What the hell are you talking about? You're wrong.
I'm asking what the appropriate repair is. What if they said they want a whole new car? What if they want a new bumper, when a repaint completely repairs it?
If you had some reading comprehension, you might notice I did not take the suggestions of 'touch up paint' thinking the quality won't be high enough.
My plan right now is for her to get the repair she wants at the one dealer she prefers. I was checking to see if that's what makes sense, it seems it does.
Your comments are quite offensively incorrect.
I'm getting lectured that I'm making way too big a deal out of this and trying to do too much to repair this, and you say that?
I left the scratches. I left the owner my contact information, she called me, I asked how she felt about it, she said she was concerned it would lower the resale value, I said that was her right and I'd repair it, and I came here to ask what the appropriate repair is since I don't know. There are different options. Go away.
Bullshit.
If you were asking about options honestly, you'd have told us that you hit a parked car from the get-go. Instead, you deliberately left that information out and phrased the question as though you were helping a friend fix his own car. The impression you gave was that your friend had scratched their own car and was looking for a cheap repair.
That is miles away from what actually happened.
In the case of scratches left by an owner on his or her own vehicle, yes, you would be making too big a deal of it. Frankly, if the driver caused the scratches on his or her own (or if the owner's kid scratched it with a bike in the garage by accident, etc.) then the appropriate response to scratches on the bumper of a 7-year-old car is to ignore them and not bother with fixing them since it's just cosmetic.
But damage caused by another party is different. In that case what needs to be done is for the damage to be repaired perfectly. The appropriate response in that situation is to take the car to a professional body shop and do whatever the body shop recommends (yes, even if that means replacing the entire bumper with a new one).
If you don't understand the difference between those two situations and why full professional repair is appropriate in the latter but not in the former, then you're not mature enough to be driving a car. However, given the way you intentionally misrepresented the situation in your initial post, I think it's quite clear that you
do understand the difference, but were hoping to manipulate the story in such a way as to make us tell you that cheap repairs were fine in order to give yourself an excuse to lowball the victim of your own carelessness.
"The bumper of a 2007 white Honda Oddyssey was bumped." Indeed. A responsible adult would have said, "I hit a parked 2007 Honda Odyssey and scratched the paint on the bumper," but you didn't.
Grow up and take responsibility for your actions.
ZV