*POLL* How many partners have you had?

[Geekbabe]

As people get older it's to be expected that they are going to have a sexual history.There's only one number that matters to me and that's the person I'm with now.

 

[Vette73]

Originally posted by: gigapet

Originally posted by: Marlin1975

Originally posted by: gigapet

Originally posted by: Marlin1975
I am in a college town that is near the beach so we attract a lot of sluts and frat type guys. BUT I will not date a woman that has slept around, and I kinow a lot of woman that will not date guys that have had a lot of partners. I am in my late 20's and I can count on one hand how many woman I have been with.

And even guys that sleep around have this saying... "You can party with the party girl, but you don't marry the party girl." So even these guys that sleep around will not marry a PARTY girl (slut, whore, easy, what ever you call it). Pretty one sided, but now it seems woman are raising their values so these guys will look stupid when woman hold them to the same standards.

if both people have been tested for std's and they like each other what does there sexual history matter?

That tells you what kind of person they are. You think any marriage is gonna last if someone has slept around?

Also what kind of standards does a person have if they sleep with any person that says OK.

Wrong that tells you what kind of person they were. The more people you have slept with prolly the less likely that you would still find a thrill in sleeping around( a been there done that sort of thing).

How do you know they slept with any person that says ok. Its pretty shallow to judge someone on the number of sexual partners they have had. Its about as shallow as judging someone based no there appearance.

You think someone is just going to go, well I have slept around, now I am just going to settle down and NEVER do it again.

I hope when you get married you have a good lawyer. You will need it.

 

[gigapet]

Originally posted by: Marlin1975

Originally posted by: gigapet

Originally posted by: Marlin1975

Originally posted by: gigapet

Originally posted by: Marlin1975
I am in a college town that is near the beach so we attract a lot of sluts and frat type guys. BUT I will not date a woman that has slept around, and I kinow a lot of woman that will not date guys that have had a lot of partners. I am in my late 20's and I can count on one hand how many woman I have been with.

And even guys that sleep around have this saying... "You can party with the party girl, but you don't marry the party girl." So even these guys that sleep around will not marry a PARTY girl (slut, whore, easy, what ever you call it). Pretty one sided, but now it seems woman are raising their values so these guys will look stupid when woman hold them to the same standards.

if both people have been tested for std's and they like each other what does there sexual history matter?

That tells you what kind of person they are. You think any marriage is gonna last if someone has slept around?

Also what kind of standards does a person have if they sleep with any person that says OK.

Wrong that tells you what kind of person they were. The more people you have slept with prolly the less likely that you would still find a thrill in sleeping around( a been there done that sort of thing).

How do you know they slept with any person that says ok. Its pretty shallow to judge someone on the number of sexual partners they have had. Its about as shallow as judging someone based no there appearance.

You think someone is just going to go, well I have slept around, now I am just going to settle down and NEVER do it again.

I hope when you get married you have a good lawyer. You will need it.

you act like its an absurd thing for a person to change. I can think of plenty of people i know that were promiscuous in college and now only get it on with people they have a monogamous relationship with.

 

[amnesiac]

Holy carp. Lots of skanks on this board. Kind of suprising considering the overall social ineptitude.

6 for me.
4 girlfriends, 1 one-night stand, and 1 booty call arrangement with a stripper.

 

[Crucial]

Originally posted by: amnesiac
Holy carp. Lots of skanks on this board. Kind of suprising considering the overall social ineptitude.

6 for me.
4 girlfriends, 1 one-night stand, and 1 booty call arrangement with a stripper.

Wow I've never paid for sex before. Unless you had some kiind of free arrangement with that hooke...stripper.

 

[gigapet]

Originally posted by: amnesiac
Holy carp. Lots of skanks on this board. Kind of suprising considering the overall social ineptitude.

6 for me.
4 girlfriends, 1 one-night stand, and 1 booty call arrangement with a stripper.

you have no basis to pass judgement on someones sexual activities.....who do u think you are?


lol......we all believe you on the booty call arrangement with a stripper.

 

"Ein"

What does "ein" mean? The translator says "on", so I suppose you meant to say "one"?

Amnesiac, what's with the skank calling. You had a booty call and a one-night stand. I don't see an authority on your end to call them skanks.

I was amazed though last time a similar poll came on where a bunch of members said 50+. It was I think last year the poll was created. So many people were high on that number. I wonder sometimes if people are being sincere at the forum.

 

[Red Dawn]

Wel I didn't get married until I was 35. Since then it's only been two, my ex and my current girlfriend.

 

[bleeb]

For all the people who voted 20+ you're all Fscking LIARS! =)

 

[Hoober]

Originally posted by: luvly
"Ein"

What does "ein" mean? The translator says "on", so I suppose you meant to say "one"?

Amnesiac, what's with the skank calling. You had a booty call and a one-night stand. I don't see an authority on your end to call them skanks.

