Okay...first off, sorry for late reply...I so totally forgot about this thread, lol.
Well...I disconnected the wireless. Actually, I took the wireless card out of the case altogether. Still have the red X, but speed has improved (with the exception of Facebook with Chrome for some reason)
The wireless is messed up on the router, one of those free Westell modems from Frontier. I am upgrading my plan to 15 down, and will be getting a new modem/router on the 16th.
My Google Nexus can connect just fine, but my and my GF's phones shows no wireless connectivity, even though the network is there. Just another thing for the Frontier guy to help with...but I am HOPING a new modem/router will work.
Thanks to all for the suggestions and help, even though the problem still exists, the wired connection works GREAT!!!