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PDA- what are your thoughts

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Zaitsevs

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In my school, they have just tried to reinforce no public display of affection, aside from holding hands. Which I suppose it's understandable, because I see couples making out in the hallway, and touching and holding each others butts. Which that is what I think is unnecessary, but would you say sitting with somebody at the same bench or lunch table and having your arm around them and basically just giving them a hug, is that out of line? I mean I had my hand on her side, just giving her a hug of companionship. After lunch we just hug, and give each other a quick kiss, and I don't think it's out of line. But I'm wondering what you guys have to say about that.
 
I dont think that it is too out of line... making out in the hall way, overtly sexual contact (the hands on each others butt sort of thing) should be enforced, but where does one draw the line on the kissing thing? One administrator's idea of acceptabe behavior may be drastically different from anothers...

I dont think this is something with a 'right' answer
 
Yeah, I understand. Maybe they're just trying to put all kissing out of the question, so nobody makes a big stink of it.

I was just curious as to what everybody thought about pda, and the extremities that it should or shouldn't be taken to.
 
I hate seeing it from most people. It annoys me, unless they are like both hot girls or something. Since I don't like seeing it, I hate when a girl is all over me in public, since I know most people don't like seeing that stuff anyway. Anything more than a simple hug or quick kiss just makes me want more, which I'm not going to get in public, so why do it?
 
Originally posted by: meltdown75
Originally posted by: Zaitsevs
Originally posted by: meltdown75
i have this amazing ability to not really give a crap about that kind of thing.
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in either position?
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eh? 🙂
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I mean, you don't care about it at all if you were to kiss somebody in public and or see somebody kissing somebody else in public?

I was asking, which position to see it, or to be doing it.

 
Originally posted by: Zaitsevs
Originally posted by: meltdown75
Originally posted by: Zaitsevs
Originally posted by: meltdown75
i have this amazing ability to not really give a crap about that kind of thing.
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in either position?
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eh? 🙂
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I mean, you don't care about it at all if you were to kiss somebody in public and or see somebody kissing somebody else in public?

I was asking, which position to see it, or to be doing it.
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im like that, ive seen people having sex in a the toilets at a club....didnt even bother to lock the door behind them....i just took a slash like everythin was normal, and then me n another guy cheered them on on the way out.
 
Originally posted by: Zaitsevs
I was asking, which position to see it, or to be doing it.
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I don't usually do it - actually I never do any public affection-type stuff with my wife. Other people though... I can't be concerned with what other people are doing in public. It's not that I'm an insensitive son of a bitch, or don't care about other people. It's just realizing that what I think or feel about it just doesn't matter.
 
Originally posted by: shamrock1313
My school doesn't allow holding of hands nor anything else. Though for some reason, hugs are AOK in their books.
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Rofl
Our school isn't very strict...
 
Prudishness is thinly veiled jealousy, there is simply no good reason for healthy people to be bothered by this sort of thing. If public display of affection is more taboo than public displays of degredation and humiliation, then WTF did we go wrong?
 
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