Poll Have you ever Stalked anyone, been stalked yourself?

[Pliablemoose]

Like the title...

Both for me, during my divorce, I watched my ex leave work once from a dark parking lot (I was well hidden) and just sat there & felt sorry for myself & polished my machette, planning to extract revenge (not really, I had the machette in the trunk).

And I had a chick stalk me, I was driving home form somewhere & noticed a crazy chick I was trying to keep @ arms length after I slept with her a few times (read used her) in an intersection 1 block from me, I turned & slowed down etc, determined she was following me. I broke it off very quickly after that in no uncertain terms...

Obligatory pic of my goofy cat: Spot, stalking my wife's leg

I'm sick today, temp of 103 last night, slightly better now & I'm bored.

Tell us your stalking story...

 

[moshquerade]

i have never stalked anyone. that is just a plain pitiful thing to do.
but i have been stalked, nothing that ended up being too serious, but it was scary for a time.

 

[Pliablemoose]

Bump for more responses.

 

[Pliablemoose]

It's a tie between the stalker/stalked combo & folks wondering if they can actually stalk their hand

 

[PingSpike]

I prefer the term "Admiring from afar".

 

[3point14]

I was stalked in High School by a girl who was known for being a lil' obsessive. Now that I'm out of college, what I wouldn't give to be stalked again

 

[Mr N8]

Never stalked or been stalked.

Some loon from my HS was stalking my sister for a while, and even threatening suicide if she wouldn't talk or hang out with him. We told her to get a restraining order, but she wouldn't, because she was afraid of what he would do to himself. So, me and a friend paid a visit to his college (which happened to be 15 minutes from my sister's college) and let him know that it had to stop. Then, we duct taped him to a flagpole in the middle of his campus.

He never called again. I wonder if the .357 and the .44 we were carrying had anything to do with that.

 

[Borracho]

Yes, by a girl from one of my classes. A big group of us would go out to the bars after our classes sometimes and she would always be sitting next to me and talking my ear off. It graduated to her flashing her tits at me so eventually I stopped going out with them. Next came the phone calls 3 a week for about 6 months, I started screening my calls with caller ID and she left some nasty messages on my voice service. I was living with my wife ( fiancé at the time) and she wasn't to happy, but understood she was just crazy. Eventually she reduced the call volume, though I still get calls from her at least once a month.

 

[Pliablemoose]

Originally posted by: Borracho
Yes, by a girl from one of my classes. A big group of us would go out to the bars after our classes sometimes and she would always be sitting next to me and talking my ear off. It graduated to her flashing her tits at me so eventually I stopped going out with them. Next came the phone calls 3 a week for about 6 months, I started screening my calls with caller ID and she left some nasty messages on my voice service. I was living with my wife ( fiancé at the time) and she wasn't to happy, but understood she was just crazy. Eventually she reduced the call volume, though I still get calls from her at least once a month.

Wow...

Does your state have any anti-stalking laws?

Sometimes this crap lasts for years.

 

[Borracho]

Originally posted by: Pliablemoose

Originally posted by: Borracho
Yes, by a girl from one of my classes. A big group of us would go out to the bars after our classes sometimes and she would always be sitting next to me and talking my ear off. It graduated to her flashing her tits at me so eventually I stopped going out with them. Next came the phone calls 3 a week for about 6 months, I started screening my calls with caller ID and she left some nasty messages on my voice service. I was living with my wife ( fiancé at the time) and she wasn't to happy, but understood she was just crazy. Eventually she reduced the call volume, though I still get calls from her at least once a month.

Wow...

Does your state have any anti-stalking laws?

Sometimes this crap lasts for years.

I don't know, I live in IL. I don't really want to get the police involved, I would if I felt I or my wife was in any danger. So far ignoring it seems to be working ok, I have been making a list of calls and saving the nasty messages just in case.

 

[AdamSnow]

My ex-girlfriend stalked me once. She would just appear where I was, she would show up at my work, drive by my place at night, call me and hang up, ICQ me, etc.

One night she even e-mailed me an MP3. it was that song "When I think about you I touch myself."

She finally stopped when my current girlfriend and I were togeather about two months. (Going on 1.5 years now w00t!)

hehehe

 

[MaxDepth]

Yes, I have been the object of someone's stalking.

I filed a restraining order. It worked. She and I are in two different states. Her parents recently asked me to remove the order because it was showing up in some of her background checks. I did ask the judge to recind the order, citing time and distance. I don't have anything against her.

 

[Pliablemoose]

I had an ex that called me in the middle of the night all the time, it wasn't stalking after a point, it was harassment...

The phone company put a trace on my line & the sheriff's dept told her to stop or they'd encourage me to press charges. It stopped immediately.

Forgot about her, what a loon

 

[hzl eyed grl]

Sure. I stalked yooooooouuuuuuuuu! :evil:

 

[PingSpike]

I think my girlfriend may be stalking me. She comes over to my place all the time, writes me little notes, makes me dinner, sleeps in my bed, etc. Its getting out of hand.

 

[Pliablemoose]

Originally posted by: hzl_eyed_grl
Sure. I stalked yooooooouuuuuuuuu! :evil:

Now that you've broken the non disclosure agreement, we can tell everyone

Sorry bout that whole toying with your emotions thing

 

[hzl eyed grl]

Originally posted by: Pliablemoose

Originally posted by: hzl_eyed_grl
Sure. I stalked yooooooouuuuuuuuu! :evil:

Now that you've broken the non disclosure agreement, we can tell everyone

Sorry bout that whole toying with your emotions thing

You rotten ba$tard! You screwed me over royally! I don't think I'll ever be whole again. When you find a bag of flaming crap on your doorstep....think of me. :|

 

[Azraele]

Been stalked. Not fun.

 

[hzl eyed grl]

Originally posted by: Azraele
Been stalked. Not fun.

*HUG* I agree. You've been to hell and back a few times, girl. Let me know if you ever come up this way and I'll take you to lunch.

 

[Balt]

Never stalked or been stalked. I feel left out.

 

[skace]

I voted for my hand, but I think it can tell that I'm right here.

 

[gotsmack]

this crazy chick really liked me in HS. she even came over my house with a bunch of friends and wouldn't leave when it was time, she even showed up at my part time job with her friend. I just ignored her for 2 weeks and she got the point.

I heard she has some loser bf and is a meth user now, in CA. I'm in/from NJ

 

[TheHeartless]

Lithium381 claims that i am stalking him, and still (i suppose) referes to me as "stalker girl"....

 

[PanzerIV]

Originally posted by: Pliablemoose
& noticed a crazy chick I was trying to keep @ arms length after I slept with her a few times (read used her) in an intersection 1 block from me,...

You had sex with her in an intersection! :Q You exhibitionists!!

 

[Bootprint]

Originally posted by: PanzerIV

Originally posted by: Pliablemoose
& noticed a crazy chick I was trying to keep @ arms length after I slept with her a few times (read used her) in an intersection 1 block from me,...

You had sex with her in an intersection! :Q You exhibitionists!!

Maybe he's into dogging