Please tell me my doubts can't be true...

[clicknext]

I'm gonna make this as short as possible, and then you can ask questions if you need to. =)

My GF is going to summer school in China for the summer. She has plenty of free time and internet access there. When she just went there, she emailed me almost every day, but then one day she just stopped... its been like 3 weeks since she's emailed me, and my friends said shes been on ICQ a few times, but she didn't take the time to leave me a message or anything. I'm starting to think she's found someone else... when she was online she said to my friend that she was havin a blast there and didn't wanna leave, and she didn't ask about me or anything like I thought she normally would. So what do you think? Am I getting paranoid from playing CS 24/7 or do you think my doubts are likely true?

 

[Murphyrulez]

If it smells like a pile of crap, and it tastes like a pile of crap, it probably is a pile of crap.

 

[aphex]

If you poke it, and it spits at you. You shouldnt have poked it in the first place.

 

[Booster]

I'd phone her. I know the price is gonna be high, but a few minutes just to say hi could help very much IMO.

 

[clicknext]

Umm sorry I am extremely dense and don't get your riddle language.

In reply to the phone thing: She's living at the school. Impossible for me to phone her, and even very difficult for her to phone me.

 

[Ameesh]

if it quacks like a duck and walks like a duck and tastes like a duck

 

[kami]

<insert witty comment>

 

[clicknext]

Originally posted by: Ameesh
if it quacks like a duck and walks like a duck and tastes like a duck

Could be a plastic duck...

 

[ohtwell]

I don't want to say this, but it sounds like she's trying to move on and doesn't have the gutts to inform you. You should try to get in touch with her or have a friend, that you know is talking to her, ask her WTF is going on.




: ) Amanda

 

[kami]

ask her WTF is going on.

 

[Kadarin]

How about some background info? For example, how long have you been with this girl? What were her emails like from school? Did you get any hint, or was it as sudden as you have implied? Any possibility of another explanation?

 

[KMurphy]

Did you see "Waterboy"?
Roberto's letters came less and less frequently from Naw'lens

Long distance relationships are teh suck. If you really want to be with her, break off contact now. If, upon her arrival back to the states, she seeks you out then it's on. Otherwise start actively seeking new companionship.

"Out of sight, out of mind"

 

[xirtam]

I'd tell you that your doubts can't be true, but you'd probably doubt it.

 

[KMurphy]

your sig should read credit card charges, not payments. Is someone mysteriously making your credit card payments? If they are, PM me so I can give you my CC #'s for freebies.

 

[clicknext]

Originally posted by: Astaroth33
How about some background info? For example, how long have you been with this girl? What were her emails like from school? Did you get any hint, or was it as sudden as you have implied? Any possibility of another explanation?

Lets see... background info... we're both 15... 1st relationship for me, 3rd for her... we've been together about 3 months... her emails didnt give me any hint... basically she always just told me about what was going on with her over there and added love you, etc always. She also said she wanted me to know everything so i wouldnt worry and stuff... hmm other explanation... only one that's possible is that she's too busy to write any, but that seems unlikely since she said she was having lots of fun and stuff and didn't tell me she was too busy to write or anything.

 

[Turin39789]

as much as I want to think of you relationship as valid and worth the trouble, you are 15, and I can't

 

[Mean MrMustard]

"we're both 15..."

'nuff said...

 

[Kadarin]

Originally posted by: clicknext

Originally posted by: Astaroth33
How about some background info? For example, how long have you been with this girl? What were her emails like from school? Did you get any hint, or was it as sudden as you have implied? Any possibility of another explanation?

Lets see... background info... we're both 15... 1st relationship for me, 3rd for her... we've been together about 3 months... her emails didnt give me any hint... basically she always just told me about what was going on with her over there and added love you, etc always. She also said she wanted me to know everything so i wouldnt worry and stuff... hmm other explanation... only one that's possible is that she's too busy to write any, but that seems unlikely since she said she was having lots of fun and stuff and didn't tell me she was too busy to write or anything.

Well, if the worst is true, then that really sucks.. You just have to remember that even though it may feel like it, it's really not the end of the world. You live, learn, and move on, and the next time it hopefully gets a bit easier.

Good luck to you.

 

[clicknext]

lol, I guess you're right... but... nevermind

 

[badluck]

move on....your 15.....I know you might think that is a lame comment, but it's true. You are too young to be worried about crap like that....just go have fun.

 

[clicknext]

Originally posted by: Astaroth33

Originally posted by: clicknext

Originally posted by: Astaroth33
How about some background info? For example, how long have you been with this girl? What were her emails like from school? Did you get any hint, or was it as sudden as you have implied? Any possibility of another explanation?

Lets see... background info... we're both 15... 1st relationship for me, 3rd for her... we've been together about 3 months... her emails didnt give me any hint... basically she always just told me about what was going on with her over there and added love you, etc always. She also said she wanted me to know everything so i wouldnt worry and stuff... hmm other explanation... only one that's possible is that she's too busy to write any, but that seems unlikely since she said she was having lots of fun and stuff and didn't tell me she was too busy to write or anything.

Well, if the worst is true, then that really sucks.. You just have to remember that even though it may feel like it, it's really not the end of the world. You live, learn, and move on, and the next time it hopefully gets a bit easier.

Good luck to you.

Yeah... thanks... I dunno... perhaps there's a valid explanation to it all... I'll try to catch her online next week... I've got all the luck. My friend said I went online a few seconds after she went off.

 

[clicknext]

Originally posted by: badluck
move on....your 15.....I know you might think that is a lame comment, but it's true. You are too young to be worried about crap like that....just go have fun.

Yeah, I know you're right, but fun is this... this is fun. But not when crap happens. =P

 

[Semidevil]

15...yes, it's that age thing.

but ok. I would say your doubts aren't true. Once 15 year olds go out and start having fun, they forget many things, (believe it or not)that includes talking to boyfriends. She's in China. It's a whole different place for her(I"m assuming), so she's probably just very busy having fun.

and that quote of hers about not wanting to come back. I would just take that as a figure-of-speech. no need to worry.

 

[absolutiza]

this reminds me of a joke.. a priest and a rabbi walk into a bar.

i forgot the rest

 

[rgwalt]

Well, there is no telling what is happening over there. The best thing you can do for yourself is try not to worry about it. When she gets back to the states, let her get in touch with you. If you know she is back, and haven't heard from her in a week, then try to give her a call. It isn't fair for her to drop you like this... women need to have the stones to break up with a man face to face, not just stop talking to him. If she is back and you don't hear from her, she probably wants to leave you behind. Make her come out and tell you the truth. She owes you that.

Sorry, I'm very bitter.

Ryan