cops while he was loaded into an ambulance.

what did you do to him?

something similiar happened to me...but i was cheating on her so i didnt really care so much.

All I remember is seeing them and then flying into a rage. He eded up with a concussion, broken ribs, broken arm I think, can't remember all his injuries. Of course it's not that difficult to kick a naked guys ass.

 

[Nyical]

Hmmm, First time I ever got dump she told me I wasnt black enough for her

 

[MichaelD]

Worst as in mental trauma or worst as in other trauma?

I would say:

When I was 18 I moved in w/my GF. We had plans to marry...I think....eventually. Whatever.

We bought furniture...it in my name b/c her credit was sh1t and we were splitting the payments. My parents, who had very little money, gave us a brand new Kenmore fridge as an "engagement gift."

I lost my job three months later and suddenly she was very dissatisfied w/the relationship, even though I supported her for about 2 months before we moved in together.

She started disappearing, not coming home, etc. She would come by and grab clothes etc when I wasn't home..I could tell things were missing.

One Sunday morning at about 0500, the cops bang on the door. Two cops, my GF and her bitch slut best friend.

She went to court, said I was "violent" and got an order of protection. The cops gave me FIVE minutes to grab what I could and get OUT. I'd never laid a hand on her...lots of shouting, but that's it. It was snowing that day...

I drove back to my parents house and basically had to beg so they'd let me move back in...I didn't leave under the best of circumstances.

I lost the fridge (less than 6 months old...she SOLD IT) I lost the furniture (she sold that too and I STILL had to pay it off) and lost my trust in women, pretty much.

Ironically, me being young and stupid, about six months later, I saw her again on and off for about 4 months.

The sex was that good...but now I'm older, bitter and almost completely soured on the thought of marriage. It would have to be one damn fine, special woman to turn me around.

 

[rocadelpunk]

we made out, broke up for 2 months, got back together, been together for long time...

 

[MegaloManiaK]

When i was 16....

I went out with a girl off and on for like 2 years. I was her boytoy, when she wanted a guy we'd go out. Mind you i was too stuipid to notice this, i just thought she had emotional issues. Kept saying stuipid stuff about our relationship distancing her from her friends. blah blah blah. The thing that really pissed me off more than anything was we'd be going out, decide to go to both our schools prom, shed break up a month before hers, go with some other guy, then call me up a month before mine and ask me if i was going to break my promise to her. So i went to both my schools proms with her. Fortunately i knew plenty of girls from other schools so i ended up going to 5 total in high school, one with 4 women at the same time. Either way i finnaly grew some cohanas and stopped talking to her permanently after graduation. Last time i heard she was on the other side of the country. As far as im concerned thats not far enough, i wish she'd go to austrailia or something. After a year of college i met my current GF, been with her for 3 years now, 100% better.

I refer to the former GF simple as "satan" ever since then.

 

[brunswickite]

Originally posted by: MichaelD
Worst as in mental trauma or worst as in other trauma?

I would say:

When I was 18 I moved in w/my GF. We had plans to marry...I think....eventually. Whatever.

We bought furniture...it in my name b/c her credit was sh1t and we were splitting the payments. My parents, who had very little money, gave us a brand new Kenmore fridge as an "engagement gift."

I lost my job three months later and suddenly she was very dissatisfied w/the relationship, even though I supported her for about 2 months before we moved in together.

She started disappearing, not coming home, etc. She would come by and grab clothes etc when I wasn't home..I could tell things were missing.

One Sunday morning at about 0500, the cops bang on the door. Two cops, my GF and her bitch slut best friend.

She went to court, said I was "violent" and got an order of protection. The cops gave me FIVE minutes to grab what I could and get OUT. I'd never laid a hand on her...lots of shouting, but that's it. It was snowing that day...

I drove back to my parents house and basically had to beg so they'd let me move back in...I didn't leave under the best of circumstances.

I lost the fridge (less than 6 months old...she SOLD IT) I lost the furniture (she sold that too and I STILL had to pay it off) and lost my trust in women, pretty much.

Ironically, me being young and stupid, about six months later, I saw her again on and off for about 4 months.

The sex was that good...but now I'm older, bitter and almost completely soured on the thought of marriage. It would have to be one damn fine, special woman to turn me around.

dude thats rough

 

[phantom309]

Just this:
Never, NEVER move in with a woman you do not intend to marry.