I was amazed though last time a similar poll came on where a bunch of members said 50+. It was I think last year the poll was created. So many people were high on that number. I wonder sometimes if people are being sincere at the forum.

Ein = one in German.

2 for me.

 

[gigapet]

Originally posted by: bleeb
For all the people who voted 20+ you're all Fscking LIARS! =)

i smell a hater.......


dont hate cuz others get more ass than you

 

[crisp82]

Business Partners - 0
Sexual Partners - 1
Partners in Crime - loads.

 

[Encryptic]

Originally posted by: Marlin1975



You think someone is just going to go, well I have slept around, now I am just going to settle down and NEVER do it again.

I hope when you get married you have a good lawyer. You will need it.

Where is your head? Up your ass? People CHANGE. I guess I'll just go divorce my wife now because she slept with a couple other people before we met.

 

[Vette73]

Originally posted by: Encryptic

Originally posted by: Marlin1975



You think someone is just going to go, well I have slept around, now I am just going to settle down and NEVER do it again.

I hope when you get married you have a good lawyer. You will need it.

Where is your head? Up your ass? People CHANGE. I guess I'll just go divorce my wife now because she slept with a couple other people before we met.

People fundamentality do not change. How you are and the kind of person you are is something you will be your whole life. Even if you curb certain things, they will always be there. Its called human psychology, take a couple classes in it, and grow up.

 

[Vette73]

Originally posted by: gigapet

Originally posted by: bleeb
For all the people who voted 20+ you're all Fscking LIARS! =)

i smell a hater.......


dont hate cuz others get more ass than you

Well I rather have one good woman then 10 of the kind of woman you go for, I guess some people have standards, and some.. .well you...


If I have slept with every woman that offered I would be well over the 20 mark, but again this all comes down to peoples standards and what kind a person they are.

 

[Red Dawn]

Originally posted by: Marlin1975

Originally posted by: Encryptic

Originally posted by: Marlin1975



You think someone is just going to go, well I have slept around, now I am just going to settle down and NEVER do it again.

I hope when you get married you have a good lawyer. You will need it.

Where is your head? Up your ass? People CHANGE. I guess I'll just go divorce my wife now because she slept with a couple other people before we met.

People fundamentality do not change. How you are and the kind of person you are is something you will be your whole life. Even if you curb certain things, they will always be there. Its called human psychology, take a couple classes in it, and grow up.

So you think somebody aat the age of 35 is going to be as sexually active as he was at 18, especially if he is married? If you do then your thinkng is flawed. I can assure you that at 18 a man is willing to put up with more bs to get laid than he is at 35.

 

[Encryptic]

Originally posted by: Marlin1975

Originally posted by: Encryptic

Originally posted by: Marlin1975



You think someone is just going to go, well I have slept around, now I am just going to settle down and NEVER do it again.

I hope when you get married you have a good lawyer. You will need it.

Where is your head? Up your ass? People CHANGE. I guess I'll just go divorce my wife now because she slept with a couple other people before we met.

People fundamentality do not change. How you are and the kind of person you are is something you will be your whole life. Even if you curb certain things, they will always be there. Its called human psychology, take a couple classes in it, and grow up.

Grow up? I'm not the one spouting crap about because so and so slept with multiple partners, that automatically means they're going to cheat on the person they marry. I know for a fact that I'm a MUCH different person than I was a few years ago, in a lot of ways, thanks to this "psychology" you're spouting off on.

I'm guessing you either aren't married, or you got married and got cheated on, so you're automatically taking your experience and assuming everyone has the same experience with their spouse.

 

[waylman]

Originally posted by: Marlin1975

Originally posted by: Encryptic

Originally posted by: Marlin1975



You think someone is just going to go, well I have slept around, now I am just going to settle down and NEVER do it again.

I hope when you get married you have a good lawyer. You will need it.

Where is your head? Up your ass? People CHANGE. I guess I'll just go divorce my wife now because she slept with a couple other people before we met.

People fundamentality do not change. How you are and the kind of person you are is something you will be your whole life. Even if you curb certain things, they will always be there. Its called human psychology, take a couple classes in it, and grow up.

I was a psych major and people change ALOT during their lifetime. This is a FACT. You are a total moron. Stop posting.

 

[gigapet]

Originally posted by: Marlin1975

Originally posted by: Encryptic

Originally posted by: Marlin1975



You think someone is just going to go, well I have slept around, now I am just going to settle down and NEVER do it again.

I hope when you get married you have a good lawyer. You will need it.

Where is your head? Up your ass? People CHANGE. I guess I'll just go divorce my wife now because she slept with a couple other people before we met.

People fundamentality do not change. How you are and the kind of person you are is something you will be your whole life. Even if you curb certain things, they will always be there. Its called human psychology, take a couple classes in it, and grow up.

