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Bushman5

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Ok so im at a good time in my life here. Im a 24 year old ( turned 24 thursday) white male 6.1 green eyes slender tanned just got a high paying job recently and im single.

So cut to my problem.
On my birthday my best friend amanda takes me to a club with about 9 girls, amongst the 9 maby 4 show interest, all throught the night these 4 where all over me dancing doing shot's and refusing advances from other guys. At the end of the night 3 of them where talking to me in the parking lot and 1 takes my number saying they want to lime with me friday night.

All 3 of thme are good looking women, they all work in a bank together and all are strong independant women, which i like, i hate having to baby sit girls.

So now im interested in all 3 but all in 3 different ways.

Girl 1 has this very posh ****** me look about her, which isnt exactly my thing but she is good looking so i cant see it going beyond a sexual thing+ she is very clingy whole portions of the night she didnt want to let go and for some reason felt it necessary to hug me and lay her head on me which i dont mind but its a friendly outing..

Girl 2 has a very conservative sexy look, she is tall well rounded woman., which im into,but like above i am not as into her as i want to be, i dont want just to get with a girl for sex if im not 100% into her.

Girl 3. OMG when i dance with her i get weak and begin to fumble, the first thing that comes to mind isnt sex like the other 2, i actually kept thinking man id luv to get her away from her friends, she is short maby 5,2 georgeous body and a very unique pretty face. She has a very simple sence of style and my favourite thing, those little dimples on her lower back.

So now girl 1 calls me on friday and tells me they are going back to the same club so i go.
As the night progressed girl 1 is all over me every single song she wants to dance and the 2 other girls sorta stay away, girl 2 comes across maby 2 times when girl 1 and girl 3 go to the ladies.

AMid way through the night after maby a bottle of champagne for them and like 9 scotch for me girl 1 kisses me. This is something i did not want to happen but it just sorta happened, it sorta happened 3 times Laughing.

Now this is where my problem is. the 3 of them are good friends and i want girl 3 not girl 1. All night when girl 1 wasnt around i couldnt stop looking at girl 3 and i even got jealous when a guy who she met was around (some ugly guy with no stlye and glasses so i dont think he is a threat i tihnk she danced alot with him cause this club has a ratio of maby 5 to 1.

I want girl 3 but i dont want to make waves for them ( not that i tihnk i can but just want to avoid that sorta thing) i dont know wat to do

PLEASEEEE post your comments and suggestions. Ive been single for awhile after a really long term thing and i want someone.


Thanks
-Darth-


PS i put this detail so u can know wat type of people u are dealing with
 
Cliffs:
3 girls like me, all friends
1 seems to like me a lot
I like a different one the most
How do I get with the girl I like without causing problems between them?
 
Just read the title, not the post. I've concluded you should have sex with all of them, preferably at the same time and on camera. Good luck!

EDIT: Seriously, you're probably already toast on this one. Unless, the girl you kissed feels the same way you do about it and it was more of a druken/accidental thing. But you know what? In spite of what you might think the best way is to actually ask the one you like, not a forum full of computer geeks on ATOT! 😀
 
urrr ok. im most curious as to wat happened between thursday and friday. did they have alittle meeting and decied who would persue me wtf. i dont understand
 
it sounds like you are interested in pursuing a relationship with a girl.

It also sounds like these girls are just wanting to have fun, and possibly hook up for the night. My advice would be to find a nice girl somewhere other than a bar or club.
 
i didnt meet them at the club they are friends with my friend....... now that u mention it first time i met thme was at a bar few days back meh yes i want a relationship
 
I think that up until #1 kissed you, you were ok but now its going to get messy no matter what you decide to do. If it were me, I'd talk to #3 asap to make sure theres a mutual interest before doing anything else with #1 at all & proceed based on the information given.
 
Thats a good idea except i dont have girl 3's number i guess i could get it. I just came off the phone with my friend mandy so i sent her to snoop from girl 1 about her thoughts of last night and get some more info on girl 3. doubt she will get much because she cant make it obvious i like girls 3 girls 1 knows me and mandy are thick as thieves.
 
seriously, if you are that interested in girl 3, give her a call. It won't ruin a thing if you are up front and honest with her.

Ya know if she feels the same way about you she is probably sitting around wondering why you haven't called.
 
There are less than 2000 inhabitants of Norfolk Island so you need to be efficient. 🙂 Next time yall are limin together, ask them *all* to come back to your place, and gauge their reactions. 🙂 Maybe getting out of a longterm relationship like you are, you could use some no-strings fun.
 
Life is short. Go back to sleep and see if you can have that dream again. If you do, go for the one you want to bone the most.
 
Originally posted by: Bushman5
urrr ok. im most curious as to wat happened between thursday and friday. did they have alittle meeting and decied who would persue me wtf. i dont understand
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Yes, they did. You need to tell 1 that you're interested in someone else before you approach 3.

 
*Reads OP - Notes spelling and grammar*

*Read's OP's subsequent posts - notes total lack of spelling and grammar*

*Conclusion - SHENS*
 
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