 

[SP33Demon]

My worst breakup was two years ago. Met this girl, we had been dating for a year. At that point I'd never felt as high or low whenever things were good or bad with this drama queen. I ended up buying her a platinum ring, as a precursor to our engagement... she lived with me for 3 months in the summer during my internship (when she didn't pay for a dam thing and had no job!) and during that fall I had to go back to school for my final semester. Obviously, she couldn't handle the long distance relationship (she was in NJ and I was in WV, 5.5 hours away).

She ended up hanging out with this other guy and I caught her because I was drunk and accidently hacked her email with my friends (gee, wouldn't it be funny if her password was my name lol???). After I found out she lied to me about the guy, she told me it was b/c she thought I took her for granted, that selfish b*tch!! I drove every other weekend 330 miles to see her, and with 21 credits senior year.

I go to her college knowing I was going to break it off. I got her pissy drunk and did her in the uhhhh I install a keylogger on her laptop and find out she's now banging this guy as well!!! In the keylogger, I also find out that he was checking his email on her laptop, and get his email account password as well :evil:

Finally everything blows up. I called her up, and told her I hacked her account. Deleted all her emails and all her buddy list (AOL). I did the same for the b/f, and changed both their passwords... Later I find out that HIS MOM had to call AOL for an hour to get them to finally change his password back!! ahah sooooo During the phone call, HE WALKS IN HER APT and she puts HIM ON THE PHONE. I was 24 at the time, and this punk is 21 so I'm outwitting him rather handily and he gets frustrated. He then thinks he's funny and puts me on speakerphone, for HER ROOMATES AND HIS FRIENDS TO HEAR (in her apt living room). He says, well now she wants me. I said great you can have her, she's not worth a f*cking penny! I then say "Oh, and where was she last weekend? I'll tell u where! On the couch that you're now probably sitting on, drunk as f**k yelling WHEN I STUCK IT IN HER @$$!!! All of sudden I hear her saying HANG UP HANG UP all quick and she was probably jumping over the coffee table to hang it up. I was LMAO. Oh and this was after earlier, when we were talking on the phone, I told her I cheated on her with my ex g/f (who she hated) and she said she had curled into a ball and cried for two hours on the floor...

I am the payback king. 2 months after my graduation, we reconciled and I b*ned her one last time (sex was good). I was nice and didn't even stick it in her.......... yeah lol. I never returned any of her calls after that.

 

[brunswickite]

Originally posted by: SP33Demon
My worst breakup was two years ago. Met this girl, we had been dating for a year. At that point I'd never felt as high or low whenever things were good or bad with this drama queen. I ended up buying her a platinum ring, as a precursor to our engagement... she lived with me for 3 months in the summer during my internship (when she didn't pay for a dam thing and had no job!) and during that fall I had to go back to school for my final semester. Obviously, she couldn't handle the long distance relationship (she was in NJ and I was in WV, 5.5 hours away).

She ended up hanging out with this other guy and I caught her because I was drunk and accidently hacked her email with my friends (gee, wouldn't it be funny if her password was my name lol???). After I found out she lied to me about the guy, she told me it was b/c she thought I took her for granted, that selfish b*tch!! I drove every other weekend 330 miles to see her, and with 21 credits senior year.

I go to her college knowing I was going to break it off. I got her pissy drunk and did her in the uhhhh I install a keylogger on her laptop and find out she's now banging this guy as well!!! In the keylogger, I also find out that he was checking his email on her laptop, and get his email account password as well :evil:

Finally everything blows up. I called her up, and told her I hacked her account. Deleted all her emails and all her buddy list (AOL). I did the same for the b/f, and changed both their passwords... Later I find out that HIS MOM had to call AOL for an hour to get them to finally change his password back!! ahah sooooo During the phone call, HE WALKS IN HER APT and she puts HIM ON THE PHONE. I was 24 at the time, and this punk is 21 so I'm outwitting him rather handily and he gets frustrated. He then thinks he's funny and puts me on speakerphone, for HER ROOMATES AND HIS FRIENDS TO HEAR (in her apt living room). He says, well now she wants me. I said great you can have her, she's not worth a f*cking penny! I then say "Oh, and where was she last weekend? I'll tell u where! On the couch drunk as f**k yelling WHEN I STUCK IT IN HER @$$!!! All of sudden I hear her saying HANG UP HANG UP all quick and she was probably jumping over the coffee table to hang it up. I was LMAO. Oh and this was after earlier, when we were talking on the phone, I told her I cheated on her with my ex g/f (who she hated) and she said she had curled into a ball and cried for two hours on the floor...

