People that seem too good to be true...

beer

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This is not another thread bashing PC Resources, but it is derived from him. Basically, Patrick was an advanced systems engineer, entrapreneur, scientist, marksman, car buff, and an extraordinary bodybuilder - he sent me PMs about workout techniques and while what he said did not always make sense, he obviously had some gym experience. Although his claims about being like 230 lbs with 2% body fat and doing Judo were a bit far-fetched becuase to get as massive as he said he was would require a lot of focus on the gym (in the region of hours a day) and, well, there are only 24 hours each day.

This brings me back to the topic of this thread. How often do you meet people that just seem too good to be true? For example, I work out with a guy that is middle-aged, software engineer, driving a $60,000 BMW, and who knows workout techniques for every muscle on your body. He has helped me so much becuase what he tells me actually does work and does make sense, but really, it seems too good to be true. I mean, there are only 24 hours in a day and only a limited amount of time for people to actually do stuff, especially given the point that most jobs that allow you to pay for a $60K car require a lot more than 40 hours a week!

People in real life can only be well-rounded to a certain amount. Of course, there are exceptions. I know a guy at my school that is decent at football, a very buff bodybuilder, the best video editor I have ever seen, and sporting a Camaro SS, not to mention a National Merit Finalist. It just seems that people like this are too good to be true. I mean the fact that he has rich parents means that he never has to work nor pay for the Camaro, but being a bodybuilder, football play, NMSQT Finalist, and video editor requires a hell of a lot of time investment. I mean I consider myself well rounded because I can work out and maintain a high GPA and have a very good sense of the world around us, but the moment you start throwing organized sports in there it just becomes too much.

95% of the people at my school are stereotypical atheletes (sports and weights 24 hours a day, beer on weekends, GPA < 3.0), stereotypical nerds (grossy skinny or disgustingly out of shape, reclusive, lack of all common sense, book-smart above all else) or another typical social group. How do people become so well rounded then? I think everyone knows someone here that is just good at everything - sports, looks, academics, common sense. What gives them that advantage and how can I harness it? It's more than time and energy management, I know that for a fact.
 

Electric Amish

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You can be really, really good at a few things, or you can be ok at a lot of things. You can't be really, really good at everything.

You have to make the choice of where to spend your time and resources.

amish
 

khtm

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A lot of people that are as "well-rounded" as you said, have probably been pressured by their parents to achieve. This is not always healthy. You may think they are perfect and have no flaws, but...

As far as being good at everything - I'm assuming it just comes natural. No matter how hard you practice at something (let it be football or math), it's hard to compete with someone who is naturally good at it. Looks? Well that's an easy one - 100% genetics.



<< You can't be really, really good at everything. >>


You obviously haven't met very many people, eh? I can think of several people that fit that description. It's quite overwhelming.

-khtm-
 

kami

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But it's not like having a lot of skills and interests make them a better PERSON. The most unexpected people are usually the ones that have the most impact in your life.

As for me, I know that I'm basically "OK" at almost anything...I can talk reasonably well about any subject, and I can pickup on almost anything...but I never get truly good at any given thing. Maybe I just haven't found it yet.
 

Juniper

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You obviously haven't met very many people, eh? I can think of several people that fit that description. It's quite overwhelming.

Same here. I know tons of people who are good at all. Let your imagination run.



 

linuxboy

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You can be really, really good at a few things, or you can be ok at a lot of things. You can't be really, really good at everything.

I think many of you are confusing the idea of being the very, very best in a particular field versus being an excellent "jack of all trades". Comparatively one can be very good at many things just because much of the world chooses to wallow in mediocrity but if you progress farther on the scale of excellence, you will see that to be supreme in everything is impossible. One will always have sterengths and weaknesses or be a great generalist. I guess we need to form criteria of what we use to mean "good at everything".


Cheers ! :)

 

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The more you give, the more you get
The more you do unselfishly
The more you live abundantly.
The more of everything you share,
The more you laugh, the less you fret.
The more you'll always have to spare.
The more you love, the more you'll find
That life is good and friends are kind.
For only what we give away,
Enriches us from day to day.
 

aznspeed

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Good looks, money, health and intelligence are merely aspects of life. Don't forget family, love, friendship and personality. Everybody is good at something. Maybe you just have to realize it.
 

Viper GTS

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I'd just like to say that Optimus really is who he says he is, just this morning I washed & waxed all 27 of his Ferraris. I took him coffee this morning & twelve 18 year old blondes jumped out of his bed - all naked. After his coffee he ran his traditional 50 mile run in 37 minutes, 29 seconds. After that he took his F16 out for a spin, splashed 7 Afghan fighters (yes, they have fighter jets!) & 17 flying cows, rescued Heidi Klum from a concentration camp & flew his jet back home with just his toe (he was busy using the rest of him on Heidi). He truly is a wonderful man.

BTW, my name is Jeeves.

;)

In all seriousness, though, I don't understand why people feel the need to lie about who and what they are on the internet. I have always been completely honest in everything I've done here, it's never even occurred to me to pretend to be something I'm not. Because of that I tend to give people the benefit of the doubt, until I have reason to suspect otherwise I take them at their word.

Whether that makes me gullible or not I don't know, but I suppose it's one of the hazards of being an honest person.

Viper GTS
 

Geekbabe

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<< I'd just like to say that Optimus really is who he says he is, just this morning I washed & waxed all 27 of his Ferraris. I took him coffee this morning & twelve 18 year old blondes jumped out of his bed - all naked. After his coffee he ran his traditional 50 mile run in 37 minutes, 29 seconds. After that he took his F16 out for a spin, splashed 7 Afghan fighters (yes, they have fighter jets!) & 17 flying cows, rescued Heidi Klum from a concentration camp & flew his jet back home with just his toe (he was busy using the rest of him on Heidi). He truly is a wonderful man.

BTW, my name is Jeeves.

;)

In all seriousness, though, I don't understand why people feel the need to lie about who and what they are on the internet. I have always been completely honest in everything I've done here, it's never even occurred to me to pretend to be something I'm not. Because of that I tend to give people the benefit of the doubt, until I have reason to suspect otherwise I take them at their word.

Whether that makes me gullible or not I don't know, but I suppose it's one of the hazards of being an honest person.

Viper GTS
>>




LOL, Too funny about Optimus...

bTW, I agree with you totally !!