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Stunt

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Originally posted by: dmcowen674
Canadians hate and discriminate against gays too?

You hate and discriminate against them?
Some Canadians believe marriage is a religious bond between a man and a woman. I don't think I've met a person who "hates and discriminates" against gays, although I tend to associate with educationally inclined individuals.

The debate with regards to Gay Marriage is alive and well in Canada. It has fizzled recently as the religious groups were concerned with priests being forced to perform gay weddings where the legislation covered this quite clearly. I must admit it went somewhat smoothly, although for a venue like the US where there are more religious people; a system like the UK or what I've proposed above will work much better.
 

shrumpage

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Originally posted by: Craig234
*sigh* name calling.

My views on marriage have nothing to do with gay people - just like it has nothing to with people who want to practice polygamy. It goess back the Yin-Yang, or dichotomy of two differences coming togather and forming a single unit. Beyond that i don't care if some one wants to live with three women, three men, or just one man. They can do what they want.

Right. The same way someone who supports limiting marriage to white people's views have nothing to do with blacks.

Actually before that had everything to do with how whites precieved blacks. My views are indifferent to the sexual orentaiton - it has to do with gender.

You're completely lacking in any argument, throwing out irrelevant side issues, with only the following gobbledygook to try to articulate denying rights to fellow citizens:

Yin-Yang, or dichotomy of two differences coming togather and forming a single unit.

They are two human beings, who are made differently than you by falling in love with their own gender, who have the same needs for love, compansionship, etc.

You are so blinded by ideology that you are wanting to deny them the same basic right you have to marry.

Sigh...they do have the right to marry. Where does it say anywhere - that some can not get married?

You can't even see how absurd you sound with the attempt to address this extraordinarily serious issue with 'Yin-Yang' pulled freshly out of *your* orafice.

Its not a new concept, be around for thousands of years - maybe expand your horizons a little bit. Two halves making a whole - been in both eastern and western thought for some time.

But it is also reinforcement of thousands of years of civilation and millions of years of evolution. Male and female.

And there was no name calling. Name-calling is without substance. Calling Nixon an abuser of power, calling Clinton a cheater - these are not 'name-calling'.

So its okay to name call then? Dully noted. Since you displayed ignorce on where simple things such as the concept of yin-yang and couldn't even find the correct % of gay people in the united states - i guess it wouldn't be name calling to call you:

ignorant.

or maybe piss-poor google skillz - drat, but thas not a name

Calling people who demanded 'seperate but equal', who demanded 'white and black' drinking fountains, is not name-calling.

And calling someone who denies equal rights to a group for no reason other than an irrational view of that group a bigot is not name-calling, either.

Wait equal rights or new rights? Last time i checked no one has had the right to marry the same sex. I don't have the right to marry a man (i'm male btw), so how are you claiming equal rights?

If you want something new, why not be honest and ask for it.

Yes, the word bigot can be name-calling. Saying that if you oppose reperations you're automatically a bigot, if the thought of gay sex digsusts you you're a bigot - name-calling.

Those are not the case with your immoral harming of other people who are gay.

Too old people banging away - isn't exactly appealing, same with fat people sex. Does that make me a bigot against those people? honestly i don't care what people do, or who they do it with. And just becaus i don't want to know the details, makes me a bigot? you are very strange.

 

dmcowen674

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Originally posted by: Stunt
Originally posted by: dmcowen674
Canadians hate and discriminate against gays too?

You hate and discriminate against them?
Some Canadians believe marriage is a religious bond between a man and a woman. I don't think I've met a person who "hates and discriminates" against gays, although I tend to associate with educationally inclined individuals.

The debate with regards to Gay Marriage is alive and well in Canada. It has fizzled recently as the religious groups were concerned with priests being forced to perform gay weddings where the legislation covered this quite clearly. I must admit it went somewhat smoothly, although for a venue like the US where there are more religious people; a system like the UK or what I've proposed above will work much better.


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You'd make a better Politician than me.

A simple Yes or No would suffice.

For Example, No, I do not hate or discrimanate against Gays.

I say live and let live and Government has NO business behind bedroom doors, period.
 

Stunt

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So you support child molestation? If government doesn't have any business in people's bedrooms...:roll:

You are so black and white it's not even funny; you call me a Republican with no reason to do so and troll day in and out. I'm surprised the Mods let you stay here.

I don't think I need to answer such degrading questions, especially considering I have a couple close gay friends and two gay family members.
 

dmcowen674

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Originally posted by: Stunt
So you support child molestation?
If government doesn't have any business in people's bedrooms...:roll:

You are so black and white it's not even funny; you call me a Republican with no reason to do so and troll day in and out. I'm surprised the Mods let you stay here.