I am the payback king. 2 months after my graduation, we reconciled and I b*ned her one last time (sex was good). I was nice and didn't even stick it in her.......... yeah lol. I never returned any of her calls after that.

seek some mental help

 

[SP33Demon]

Originally posted by: brunswickite

Originally posted by: SP33Demon
My worst breakup was two years ago. Met this girl, we had been dating for a year. At that point I'd never felt as high or low whenever things were good or bad with this drama queen. I ended up buying her a platinum ring, as a precursor to our engagement... she lived with me for 3 months in the summer during my internship (when she didn't pay for a dam thing and had no job!) and during that fall I had to go back to school for my final semester. Obviously, she couldn't handle the long distance relationship (she was in NJ and I was in WV, 5.5 hours away).

She ended up hanging out with this other guy and I caught her because I was drunk and accidently hacked her email with my friends (gee, wouldn't it be funny if her password was my name lol???). After I found out she lied to me about the guy, she told me it was b/c she thought I took her for granted, that selfish b*tch!! I drove every other weekend 330 miles to see her, and with 21 credits senior year.

I go to her college knowing I was going to break it off. I got her pissy drunk and did her in the uhhhh I install a keylogger on her laptop and find out she's now banging this guy as well!!! In the keylogger, I also find out that he was checking his email on her laptop, and get his email account password as well :evil:

Finally everything blows up. I called her up, and told her I hacked her account. Deleted all her emails and all her buddy list (AOL). I did the same for the b/f, and changed both their passwords... Later I find out that HIS MOM had to call AOL for an hour to get them to finally change his password back!! ahah sooooo During the phone call, HE WALKS IN HER APT and she puts HIM ON THE PHONE. I was 24 at the time, and this punk is 21 so I'm outwitting him rather handily and he gets frustrated. He then thinks he's funny and puts me on speakerphone, for HER ROOMATES AND HIS FRIENDS TO HEAR (in her apt living room). He says, well now she wants me. I said great you can have her, she's not worth a f*cking penny! I then say "Oh, and where was she last weekend? I'll tell u where! On the couch drunk as f**k yelling WHEN I STUCK IT IN HER @$$!!! All of sudden I hear her saying HANG UP HANG UP all quick and she was probably jumping over the coffee table to hang it up. I was LMAO. Oh and this was after earlier, when we were talking on the phone, I told her I cheated on her with my ex g/f (who she hated) and she said she had curled into a ball and cried for two hours on the floor...

I am the payback king. 2 months after my graduation, we reconciled and I b*ned her one last time (sex was good). I was nice and didn't even stick it in her.......... yeah lol. I never returned any of her calls after that.

seek some mental help

You didn't find it funny that this guy had been sitting on the couch where I b*ned her the previous weekend, and he's trying to ridicule me? lol

I almost did have to seek mental help, I was so messed up in the head during that last semester of college. I somehow pulled out a 3.0, but the drama got my physically sick where I wouldn't eat for a day or so. I'm pretty proud of the outcome though, and feel sorry for the poor guy who now has to date this girl.

 

[DurocShark]

Originally posted by: shinerburke

Originally posted by: PatboyX

Originally posted by: shinerburke

Originally posted by: Iron Woode

Originally posted by: shinerburke
Hmmm...well let's see.

That would have to be the time I walked in on my fiancée' riding another guy.

:Q

I would have snapped.

I did....he got a trip to the hospital. I freaked out when I saw them. Next thing I remember was sitting on the sofa being watched by the cops while he was loaded into an ambulance.

what did you do to him?

something similiar happened to me...but i was cheating on her so i didnt really care so much.

All I remember is seeing them and then flying into a rage. He eded up with a concussion, broken ribs, broken arm I think, can't remember all his injuries. Of course it's not that difficult to kick a naked guys ass.

Wow. Very similar to mine... And I'm still married to the woman.

She was "working" late and I decided to bring her some dinner. I walk into the office and she's on the desk with a coworker drilling her. (Our at the time 5yo son was in the car.) I saw red, grabbed the guy by the hair (he had long hair) and slammed his head onto the desk behind him. Apparently I kept going after that, but don't remember because the next thing I remember is being on the freeway heading home, with my son crying.