ATTENTION EVERYONE STOP WHAT YOU ARE DOING, BAD NEWS YOU CANNOT CHANGE. Thank you very much for telling us this. Your statement is rediculous because when you are younger you do things cuz you are insecure and stupid such as have promiscuous sex to fill a void because there was a lack of love hwen you were raised. People grow up, get smarter, mature and learn from there mistakes. People change all the time. The friggin president was a raging frat boy now he runs the country("supposedly") and you are telling me people dont change. I repeat what someone else said "get your head out of your ass"

 

Hoober, thanks for the translation. I guess the translator is just plain bad.

People do change indeed, but I have to agree with Marlin1975 here. People who have a history are certainly not going to change overnight.

And if I'm to believe that anyone changed overnight, it would be the woman (which is less likely still if she was an expert slut). Why? Because when she finds a man she loves a lot and then has babies with, she starts to change her perspective. She changes it because she's been the one to go through the labour, bonding and everything. It's a natural, subconscious transition. However, a slutty guy change overnight? Hell no!

I must know my significant other's history. If he doesn't say it, I'll find out anyway. When I'm set to settle, I am set to. If I want a male slut, I know where to find them. Don't come pretending to be what you aren't 'cuz that's what I dislike the most.

 

[Vette73]

Originally posted by: waylman

Originally posted by: Marlin1975

Originally posted by: Encryptic

Originally posted by: Marlin1975



You think someone is just going to go, well I have slept around, now I am just going to settle down and NEVER do it again.

I hope when you get married you have a good lawyer. You will need it.

Where is your head? Up your ass? People CHANGE. I guess I'll just go divorce my wife now because she slept with a couple other people before we met.

People fundamentality do not change. How you are and the kind of person you are is something you will be your whole life. Even if you curb certain things, they will always be there. Its called human psychology, take a couple classes in it, and grow up.

I was a psych major and people change ALOT during their lifetime. This is a FACT. You are a total moron. Stop posting.

Then yu should have no problem backing up your MAJOR with some hard facts.


Here is one paper form Dr. Baum



Can people really change??

 

[Acanthus]

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[Encryptic]

Originally posted by: Marlin1975

Originally posted by: waylman

Originally posted by: Marlin1975

Originally posted by: Encryptic

Originally posted by: Marlin1975



You think someone is just going to go, well I have slept around, now I am just going to settle down and NEVER do it again.

I hope when you get married you have a good lawyer. You will need it.

Where is your head? Up your ass? People CHANGE. I guess I'll just go divorce my wife now because she slept with a couple other people before we met.

People fundamentality do not change. How you are and the kind of person you are is something you will be your whole life. Even if you curb certain things, they will always be there. Its called human psychology, take a couple classes in it, and grow up.

I was a psych major and people change ALOT during their lifetime. This is a FACT. You are a total moron. Stop posting.

Then yu should have no problem backing up your MAJOR with some hard facts.

You're the one who started this pissing contest in the first place. Where are your "hard facts" to support your end of the argument?

 

[waylman]

Originally posted by: Marlin1975

Originally posted by: waylman

Originally posted by: Marlin1975

Originally posted by: Encryptic

Originally posted by: Marlin1975



You think someone is just going to go, well I have slept around, now I am just going to settle down and NEVER do it again.

I hope when you get married you have a good lawyer. You will need it.

Where is your head? Up your ass? People CHANGE. I guess I'll just go divorce my wife now because she slept with a couple other people before we met.

People fundamentality do not change. How you are and the kind of person you are is something you will be your whole life. Even if you curb certain things, they will always be there. Its called human psychology, take a couple classes in it, and grow up.

I was a psych major and people change ALOT during their lifetime. This is a FACT. You are a total moron. Stop posting.

Then yu should have no problem backing up your MAJOR with some hard facts.

The idea that people CANNOT change over a period of time is so fvcking stupid it does not deserve anyone's attention. Studies have not even been done on this b/c it is so fvcking obvious that people CAN AND DO CHANGE.

edit: spelling

 

[Encryptic]

Originally posted by: waylman

Originally posted by: Marlin1975

Originally posted by: waylman

Originally posted by: Marlin1975

Originally posted by: Encryptic

Originally posted by: Marlin1975



You think someone is just going to go, well I have slept around, now I am just going to settle down and NEVER do it again.

I hope when you get married you have a good lawyer. You will need it.

Where is your head? Up your ass? People CHANGE. I guess I'll just go divorce my wife now because she slept with a couple other people before we met.

People fundamentality do not change. How you are and the kind of person you are is something you will be your whole life. Even if you curb certain things, they will always be there. Its called human psychology, take a couple classes in it, and grow up.

I was a psych major and people change ALOT during their lifetime. This is a FACT. You are a total moron. Stop posting.

Then yu should have no problem backing up your MAJOR with some hard facts.

The idea that people CANNOT change over a period of time is so fvcking stupid it does not deserve anyone's attention. Studies have not even been done on this b/c it is so fvckinging obvious that people CAN AND DO CHANGE.

/applause

That's all that needs to be said.