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Poll: have you ever been attracted to someone (IRL) of the same sex?

In general, how often are those you are attracted to of the same sex?

  • Never

  • Very rarely

  • Sometimes/Ocassionally

  • Normally

  • Always


Results are only viewable after voting.

Ruptga

Lifer
I'm not asking about your gender, their gender, or what you identify as. I just want to know how many of us have ever been sexually attracted to someone, IRL, who has the same genitals. (That means pre-op male-to-female trannies count, if you are a male.)
 
Never.

But that doesn't mean I've never seen a dude and thought, 'what an incredible body'.

But that's purely out of jealously and envy, and me being critical of myself for never being willing to workout that hard and consistently myself. I guess it would be a lot easier if everyone else was a fat slob and I was the only one in semi-decent shape. 😛
 
Nope. Intellectually I'm not opposed to it, but I have a negative visceral reaction at the thought of it. Men just don't have the right shape, feel, or equipment to stimulate me.
 
Tom Hiddleston or RDJ :whiste:

but seriously, a really good looking and convincing shemale probably goes into the "sexually attracted to" category. Thinking about it I don't find penises off-putting, it's the other male features. on the plus side, I'm pretty much an expert in operating a penis so pleasuring her should be a cakewalk.
never met a convincing one in real life so I can't say anything with any certainty.
 
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I don't think lady boys are pertinent to the discussion. That falls under false advertising. I've never been attracted to males, and don't really care much for masculine females.
 
I've seen guys in pictures and IRL and thought to myself that they were good looking but never felt sexually attracted to them.
 
I can appreciate a good looking man but I really don't find them sexually attractive.

Yes I am touching my index fingers together right now and pulling a weird face.
 
I don't think lady boys are pertinent to the discussion. That falls under false advertising. I've never been attracted to males, and don't really care much for masculine females.

Hmm, but what about feminine males?

The transsexual thing is (obviously) a huge gray area, but there was just a thread about it so I threw that in just to cover all the bases and maybe even stimulate some thought.

I suppose I could have been extremely specific, as below, but that would have been way too confusing for the purposes of a simple OT forum poll.

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Sexually? Nope. But I have no problem to admire when a guy is a nice looking fella such as Ryan Gosling.
 
Hmm, but what about feminine males?

I don't think so. They don't have the parts I'm interested in, and I have an aversion to males who can't "do things". Eg, fix stuff, do physical work, act rationally... :^D

Ideally, I'd like a female that's feminine, but can also do things. Lagertha, Ragnar's wife from Vikings would be ideal, but unrealistic.

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I'll tell you what I would do. I'd consider "marrying" a man to share household responsibilities, and economic benefits. It would be non-sexual, but I could see it working. My main concern would be ruining a good friendship by prolonged contact, and having to deal with the potential legal hassle of divorce.
 
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You will never get an accurate representation on a poll like this. There are plenty of straight men that would be "attracted" to a feminine male with makeup and clothes on, that would lose that attraction as soon as the real person was seen.

I think that Thai thread with the ladyboy test that is on one of the front pages here shows that.
 
Nope. Intellectually I'm not opposed to it, but I have a negative visceral reaction at the thought of it. Men just don't have the right shape, feel, or equipment to stimulate me.

And you're positively sure of this fact because ...

And there are plenty of people who completely don't fit your predetermined stereotype of women and men, just sayin.

I see a sexy lady boy with a boob job in your future.
 
And you're positively sure of this fact because ...

And there are plenty of people who completely don't fit your predetermined stereotype of women and men, just sayin.

I see a sexy lady boy with a boob job in your future.

I'm not sure there isn't, but throughout my life I've accumulated a sizable body of evidence about my sexual proclivities that suggests there won't be.
 
I don't think so. They don't have the parts I'm interested in, and I have an aversion to males who can't "do things". Eg, fix stuff, do physical work, act rationally... :^D

Ideally, I'd like a female that's feminine, but can also do things. Lagertha, Ragnar's wife from Vikings would be ideal, but unrealistic.

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I'll tell you what I would do. I'd consider "marrying" a man to share household responsibilities, and economic benefits. It would be non-sexual, but I could see it working. My main concern would be ruining a good friendship by prolonged contact, and having to deal with the potential legal hassle of divorce.

But by prolonged contact you mean spooning in bed (with clothes on, of course), right? As long as you don't kiss or other yucky sex stuff. So is holding hands and hugging OK? What about holding hands and hugging naked in the shower? You do like getting your back scrubbed once in a while, right? So is that a bathing suit situation?
 
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