I don't think I need to answer such degrading questions, especially considering I have a couple close gay friends and two gay family members.

There you go again. What in the hell does child molestation have to do with business behind bedrooms in regards to gays and marriage??? :confused:

What's degrading is the individuals in here that spout support for hate and discrimination against Gays because it's the thing to do now.

If you have Gay family members and friends and you support them, then just come out and say No you not hate or discriminate against Gays.

What is so difficult??? There is no personal attack here.

You spout Republican ideology and talking points on a dialy basis and come up with dodges like above bringing up child molestation to something that has nothing to do with that.

Yes, I am Black & White while you are the epitomy of exactly the opposite.

Like I said Obfuscation.
 

Stunt

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Originally posted by: dmcowen674
I say live and let live and Government has NO business behind bedroom doors, period.
This is where you went wrong...you want to quite clearly state Government has NO business in the bedroom. A grey area is child molestation where your black and white mindset doesn't work. It's merely a shortcoming of one of your many talking points.

I do not spout Republican ideology and talking points and I think all members of this forum know this simple fact. Even bowfinger recently encouraged Canadian Conservative ideals be shifted to the US. You have no point to make so run along little Dave.
 

Im With Stupid

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Originally posted by: Stunt
This is where you went wrong...you want to quite clearly state Government has NO business in the bedroom. A grey area is child molestation where your black and white mindset doesn't work. It's merely a shortcoming of one of your many talking points.

Is it really beyond your comprehension to assume that he meant what goes on in the bedroom "among consenting adults?"
 

dmcowen674

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Originally posted by: Im With Stupid
Originally posted by: Stunt
This is where you went wrong...you want to quite clearly state Government has NO business in the bedroom. A grey area is child molestation where your black and white mindset doesn't work. It's merely a shortcoming of one of your many talking points.

Is it really beyond your comprehension to assume that he meant what goes on in the bedroom "among consenting adults?"

Thank you sir :thumbsup:
 

jackschmittusa

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And as far "child molestation in the bedroom" goes, the government needs probable cause to look. They don't just ban children from bedrooms either.
 

bsobel

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Originally posted by: spidey07
Originally posted by: dmcowen674
See, case in point.

Enjoy

Society doesn't want this crap. WE don't want this crap.

It's not right and should be combatted. The will of the people will prevail. We dont' want any part of the gay agenda.

Look at the votes.

And how do you explain away the obvious comparison to segregation up until the 50s.... Society (well, the majority) didn't want intergration. The arguments are identitical and as morally wrong as they were then.
 

bsobel

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Winnar.
I think it was DevilsAdvocate who posted what I found to be the most logical answer so far. It basically detailed how the government should only recognize unions between two people (regardless of all other considerations) and leave marriage up to the various churches.

Close, if the government really did it right it should be between two or more consenting adults. The fact that I don't have legal options to protect my girlfriend is just stupid.
 

dmcowen674

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Originally posted by: bsobel
Winnar.
I think it was DevilsAdvocate who posted what I found to be the most logical answer so far. It basically detailed how the government should only recognize unions between two people (regardless of all other considerations) and leave marriage up to the various churches.

Close, if the government really did it right it should be between two or more consenting adults.

The fact that I don't have legal options to protect my girlfriend is just stupid.

Protect her from what?

Liberals like me?

Mexicans with noisy chickens in their backyard?
 

bsobel

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Protect her from what?

The rights associated with our goverment to the protected class of people known as married. This includes tax treatment, medical access and control, etc. You know, the same rights that gay couples (that this thread is about) also want.

Liberals like me?

Now thats just trolling and you know it.

Mexicans with noisy chickens in their backyard?

Dave. If you don't want any of the multitude of stupid comments you make to wind up in my signature, stop making stupid comments. I realize your posts per day would plummet to zero, but we'll all get over it.


 

dmcowen674

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Originally posted by: bsobel
Protect her from what?

The rights associated with our goverment to the protected class of people known as married. This includes tax treatment, medical access and control, etc. You know, the same rights that gay couples (that this thread is about) also want.

Liberals like me?

Now thats just trolling and you know it.

Mexicans with noisy chickens in their backyard?

Dave. If you don't want any of the multitude of stupid comments you make to wind up in my signature, stop making stupid comments. I realize your posts per day would plummet to zero, but we'll all get over it.

Well you'd have to Marry your girlfriend, congrats on the wedding.

Really? Republicans say they are the only ones that protect us from the bad evil terrists.

I had to live with the noisy chickens on the other side of my fence when I lived in Atlanta. It was not out in the country but in the middle of city surburbia.

