POLL: Is it better to be in love or be loved?

[Shockwave]

Which would you prefer? If you want you can explain as well, up to you

 

[magomago]

Ugh...I dunno...

But I picked the third option because I think that is real witty and smart of you

I'll think about it and edit this


EDIT:


Here is how I see it:

I can be in love with this person but that leaves the option that they completely loath you

But a person could be in love with you but you LOATHE them

Even if they liked you I wouldn't want that if i truly loathed them...


I'll go for option 1 just because I really like this person right now...Its not love for sure (cause IMO I wouldn't sacrifice my life for her) but I freaking like her...

/me realizes he decided to overclock love...

Drats

 

[LOLyourFace]

to be loved is a precious thing but you're not experiencing love from your own within per se.

it's also great to be in love, to love someone else.. that whole pain, smiles, memories it creates.

 

[Shockwave]

Interesting responses.
I was thinking that while being in love is the greatest thing, its easy to get hurt. Whereas if your loved you know someone is always there for you but you wont get hurt if you dont love her (Or him for the ladies)

 

[dighn]

to be in love can suck if the person doesn't return it
and to be loved can suck too if you don't like the person

can it be overclocked? that's a good question.

 

[LOLyourFace]

Originally posted by: Shockwave
Interesting responses.
I was thinking that while being in love is the greatest thing, its easy to get hurt. Whereas if your loved you know someone is always there for you but you wont get hurt if you dont love her (Or him for the ladies)

right but you said it's one way or the other. if you're being loved, you're not IN love. That's missing a lot, besides saying "that's nice, that person loves me."

 

[Shockwave]

Originally posted by: LOLyourFace

Originally posted by: Shockwave
Interesting responses.
I was thinking that while being in love is the greatest thing, its easy to get hurt. Whereas if your loved you know someone is always there for you but you wont get hurt if you dont love her (Or him for the ladies)

right but you said it's one way or the other. if you're being loved, you're not IN love. That's missing a lot, besides saying "that's nice, that person loves me."

I know its missing alot. I look at it as Do you want to not worry about getting hurt (Being loved) or do you want to enjoy the wonders of love (Being in love)

 

[moonshinemadness]

Unrequited love hurts....but it if its requited them being in love rules

 

[aircooled]

It's easier and less work to be loved.

 

[0roo0roo]

too vague. in love = your in love in a one sided way? or mutual
to be loved = same problem.

 

[Luagsch]

L.O.V.E.

Latest Overclockable Valuable Emotion?

 

[Kindjal]

Well, certainly "making love" can be overclocked. :evil:

 

[mastertech01]

Its best for the feelings to be mutual. A one way street never brings you home.

 

[NogginBoink]

Neither.

It's better to just get laid.