According to the police, I had fractured his skull, broken his arm and his ankle, and he was very bruised. They refused to allow him to press charges though, because they said it was pretty fvcked up that he was doin my wife. LoL Pretty cool of the cops (cool for me anywayz heh).

That wasn't the last time she cheated on me, but it was the last time I walked in on her.

 

[CastorTr0y]

Originally posted by: SP33Demon
My worst breakup was two years ago. Met this girl, we had been dating for a year. At that point I'd never felt as high or low whenever things were good or bad with this drama queen. I ended up buying her a platinum ring, as a precursor to our engagement... she lived with me for 3 months in the summer during my internship (when she didn't pay for a dam thing and had no job!) and during that fall I had to go back to school for my final semester. Obviously, she couldn't handle the long distance relationship (she was in NJ and I was in WV, 5.5 hours away).

She ended up hanging out with this other guy and I caught her because I was drunk and accidently hacked her email with my friends (gee, wouldn't it be funny if her password was my name lol???). After I found out she lied to me about the guy, she told me it was b/c she thought I took her for granted, that selfish b*tch!! I drove every other weekend 330 miles to see her, and with 21 credits senior year.

I go to her college knowing I was going to break it off. I got her pissy drunk and did her in the uhhhh I install a keylogger on her laptop and find out she's now banging this guy as well!!! In the keylogger, I also find out that he was checking his email on her laptop, and get his email account password as well :evil:

Finally everything blows up. I called her up, and told her I hacked her account. Deleted all her emails and all her buddy list (AOL). I did the same for the b/f, and changed both their passwords... Later I find out that HIS MOM had to call AOL for an hour to get them to finally change his password back!! ahah sooooo During the phone call, HE WALKS IN HER APT and she puts HIM ON THE PHONE. I was 24 at the time, and this punk is 21 so I'm outwitting him rather handily and he gets frustrated. He then thinks he's funny and puts me on speakerphone, for HER ROOMATES AND HIS FRIENDS TO HEAR (in her apt living room). He says, well now she wants me. I said great you can have her, she's not worth a f*cking penny! I then say "Oh, and where was she last weekend? I'll tell u where! On the couch that you're now probably sitting on, drunk as f**k yelling WHEN I STUCK IT IN HER @$$!!! All of sudden I hear her saying HANG UP HANG UP all quick and she was probably jumping over the coffee table to hang it up. I was LMAO. Oh and this was after earlier, when we were talking on the phone, I told her I cheated on her with my ex g/f (who she hated) and she said she had curled into a ball and cried for two hours on the floor...

I am the payback king. 2 months after my graduation, we reconciled and I b*ned her one last time (sex was good). I was nice and didn't even stick it in her.......... yeah lol. I never returned any of her calls after that.

dude, you're a dick. she was boning some other guy, so just get rid of her. don't screw up other people's lives, man

 

[shiner]

Originally posted by: DurocShark

Originally posted by: shinerburke

Originally posted by: PatboyX

Originally posted by: shinerburke

Originally posted by: Iron Woode

Originally posted by: shinerburke
Hmmm...well let's see.

That would have to be the time I walked in on my fiancée' riding another guy.

:Q

I would have snapped.

I did....he got a trip to the hospital. I freaked out when I saw them. Next thing I remember was sitting on the sofa being watched by the cops while he was loaded into an ambulance.

what did you do to him?

something similiar happened to me...but i was cheating on her so i didnt really care so much.

All I remember is seeing them and then flying into a rage. He eded up with a concussion, broken ribs, broken arm I think, can't remember all his injuries. Of course it's not that difficult to kick a naked guys ass.

Wow. Very similar to mine... And I'm still married to the woman.

She was "working" late and I decided to bring her some dinner. I walk into the office and she's on the desk with a coworker drilling her. (Our at the time 5yo son was in the car.) I saw red, grabbed the guy by the hair (he had long hair) and slammed his head onto the desk behind him. Apparently I kept going after that, but don't remember because the next thing I remember is being on the freeway heading home, with my son crying.

According to the police, I had fractured his skull, broken his arm and his ankle, and he was very bruised. They refused to allow him to press charges though, because they said it was pretty fvcked up that he was doin my wife. LoL Pretty cool of the cops (cool for me anywayz heh).