The Police would not do anything about it, not even for disturbing the peace.

They said "the majority of people in the subdivisions are now hispanic and it is normal for them to keep noisy chickens in their backyard for dinner so I would have to live with it."

I had no choice but to leave, moved up further north and then endured a 3 hr commute on I-85 traffic crawling at 5mph until the divorce.

I don't find anything stupid about my life as an American impacted so negatively by Mexicans, sorry.
 

K1052

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Originally posted by: bsobel
Winnar.
I think it was DevilsAdvocate who posted what I found to be the most logical answer so far. It basically detailed how the government should only recognize unions between two people (regardless of all other considerations) and leave marriage up to the various churches.

Close, if the government really did it right it should be between two or more consenting adults. The fact that I don't have legal options to protect my girlfriend is just stupid.

Gays specifically want benefits for their partners because the government doesn't recognize same sex marriages/unions. They are trying to go around the problem rather than through it. If unions were granted by the government then their partners would have protection/rights/benefits under the law.

Provided that such unions were obtainable from the govt, couples without union status(regardless of orientation) should be treated as single individuals under the law IMO.

 

bsobel

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Well you'd have to Marry your girlfriend, congrats on the wedding.

I can't, they won't let me. I am already married, and they won't allow us to extend our union to a third. From everything you posted you should see this as a problem. But I know your blind hatred will keep you from seeing that.

I had to live with the noisy chickens on the other side of my fence when I lived in Atlanta. It was not out in the country but in the middle of city surburbia. The Police would not do anything about it, not even for disturbing the peace. They said "the majority of people in the subdivisions are now hispanic and it is normal for them to keep noisy chickens in their backyard for dinner so I would have to live with it." I had no choice but to leave, moved up further north and then endured a 3 hr commute on I-85 traffic crawling at 5mph until the divorce. I don't find anything stupid about my life as an American impacted so negatively by Mexicans, sorry.

So your basic story is you had one neighbor who was loud. I agree, that probably sucked and was very annoying. It wasn't fair that you had to deal with that. Of course, you extrapolate that to an entire culture and are throw out additional lines like "they refuse to learn English and they tend to commit a lot of crime". I could use the same rational to presume all southerners are stupid prejudiced anti-american hicks from my interactions with you. Would that be fair?

Further, you basically claimed you could not find a chickenless neighborhood anywhere less than 3 hours outside Atlanta. Excuse us if you tend to think (as usual) you are exagerating a bit.
 

Sunner

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Originally posted by: shrumpage
Wait equal rights or new rights? Last time i checked no one has had the right to marry the same sex. I don't have the right to marry a man (i'm male btw), so how are you claiming equal rights?

And with the good ole black/white school system, everyone has equal rights, right?
No blacks can go the same school as white, and no whites can go to black schools, that's equal, right?
 

dmcowen674

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Originally posted by: bsobel
Well you'd have to Marry your girlfriend, congrats on the wedding.

I can't, they won't let me. I am already married, and they won't allow us to extend our union to a third. From everything you posted you should see this as a problem. But I know your blind hatred will keep you from seeing that.

I had to live with the noisy chickens on the other side of my fence when I lived in Atlanta. It was not out in the country but in the middle of city surburbia. The Police would not do anything about it, not even for disturbing the peace. They said "the majority of people in the subdivisions are now hispanic and it is normal for them to keep noisy chickens in their backyard for dinner so I would have to live with it." I had no choice but to leave, moved up further north and then endured a 3 hr commute on I-85 traffic crawling at 5mph until the divorce. I don't find anything stupid about my life as an American impacted so negatively by Mexicans, sorry.

So your basic story is you had one neighbor who was loud. I agree, that probably sucked and was very annoying. It wasn't fair that you had to deal with that. Of course, you extrapolate that to an entire culture and are throw out additional lines like "they refuse to learn English and they tend to commit a lot of crime". I could use the same rational to presume all southerners are stupid prejudiced anti-american hicks from my interactions with you. Would that be fair?

Further, you basically claimed you could not find a chickenless neighborhood anywhere less than 3 hours outside Atlanta. Excuse us if you tend to think (as usual) you are exagerating a bit.

Really, Have you've been to Atlanta lately???

No it was not one neighbor, there were several and no you cannot find a chickenless neighborhood around Atlanta unless you're rich and in an expensive gated subdivision.

I didn't say all and there are many southerners that fit your description.

I didn't know you were already married.

If you paid any attention to my posts you would see I have no problem with a woman taking multiple husbands or a man taking multiple wives or Gays with multiple husbands or wives or both.

