Apparently two weeks after this guy attended a bachelor party he got this letter from the bride: "You attended a party that was meant to be a last night out for my future husband with his friends. Instead, you turned it into something horrible. While we have decided to go ahead with the wedding, we request that you no longer be a part of it. I do not want to celebrate my marriage with men who encouraged my fiance to take off his clothes and touch a whore. I would neve make him stop being friends with you, but I will insist that you not attend." I find it laughable she starts the letter as 'we' and turns quickly to 'I'....Same way with the party being 'meant as a LAST night out'. anyways, I don't know what I would do about a letter like this, definitely everything in my power to screw 'her' wedding up that's for sure. I'd tell my friend flat out this is the start of a very difficult life if he chooses to continue a relationship with her. It's nuts.