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[Jzero]

Originally posted by: spidey07
"Should I date a virgin"

I think the better question should be "Why would you?" What good can come of it?

I dated a virgin. A lot of good has come of it. Get back to me in a year or so and we'll probably have gotten married by then. There's more to it than sex....if you both are looking for more than sex.

 

[weezergirl]

It's kind of sad if you have to ask a forum if you should go out with a girl because she might not put out. If it's really that important to you then NO, you shouldn't go out with her. there are plenty of people that are willing to put out, no use getting into a relationship in which you might get frustrated because she doesn't.

Basically you want to know if you should get into a relationship with a possibly amazing girl who you might one day consider marrying but don't know if you can handle not having sex any time soon. Isn't that something you should ask yourself? I know guys who would and guys who wouldn't. You're going to get varying opinions but it's ultimately how YOU think you can deal with it.

 

So, Chrono, do you have an update or not? Are you still seeing your friend who wanted to find herself? If you are no longer seeing each other, are you still friends? For all of the responses that thread generated, it deserves an updated . . . out of courtesy at least. You didn't even tell us the details of how things happened. 😛

 

[Chrono]

Look, if you really like this girl or have feelings for her this girl then you wouldn't be asking if you should date her. Right now it looks like it's one sided where you totally think that you have a definite chance with her. Other than by her response to you when you flirt and etc. with her, you don't have any hard evidence that she's really into you. Maybe she thinks of you like a brother as well? But going back to what I stated earlier, if you truly want a relationship with this person then you don't have to ask. You just do it because you feel that that is right.

 

[masterxfob]

Originally posted by: boyRacer
You sound like you're only considering this so you could get laid... 😛

maybe it does, but if that were the case, i'd go have meaningless sex with someone else. i can't imagine a virgin being a good lay, i know i sure as hell wasn't 😎

if people think i'm really just in it to take some girls virginity, you know they don't have any experience in the field.

 

[Aharami]

this is rather entertaining

 

[Aharami]

Originally posted by: masterxfob

Originally posted by: spidey07
"Should I date a virgin"

I think the better question should be "Why would you?" What good can come of it?

i don't know. i feel i've had a good share of the pooty, and so i could possibly go without it for a time. that and she's rather cute, maybe i want a meaningful relationship? i must be crazy, someone hit me!

love is in the air...

 

[SagaLore]

Originally posted by: Shiva112
my gf was a virgin before we started dating. Kind of makes me feel good that no one else has been in there 🙂

And look at the bright side...you have nothing to measure up to because she has no basis for comparison!

Now the question is, were you a virgin too?

 

[Chrono]

Luvly, she's my girlfriend now. We've been together for 7 months now. Of course a lot of twists and turns came, such as the backstabbing that my former friend happened to do with me. Don't say something and go back on your word. You are only as good as your words are. My "friend" decided to go for her behind my back (one of my friends that I was talking to about her)... while he was still with his ex-gf too. I swear, how many stupid people do we have in this world? "Hey, I have a rule that I won't go for girls that my buddies are going for." "Bro's before Ho's" ? A lot of you live by that don't you? Well, stfu unless you mean it.

So right now you're just referring to sex then? You're saying that if others don't have experience sexually then they don't know that dating a virgin is actually a bad experience for sex? So what exactly are you talking about here now. If you wanted to date her you wouldn't put virgin in the topic. This isn't about some YAGT relationship advise, it's about "I wanna fvck this girl but she has no experience. Should I do it anyway?"

 

[weezergirl]

Originally posted by: Chrono
Look, if you really like this girl or have feelings for her this girl then you wouldn't be asking if you should date her. Right now it looks like it's one sided where you totally think that you have a definite chance with her. Other than by her response to you when you flirt and etc. with her, you don't have any hard evidence that she's really into you. Maybe she thinks of you like a brother as well? But going back to what I stated earlier, if you truly want a relationship with this person then you don't have to ask. You just do it because you feel that that is right.

I absolutely agree with the last line. I still can't believe you made a thread about this. Do this girl a favor and date someone else.

 

[masterxfob]

Originally posted by: Chrono
Look, if you really like this girl or have feelings for her this girl then you wouldn't be asking if you should date her. Right now it looks like it's one sided where you totally think that you have a definite chance with her. Other than by her response to you when you flirt and etc. with her, you don't have any hard evidence that she's really into you. Maybe she thinks of you like a brother as well? But going back to what I stated earlier, if you truly want a relationship with this person then you don't have to ask. You just do it because you feel that that is right.

read my first unedited post. i do not need or want the collective opinion of the ATOT community just to ask a girl out, it's already been done and i will be seeing her tomorrow. what i did want was to know what some of you might do. however, a bunch of you failed to thoroughly read my initial post and started flaming.

 

[MrYogi]

No wonder your other thread got locked.

 

[weezergirl]

Originally posted by: masterxfob

Originally posted by: Chrono
Look, if you really like this girl or have feelings for her this girl then you wouldn't be asking if you should date her. Right now it looks like it's one sided where you totally think that you have a definite chance with her. Other than by her response to you when you flirt and etc. with her, you don't have any hard evidence that she's really into you. Maybe she thinks of you like a brother as well? But going back to what I stated earlier, if you truly want a relationship with this person then you don't have to ask. You just do it because you feel that that is right.

read my first unedited post. i do not need or want the collective opinion of the ATOT community just to ask a girl out, it's already been done and i will be seeing her tomorrow. what i did want was to know what some of you might do. however, a bunch of you failed to thoroughly read my initial post and started flaming.

Sorry if some of us are flaming..but your post is misleading. I mean come on, you have a poll that says "Should I date the virgin"...what are we supposed to think?

 

Hey, cool Chrono! Hope you aren't very fesity everytime, though.

Thanks for the update. I wanted to know what was up between you two.

Masterxfob, you're in trouble. I guess you've learned a lesson not to put misleading topics and starting paragraphs.

 

[Chrono]

My thread got locked because I failed to uphold the guidelines of mimicing threads. My thread from the start can already be identified as a poser thread. I am sorry I failed the masters of ATOT who mimic and thoroughly conceal the true points of their threads, which is to make fun/poke at the original thread.

 

[masterxfob]

Originally posted by: MrYogi
No wonder your other thread got locked.

lol, he even remember that i'm left handed!

 

[masterxfob]

Originally posted by: weezergirl

Originally posted by: masterxfob

Originally posted by: Chrono
Look, if you really like this girl or have feelings for her this girl then you wouldn't be asking if you should date her. Right now it looks like it's one sided where you totally think that you have a definite chance with her. Other than by her response to you when you flirt and etc. with her, you don't have any hard evidence that she's really into you. Maybe she thinks of you like a brother as well? But going back to what I stated earlier, if you truly want a relationship with this person then you don't have to ask. You just do it because you feel that that is right.

read my first unedited post. i do not need or want the collective opinion of the ATOT community just to ask a girl out, it's already been done and i will be seeing her tomorrow. what i did want was to know what some of you might do. however, a bunch of you failed to thoroughly read my initial post and started flaming.

Sorry if some of us are flaming..but your post is misleading. I mean come on, you have a poll that says "Should I date the virgin"...what are we supposed to think?

you're right, and i'm sorry. though it wouldn't have hurt if some of you fully read the initial post 🙂