*POLL* Any 12-steppers (or people who are familiar with 12-step) here?

yukichigai

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Okay, so before last night I had only a vague conception of Alcoholics Anonymous. We all know there's the part where you get up and say, "Hi, my name's so-and-so, and I'm an Alcoholic." I knew there was something in there about getting help from other reforming drunks, that step 5 or so was making amends to people you hurt whilst drinking, and so on and so forth. Seemed like a positive, uplifting thing.

Then last night I watched an episode of Penn & Teller: BS! where their sole topic of alleged BS was AA. At first I was surprised; I thought AA was a good thing. But in the course of the episode they raised some interesting points.

Firstly, a number of the steps require you to believe in a higher power of some kind. Even if you consider that open enough for a majority of religious beliefs, they pointed out how this was very problematic for Atheists, and how the official AA headquarters is in the "Interchurch Building" and their offices are covered in things containing scripture and little poems about God.

Okay, religious, but still a positive thing, right? Maybe not. Penn pointed out how the 12 steps require you to consider yourself powerless, worthless, less than nothing, before you can possibly get better. You don't put any faith in yourself, you put faith in someone else. If you read the 12 steps again, he's dead on. It very much gives the impression that you, the addict, are a worthless piece of crap.

The thing I found most interesting -- and potentially disturbing -- were the published statistics on how many people AA reforms in a year. Specifically, there are none. (At least, that's what P & T claim, though I doubt they made this up) Furthermore they presented an internal report from 1989 they managed to get (Penn said, "seriously, it was the only thing we could get") that said that the number of drunks reformed was steadily declining, roughly 50% of the people who showed up for the first time were not going to meetings three months later, and how the estimated percentage of successes as it stood when the report was done was roughly 5%. "And what's the percentage of Acoholics who kick the habit on their own with no help? 5%," said Penn.

Now in general I trust Penn & Teller. (Unless Penn says, "don't worry, this trick isn't scary.") But these are some pretty serious claims. I'm wondering if anybody can back up or refute what they've claimed with linkable or able-to-be-found-in-a-library proof. I'd also like to hear some input from any 12-steppers, reformed alcoholics/addicts who didn't use 12-step, or anybody who knows such people. Or if you just want to give me crap. :p


P.S. What are your thoughts on governments requiring people to attend 12-step programs -- specifically, no alternatives -- or face further punishment?
 

BigJ

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Penn and Teller don't have a clue what the fcvk they're talking about. Between friends and family I know over 10 people that with the help of AA have been dry for many years.

EDIT: Pulse brings up a good point. It is not for everybody. It is not the cure-all end-all solution for alcoholics. But for those that believe in a higher power, it works pretty damn well from my personal experience.
 

pulse8

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I know someone who has been helped through AA and all I have to say is that it may not be for everyone, but it helped someone I know and I'm very thankful for that.
 

CubanlB

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yeah, seriously, AA has helped save so many people from their drinking problem. Maybe they should talk some sh!t When their parents/siblings/children find themselves in a situation where they really really need help.
 

nakedfrog

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Originally posted by: BigJ
Penn and Teller don't have a clue what the fcvk they're talking about. Between friends and family I know over 10 people that with the help of AA have been dry for many years.

Because you know over 10 people, it means they don't know what they're talking about? Riiiight... Have you never heard of a 13-stepper? Someone who actively attends meetings while still drinking normally?

They do raise some excellent points. I know someone very close to me who has a problem, and finally decided to try AA. She tried to put a lot into it, but Penn & Teller are right. Exactly right. Something along the lines of "Because our lives became unmanageable, we turned control of them over to God" etc. Her life wasn't unmanageable in the least, she just wanted to quit drinking and was having trouble with it, partially due to the physical withdrawal effects.
The religious aspect is also off-putting to a lot of people.
 

Mill

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HAHA, if you've ever been in a 12-step or AA you will realize P&T are so right it is almost funny. They have this myth debunked. The only way to become sober is individually. You don't need anyone's help.
 

308nato

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I suggest you go to a couple of open meetings and see what you think.
 

yukichigai

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Originally posted by: Mill
HAHA, if you've ever been in a 12-step or AA you will realize P&T are so right it is almost funny. They have this myth debunked. The only way to become sober is individually. You don't need anyone's help.
I wouldn't go so far as to say that nobody needs help to get off the sauce....
 

yukichigai

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Originally posted by: 308nato
I suggest you go to a couple of open meetings and see what you think.
I know of no "Open" meetings in the area, at least none that would tolerate a non-alcoholic outside observer.

Something I should have raised in the initial post: what are your thoughts on governments requiring alcoholic to attend, specifically, 12-step programs or suffer further punishment? (Meaning they have to go to a 12-step program and can't go to some alternative, like Assisted Recovery)
 

pulse8

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I don't think anyone should be forced to do a 12-step program because they aren't for everyone, but they should have to go to some sort of rehab.
 

Stark

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it works for some people, just not all.

personally I think it doesn't place enough emphais on God and relying on Him in life.
 

GagHalfrunt

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The total gist of the show for those who watched and have the brain cells to understand is quite simple:

The success/failure ratio of those who use AA is exactly the same as those who do not.
 

Chu

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Originally posted by: GagHalfrunt
The total gist of the show for those who watched and have the brain cells to understand is quite simple:

The success/failure ratio of those who use AA is exactly the same as those who do not.

How do you get accurate numbers for those not in AA?