age 37, 3 significant others, married the 3rd one. I was relatively selective with who I dated. I'd have married the 1st had she not turned into a sl*t when she went away to a different college. (sorry, no friendlier term for what she did). The second was for only a couple months. I don't think I'd have ever considered marrying her. In between there was a long list of others I dated, most never lasted more than 1 or 2 dates. (one date was aborted after 45 minutes - no brain that I could detect - hot though) Then along came #3. And been married now for 14 years.