That wasn't the last time she cheated on me, but it was the last time I walked in on her.

Damn man....how can you stay with her? That's sort of what happened to me. I was taking her some roses to leave on her kitchen table to surprise her when she got home. I let myself in the house, put down the roses and started to leave. That's when I heard a noise from the back of the house.....I went to investigate, she had been broken into two weeks earlier, and when I opened her bedroom door there they were.

 

[SP33Demon]

Originally posted by: CastorTr0y

Originally posted by: SP33Demon
My worst breakup was two years ago. Met this girl, we had been dating for a year. At that point I'd never felt as high or low whenever things were good or bad with this drama queen. I ended up buying her a platinum ring, as a precursor to our engagement... she lived with me for 3 months in the summer during my internship (when she didn't pay for a dam thing and had no job!) and during that fall I had to go back to school for my final semester. Obviously, she couldn't handle the long distance relationship (she was in NJ and I was in WV, 5.5 hours away).

She ended up hanging out with this other guy and I caught her because I was drunk and accidently hacked her email with my friends (gee, wouldn't it be funny if her password was my name lol???). After I found out she lied to me about the guy, she told me it was b/c she thought I took her for granted, that selfish b*tch!! I drove every other weekend 330 miles to see her, and with 21 credits senior year.

I go to her college knowing I was going to break it off. I got her pissy drunk and did her in the uhhhh I install a keylogger on her laptop and find out she's now banging this guy as well!!! In the keylogger, I also find out that he was checking his email on her laptop, and get his email account password as well :evil:

Finally everything blows up. I called her up, and told her I hacked her account. Deleted all her emails and all her buddy list (AOL). I did the same for the b/f, and changed both their passwords... Later I find out that HIS MOM had to call AOL for an hour to get them to finally change his password back!! ahah sooooo During the phone call, HE WALKS IN HER APT and she puts HIM ON THE PHONE. I was 24 at the time, and this punk is 21 so I'm outwitting him rather handily and he gets frustrated. He then thinks he's funny and puts me on speakerphone, for HER ROOMATES AND HIS FRIENDS TO HEAR (in her apt living room). He says, well now she wants me. I said great you can have her, she's not worth a f*cking penny! I then say "Oh, and where was she last weekend? I'll tell u where! On the couch that you're now probably sitting on, drunk as f**k yelling WHEN I STUCK IT IN HER @$$!!! All of sudden I hear her saying HANG UP HANG UP all quick and she was probably jumping over the coffee table to hang it up. I was LMAO. Oh and this was after earlier, when we were talking on the phone, I told her I cheated on her with my ex g/f (who she hated) and she said she had curled into a ball and cried for two hours on the floor...

I am the payback king. 2 months after my graduation, we reconciled and I b*ned her one last time (sex was good). I was nice and didn't even stick it in her.......... yeah lol. I never returned any of her calls after that.

dude, you're a dick. she was boning some other guy, so just get rid of her. don't screw up other people's lives, man

She deserved it, after lying to me when we were to be engaged. I had every reason to be bitter...

 

[azncoffeeboi]

Never had once since elementary school... bleh.

Lucky bastards. =P

 

[shiner]

Originally posted by: SP33Demon
My worst breakup was two years ago. Met this girl, we had been dating for a year. At that point I'd never felt as high or low whenever things were good or bad with this drama queen. I ended up buying her a platinum ring, as a precursor to our engagement... she lived with me for 3 months in the summer during my internship (when she didn't pay for a dam thing and had no job!) and during that fall I had to go back to school for my final semester. Obviously, she couldn't handle the long distance relationship (she was in NJ and I was in WV, 5.5 hours away).

She ended up hanging out with this other guy and I caught her because I was drunk and accidently hacked her email with my friends (gee, wouldn't it be funny if her password was my name lol???). After I found out she lied to me about the guy, she told me it was b/c she thought I took her for granted, that selfish b*tch!! I drove every other weekend 330 miles to see her, and with 21 credits senior year.

