If your ME is crashing, check your hardware compatibility and drivers.
WinMe is suppose to be better and more stable than Win98Se.
All I can, if your system is not up to par, stick with the old stuff.
In addition, since WinME using the same TCP stack as win2k...
beware of all old crappy software.
Just like Win2k, it is very picky in hardware. But if you equipment
is on their HAL list, than Win2k will run 100% and hardly crash.