TRP,
Sorry to bring this thread back to light. But if you are married, then there is no harm from it

Its the perfect time to get creative. Nothing is worse than a boring marriage (all right, soggy wheaties area bad, but not quite as bad as a mundane marriage

).
I was out of the country on business so i hadn't responded in a week. (ok, it was only mexico, it could have been worse (canada is cold i hear!)).
Anyways, it looks like jenniz, isla, and toolgirl have the right idea.
I can sum up my new found approach this way. Sex is sex. We all want it one way or another. My personal gratification comes from that fact that my wife of nine years is getting her personal gratification. We never have sex outside of each others company, and that includes woman/woman encounters (more woman/woman than man/woman these days). I think that is because women somehow empathize with each other in a way that men can't.
I don't regret it. Sure, several men other than myself have enjoyed my wife. But I took enjoyment in the fact that my wife was enjoying herself. The only rule is that we don't kiss others. In other words, kissing is the ultimate sign of endearment, and that is reserved for us only. It is a psychological thing, I guess.
Well, we got a trip to Rio this may.... Should be interesting. Maybe I send links of the pictures
l8r.
P.S. To all the "studs" out there who think 2 girls and one guy is there dream... I have these words for you "mulitple-orgasm". We don't got that. They do. That's why it can be a tuf situation trying to please two women. Trust me, I tried and failed. I'll save you the embarassement...