I go to her college knowing I was going to break it off. I got her pissy drunk and did her in the uhhhh I install a keylogger on her laptop and find out she's now banging this guy as well!!! In the keylogger, I also find out that he was checking his email on her laptop, and get his email account password as well :evil:

Finally everything blows up. I called her up, and told her I hacked her account. Deleted all her emails and all her buddy list (AOL). I did the same for the b/f, and changed both their passwords... Later I find out that HIS MOM had to call AOL for an hour to get them to finally change his password back!! ahah sooooo During the phone call, HE WALKS IN HER APT and she puts HIM ON THE PHONE. I was 24 at the time, and this punk is 21 so I'm outwitting him rather handily and he gets frustrated. He then thinks he's funny and puts me on speakerphone, for HER ROOMATES AND HIS FRIENDS TO HEAR (in her apt living room). He says, well now she wants me. I said great you can have her, she's not worth a f*cking penny! I then say "Oh, and where was she last weekend? I'll tell u where! On the couch that you're now probably sitting on, drunk as f**k yelling WHEN I STUCK IT IN HER @$$!!! All of sudden I hear her saying HANG UP HANG UP all quick and she was probably jumping over the coffee table to hang it up. I was LMAO. Oh and this was after earlier, when we were talking on the phone, I told her I cheated on her with my ex g/f (who she hated) and she said she had curled into a ball and cried for two hours on the floor...

I am the payback king. 2 months after my graduation, we reconciled and I b*ned her one last time (sex was good). I was nice and didn't even stick it in her.......... yeah lol. I never returned any of her calls after that.

Ummm....you handled that rather poorly. Hacking into her email, spying on her? If you had those kind of trust issues you should have just ended the relationship and gone another direction. Being a dick about things is not making it any better or making you somehow superior to her.

 

[WhiteKnight]

Well, I can't compare to anything here, that's for sure.

I was seeing this girl over the summer, in retrospect it was just a summer fling, but I thought I was in love. Once the fall came around, she started going out with one of my best friends who had broken up with his gf of 1.5 years two weeks prior. Since I was a little pussysh!t and also because we were never "officially" together I just took it and never even really said anything. It's a shame because that was right before senior of HS and my friendship with the guy (who I had been friends with since kindergarten) never really recovered. We're out of college now and I hear that he's having depression and anxiety attack prbolems. I don't know if I should call him up one of these days or not. We've really grown apart. The only reason I still hear about him is through a mutual friend.

So yeah, I guess the real victim of my "breakup" was my friendship, even though it sure hurt like hell for me too.

 

[DurocShark]

Originally posted by: shinerburke

Damn man....how can you stay with her? That's sort of what happened to me. I was taking her some roses to leave on her kitchen table to surprise her when she got home. I let myself in the house, put down the roses and started to leave. That's when I heard a noise from the back of the house.....I went to investigate, she had been broken into two weeks earlier, and when I opened her bedroom door there they were.

Well, I *do* love her, and I kinda knew she had low self esteem when we got together. What sucks is every time I get her confidence up to a normal level, she starts looking at other guys too. She's cheated 3 times that I know of, probably more that I don't. But it hasn't happened in a few years now, so I think we've gotten over that hump. A lot of work on my side (and hers too, I'm sure) has gotten things nice and stable.

/me crossing fingers and toes, knocking on wood, etc...

 

[shiner]

Originally posted by: DurocShark

Originally posted by: shinerburke

Damn man....how can you stay with her? That's sort of what happened to me. I was taking her some roses to leave on her kitchen table to surprise her when she got home. I let myself in the house, put down the roses and started to leave. That's when I heard a noise from the back of the house.....I went to investigate, she had been broken into two weeks earlier, and when I opened her bedroom door there they were.

Well, I *do* love her, and I kinda knew she had low self esteem when we got together. What sucks is every time I get her confidence up to a normal level, she starts looking at other guys too. She's cheated 3 times that I know of, probably more that I don't. But it hasn't happened in a few years now, so I think we've gotten over that hump. A lot of work on my side (and hers too, I'm sure) has gotten things nice and stable.

/me crossing fingers and toes, knocking on wood, etc...

Best of luck man....I don't know how you do it. That's gotta be rough.

 

[emu10k2]

I had to chop off her head and drive a stake into hre heart...

Could never see the damn b!tch in any mirrors.

 

[Rufio]

dayam sp33dwagon ....that is crazy. i was laughing at that the whole time i was reading it

shinerburke -- man that suks crap dude......

michaeld -- now i know why you are so hateful to women! hehehe

durocshark -- how can you still be w/your wife??? if that happened to me, i would never be abl eto do that. and those cops are cool - do you live in a small town or somehting?