It's their choices, not the Government's.
 

bsobel

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If you paid any attention to my posts you would see I have no problem with a woman taking multiple husbands or a man taking multiple wives or Gays with multiple husbands or wives or both.

I saw that, but figured you'd have to change your stance or live with the fact that you agree with a Republican on something ;) [to be fair, I'm a fiscal republican, a social liberal]
 

dmcowen674

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Originally posted by: bsobel
If you paid any attention to my posts you would see I have no problem with a woman taking multiple husbands or a man taking multiple wives or Gays with multiple husbands or wives or both.

I saw that, but figured you'd have to change your stance or live with the fact that you agree with a Republican on something ;) [to be fair, I'm a fiscal republican, a social liberal]

I agree with Republicans on many things that aren't corrupt or Nanny State like.

We should be on the same party.

Speaking of party, my supporters have said I should start my own party.

This is being investigated.
 

Lemon law

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To maybe get this back on subject---suppose I have two neighbors--one couple is gay--they are quiet, friendly, and don't bother me. I have another hetrosexual couple that don't really bother me either---but every damn night they get into some screaming fight---and the next moring that neighbors wife is likely to have some ugly bruses and some black eyes. I have no desire to get into either couples bedroom--but I have this guilt thing that if I don't call the cops, one day one or the other will end up killing the other---so I call the cops---am I calling the cops because I want to get a good nights sleep for a change---or am I calling the cops to prevent social damage in the form of violence and what it may do to their children.
And ask any cop---the thing they almost fear most is being called out on a domestic disturbance---get real dangerous and unpredictable.---and my heart goes out to those that are battered---and say as a point of pride---that we have been married along time---but neither of us have let anger escalate to physical violence.

But this whole polylandry question is another similar social question---from a moral standpoint---is there necessarily something wrong?---and like every red blooded male---I have that secret desire for a Harem of females to wait on me hand and foot. But suppose we extend that custom to the larger society---and as wealthy males monopolise the supply of females---taking as many wives as they can afford---unless we adjust the about 50 50 birth sex ratio---that is going to leave alot of males without wives---and the same would occur if the sex customs were reversed and wives could take as many males as they wished.

So the what is good for the overall society question enters into it always---who the hell do you think wrote the bible but people who had long experience living together in groups.
Did they always stone homosexuals to death or was this some chest beating on how moral they were while looking away in actual life? Just as moral majority types do today while they hire gay staffers in private.
 

palindrome

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Originally posted by: Coldkilla
*First time P & N Poster*

I just turn on Larry King a while ago and the debate continues. Gays. There's a religious guy on there yapping about whatever and saying "Gays are not the way of God!" and sh!t..

I swear the next time I see religion on political news Im going to snap!!! What's the reason behind this?? What the hell ever happened to "Church and State".. I dont care what your friggen religion says, no one should. Especially politics.

There's been 1000s of polls, and most if not all say American's don't mind Gays as long as they don't bother them.. So what the heck is the big deal?? I say this to religion: Go cry to your Gods.. because you have no place in politics..

*Amid financial set-backs and other reasons.. *

Just an FYI, there is no such thing as separation of church and state. At the most, its implied, but it definitely is not written anywhere in our Constitution or Amendments. If I'm not mistaken, the term "church and state" was from a letter from Thomas Jefferson back in the day, but I could be wrong. Also, keep in mind, in this time period there were real witch hunts and many fundamentalist Christians. I'm not saying there aren't any of those, in a matter of speaking, nowadays. I'm just saying that these are different times and hopefully we as americans can get past religious discrepancies as long as the government isn't directly endorsing it for political gain.
 

ericlp

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Originally posted by: spidey07
Originally posted by: dmcowen674
See, case in point.

Enjoy

Society doesn't want this crap. WE don't want this crap.

It's not right and should be combatted. The will of the people will prevail. We dont' want any part of the gay agenda.

Look at the votes.

I'm sure if you took a vote on Black American Ban in a white majority town... The votes would turn out like the gay vote...

Now don't get all stringy on me just yet...

I'm sure if you took a vote on White people Ban in a black majority town... The votes would turn out like the gay vote...

WHY? Any minority will FAIL! That is why are government had programs for minorities in the country...

Guess what? Gay people are a minority. But it is lack of education that people think why they do. Gay people are not going to spread it to you if you shake a gay persons hand... They are not going to corrupt your kids...

You are born gay or you are not. It's as simple as that? Me? I am not gay and have no problem with them... This should not be a vote for the american people.

This is just another scare tactic for the religious people to go vote for bush or republicans that is all this little stunt is... More votes more power... Nothing more nothing less. And it's Bushit...

