The Kingmaker devs are adding a turn based mode in August, though there is an unofficial mod that does the same thing. The great thing is that both allow you turn TB on or off with just a button press. So for trash fights that your party will steam roll you can keep it off. For fights where you need to be tactical just turn it on.I was excited for PoE way back when but when I finally got around to playing it a year or two ago I just couldn't get into it. I realized I don't find the realtime combat fun at all (yes I know you can pause). It's clunky and tedious and tends to devolve to balling up. High hopes for BG3.