POLL for 20 somethings: Would it bother you if the girl you're dating told you that she's been pregnant before, but

[Mears]

had a miscarriage?

 

[rmrf]

no.

 

[AmdEmAll]

Yes but I don't know why

 

[neutralizer]

Originally posted by: rmrf
no.

 

[rmrf]

a miscarriage is just the body telling you that it's either not the right time, or you are doing something wrong.

 

[gabemcg]

miscarriage, no... abortion, maybe...

 

[z0mb13]

it would raise questions, is she fit to give birth?

 

[AbAbber2k]

No. And I can honestly answer because it HAS happened to me. She told me like 4 or 5 months into the relationship. I thought she timed it fairly well... a month or two earlier and I might have taken it a little differently... it's hard to say. Just wait until you date someone and you find out they've been raped or beaten.

 

[Agnostos Insania]

Umm... no? Miscarriages are perfectly natural occurences that bare no reflection at all on a person's personality or experiences.

 

[BobDaMenkey]

Miscarrage? No.

Abortion? Yes. I'd need to know more about the circumstances.

 

[imported_goku]

My mom had a miscarriage when she first got pregnant, next time she got pregnant she had my older sister and it was fine ever since so I wouldn't worry...

 

[Mears]

Maybe I shouldn't have added the miscarriage part. I'm just wondering how other people would feel if a girl they dated said she was pregnant before. I added the miscarriage bit because I didn't want people to say no due to having a kid.

 

[rmrf]

Originally posted by: Mears
Maybe I shouldn't have added the miscarriage part. I'm just wondering how other people would feel if a girl they dated said she was pregnant before. I added the miscarriage bit because I didn't want people to say no due to having a kid.

so what you really meant, is if you would continue to date a girl that you knew had had sex before.

 

[AbAbber2k]

Originally posted by: rmrf

Originally posted by: Mears
Maybe I shouldn't have added the miscarriage part. I'm just wondering how other people would feel if a girl they dated said she was pregnant before. I added the miscarriage bit because I didn't want people to say no due to having a kid.

so what you really meant, is if you would continue to date a girl that you knew had had sex before.

SNAP!

 

[Mears]

Originally posted by: rmrf

Originally posted by: Mears
Maybe I shouldn't have added the miscarriage part. I'm just wondering how other people would feel if a girl they dated said she was pregnant before. I added the miscarriage bit because I didn't want people to say no due to having a kid.

so what you really meant, is if you would continue to date a girl that you knew had had sex before.

No, I try not to be a hypocrite. Just the whole pregnancy thing...I don't know.

 

[Agnostos Insania]

Originally posted by: rmrf
so what you really meant, is if you would continue to date a girl that you knew had had sex before.

Pretty much. However it could also mean unprotected sex or other dangerous behavior.

EDIT: Is this a physical thing? (It's argued the umm... "baby cannon" loses tightness after childbirth )

 

[AccruedExpenditure]

Yes.

 

[Rage187]

Abortion = Yes

Miscarriage = No

 

[Reckoner]

Originally posted by: Rage187
Abortion = Yes

Miscarriage = No

 

[Argo]

Originally posted by: AmdEmAll
Yes but I don't know why

 

[yhelothar]

Miscarriages are actually more common than most people think, just that no one really talks about them.

 

[Excelsior]

Originally posted by: PaulNEPats

Originally posted by: Rage187
Abortion = Yes

Miscarriage = No

 

[IAteYourMother]

Originally posted by: Argo

Originally posted by: AmdEmAll
Yes but I don't know why

 

[Plasdom]

yes...because that means she had sexoring...unless it was while married

 

[Corporate Thug]

Originally posted by: gabemcg
miscarriage, no... abortion, maybe...

QFT