I understand. The main reasons I purchased the 2020 SE were the small form factor - not a lot of those around, Apples update history which says ~5yrs and is better than most/all Android phones, at least last year, and the for Apple relatively low price, and the lens with the single stabilized focal length.
(Can have a phone via work as well but I don't really like bringing "work home"..which is funny because I've been forced to work from home for the last year and am staring at the work laptop sitting right beside me at the moment )