 

Craig234

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Originally posted by: shrumpage
Actually before that had everything to do with how whites precieved blacks. My views are indifferent to the sexual orentaiton - it has to do with gender.

I boggle at the clueless things some people say. Sexual orientation in the current discussion is about - wait for it - gender.

You cannot argue how you are against same-gender marriage and then say your opinion has nothing to do with sexual gender orientation. You can try, an look silly; again.

You're completely lacking in any argument, throwing out irrelevant side issues, with only the following gobbledygook to try to articulate denying rights to fellow citizens:

Yin-Yang, or dichotomy of two differences coming togather and forming a single unit.

They are two human beings, who are made differently than you by falling in love with their own gender, who have the same needs for love, compansionship, etc.

You are so blinded by ideology that you are wanting to deny them the same basic right you have to marry.

Sigh...they do have the right to marry. Where does it say anywhere - that some can not get married?

You are unaware that in 49 of 50 states, there are laws on the books saying that marriage is restricted to opposite genders? What kind of question did you post?

You can't even see how absurd you sound with the attempt to address this extraordinarily serious issue with 'Yin-Yang' pulled freshly out of *your* orafice.

Its not a new concept, be around for thousands of years - maybe expand your horizons a little bit. Two halves making a whole - been in both eastern and western thought for some time.

But it is also reinforcement of thousands of years of civilation and millions of years of evolution. Male and female.

It's always amusing when the ignorant attempt condescension. Annoying, irritating, but a bit amusing.

Your utterly ignorant attempt to put lipstick on the pig of your bigotry by name-dropping the phrase 'Yin-Yang' over it received my criticism, which was not based on lack of familiarity with Yin-Yang, but rather familiarity and pointing out how terrible your application of it was.

Since you need it spelled out, I'll do some spelling.

Human nature is more complicated than black and white qualities. Yin Yang is a useful concept for all kinds of complementary qualities - and it does not prove a thing on gay marriage, because YOU fail to grasp the human qualities involved. There are people who are mentally one gender and physically another (check the science), there are masculine and feminine gay men, there are masculine and feminine gay women, there are asexual people, and many other things needing more consideration than your 8-letter argument.

Gay relationships can *have* a masculine and feminine yin-yang, for example. You just embarrass yourself when you say 'yin yang' as your whole argument.

And there was no name calling. Name-calling is without substance. Calling Nixon an abuser of power, calling Clinton a cheater - these are not 'name-calling'.

So its okay to name call then? Dully noted. Since you displayed ignorce on where simple things such as the concept of yin-yang and couldn't even find the correct % of gay people in the united states - i guess it wouldn't be name calling to call you:

ignorant.

or maybe piss-poor google skillz - drat, but thas not a name
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No, you would simple be saying something false because of your own ignorance. You mistook a criticism of your terrible misuse of the phrase Yin-Yang and made a wtong assumption from the criticism; and now you make an attack with nothing to support it about he percent of gays in America. I don't know where that came from, but I'll bet I've done a lot more research on the topic than you have - and one thing you would know, if you did a little more research, is how widely the estimates vary.

You're wrong, and looking foolish the more you try to attack out of your errors.

I'm ignorang on countless things, and have no shame to say so, but not the things you are wrongly spewing.

Calling people who demanded 'seperate but equal', who demanded 'white and black' drinking fountains, is not name-calling.

And calling someone who denies equal rights to a group for no reason other than an irrational view of that group a bigot is not name-calling, either.

Wait equal rights or new rights? Last time i checked no one has had the right to marry the same sex. I don't have the right to marry a man (i'm male btw), so how are you claiming equal rights?

If you want something new, why not be honest and ask for it.

Just wow. Are you that confused? The ban on slavery gave former slaves a new right, and it gave them equality. The two are not exclusive.

The current law has unjustified discrimination. Removing that discrimination would give gays equality on marriage, and the new equal right to marry.

What is confusing for you?

Yes, the word bigot can be name-calling. Saying that if you oppose reperations you're automatically a bigot, if the thought of gay sex digsusts you you're a bigot - name-calling.

Those are not the case with your immoral harming of other people who are gay.

Too old people banging away - isn't exactly appealing, same with fat people sex. Does that make me a bigot against those people? honestly i don't care what people do, or who they do it with. And just becaus i don't want to know the details, makes me a bigot? you are very strange.

As I said, there's no problem with your being disgusted by gay sex. That may make you bigoted or not, I'm unsure; I'm a bigot too, if it does.

However, choosing to prevent them from the equal right to marry certainly is an acto of bigotry, and it is immoral.

Why you are so confused that you respond to the issue of denying equal marital rights with not wanting to watch fat people have sex, well, watching you argue is like fat sex.