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Permanently Adopt The "No Thread-Crapping, etc" Policy?

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jackstar7

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If you have, the post a quote of you doing it.

You've set up a strawman that you want him to now defend, why?

Regardless of any hypocrisy that MIGHT exist (but probably doesn't, and by the way, since you're the accuser of said behavior the onus is on you to present YOUR evidence), he can want you to behave in a way that's actually contributing value to the boards, which believes you are capable of doing. What you do not display is any intent towards doing so.

Also, making such an unfounded accusation of negative behavior might rise to the level of offensive behavior to him. You may want to mind that lest you fall from your tightrope.
 

GarfieldtheCat

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I have no idea how I'd search for something like that. Moreover, I have no inclination to do so given that you steadfastly refuse to acknowledge any factual information that contradicts your positions, no matter what the topic or how substantial that contrary information is. Finally, "I am not a moderator. I have no obligation whatsoever to be balanced in my comments. Nonetheless, my statement remains 100% true. That is what I want, whether you can grasp the concept or not." This by itself makes your whole line of attack moot.

He is just continuing to troll. Cybr fully believes that anything he writes is 100% true, no matter what facts you have to prove him wrong.

After all, he believes that he can say anything he wants, and unless you immediately refute it, you are admitting he is right. :rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes:

Now the rest of the world all know that it isn't true, just like we know Iraq didn't have WMD, but he doesn't believe in facts.
 

GarfieldtheCat

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Did not not read, or did you not understand, his post?

Moonbeam? He always posts sarcastic posts. Did you not read his sig?

Anyway, what he wrote is irrelevant...are you accusing me of being in the KKK?

If not....edit your post. If so, explain why you think I am so I can email the mods about this blatant personal attack. Your pick.
 

GarfieldtheCat

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Says the Jokerman to the Theif.

LOL. Sorry, I don't troll here. I haven't trolled and been kicked out of other forums either. You have. You have a known track record for trolling here and elsewhere.

I haven't lied about Iraq WMD. In fact I presented proof you were wrong several times. And you refused to admit it or prove me wrong. You just insulted me. That isn't trolling on my part. I posted proof.

In the Patton thread, I posted 5 logical reasons why you were wrong, and posted evidence to support my reasoning. You macro spammed the thread 20 times, and refused to even acknowledge my reasons, let alone attempt to show they were wrong. Again, no trolling on my part, but certainly on yours.

I haven't been accused of trolling by the majority of the community here, you have. Hell, everyone in this thread is basically calling you a troll.
 

cybrsage

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You've set up a strawman that you want him to now defend, why?

He claims he has done such - so it should be easy for him to show he has. If he cannot show he has done such then the odds of him actually doing it drop from "cause I said so" to "believe me even though there is nothing showing I have ever done so".

Yeah, pretty bad.
 

cybrsage

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Moonbeam? He always posts sarcastic posts. Did you not read his sig?

Backpedal ftl.


Anyway, what he wrote is irrelevant...are you accusing me of being in the KKK?

If not....edit your post. If so, explain why you think I am so I can email the mods about this blatant personal attack. Your pick.

You are metaphorically speaking of hanging me and I metaphorically spoke of the KKK. I would edit out an accusation, but none exists to edit out.

LOL. Sorry, I don't troll here.

And another lie from you. You are good at it, you practice a lot.

I haven't been accused of trolling by the majority of the community here, you have. Hell, everyone in this thread is basically calling you a troll.

Ad Populum is a logical fallacy, and one you love to repeat over and over no matter how many times you are told it is a logical fallacy. This is how you got into the mess of deciding an analogy is an insult.
 
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jackstar7

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He claims he has done such - so it should be easy for him to show he has. If he cannot show he has done such then the odds of him actually doing it drop from "cause I said so" to "believe me even though there is nothing showing I have ever done so".

Yeah, pretty bad.

His claim was precipitated by your questioning of his integrity, which was made with zero evidence presented.

The onus remains with you.
 

GarfieldtheCat

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Backpedal ftl.




You are metaphorically speaking of hanging me and I metaphorically spoke of the KKK. I would edit out an accusation, but none exists to edit out.

You are ignoring me again (which is typical for a troll like you). What Moonbeam said is irrelevant. You said, and I quote:

Originally Posted by cybrsage View Post
I see you have donned your white hood. When will the accellerant be brought out?

Are you accusing me of being in the KKK? That is a blatant racist personal attack. You better have some pretty good evidence to support something like that, which I know you don't have.

People wonder why cybr is a troll, just look at this thread....accuses me of being in the KKK, then typically (just like everyone else he trolls) trys to intentionally and deceitfully twist words around to try and deny stuff.

Trolling in a stickied mod thread should make it obvious to all that he enjoys trolling and lying, and is unwilling to change, and needs to be banned to increase the SNR here.
 

cybrsage

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Finally, "I am not a moderator. I have no obligation whatsoever to be balanced in my comments. Nonetheless, my statement remains 100% true. That is what I want, whether you can grasp the concept or not." This by itself makes your whole line of attack moot.

You are correct about your first sentence. Your second one fails in light of reality. You may not have realized what you are saying is not true, that you do not attack people you agree with when they use tactics you do not approve of, but reality shows you only attack those you disagree with.

You can change, though, and start doing it now that you are aware of it. From here on, you can attack anyone who uses tactics you disagree with. Garf is a great example, he uses the tactics you claim you disagree with yet you read his posts and stay silent. Speak up, attack him for it. Show you mean what you say.
 

cybrsage

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You are ignoring me again (which is typical for a troll like you). What Moonbeam said is irrelevant. You said, and I quote:

Untrue. Moonbeam explained it to you. The fact you refuse to listen does not magically make it irrelevant.



Are you accusing me of being in the KKK? That is a blatant racist personal attack. You better have some pretty good evidence to support something like that, which I know you don't have.

Already answered. Just because you do not like the answer does not magically mean it is not there.

People wonder why cybr is a troll, just look at this thread....accuses me of being in the KKK, then typically (just like everyone else he trolls) trys to intentionally and deceitfully twist words around to try and deny stuff.

And there you go, misusing the word troll again. You use it like an insult, which is against the rules. We both know you are using it incorrectly, so why do you keep doing it?
 

cybrsage

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His claim was precipitated by your questioning of his integrity, which was made with zero evidence presented.

The onus remains with you.


It is impossible to show something does not exist. He claims he has done it, I claim he has not. You are saying I need to show proof he has not done it.

Pray tell, how do I show proof he did not do it? The only way I know how is to show he has not attacked Garf in this thread. If he actually attacks people he agrees with, he would have attacked Garf repeatedly. He has not, therefor he does not.
 

jackstar7

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You are correct about your first sentence. Your second one fails in light of reality. You may not have realized what you are saying is not true, that you do not attack people you agree with when they use tactics you do not approve of, but reality shows you only attack those you disagree with.

You can change, though, and start doing it now that you are aware of it. From here on, you can attack anyone who uses tactics you disagree with. Garf is a great example, he uses the tactics you claim you disagree with yet you read his posts and stay silent. Speak up, attack him for it. Show you mean what you say.

Accusation repeated.

Evidence: zero.

Also, how do you know that Garf isn't on his ignore list? Hmm?
 

jackstar7

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It is impossible to show something does not exist. He claims he has done it, I claim he has not. You are saying I need to show proof he has not done it.

Pray tell, how do I show proof he did not do it? The only way I know how is to show he has not attacked Garf in this thread. If he actually attacks people he agrees with, he would have attacked Garf repeatedly. He has not, therefor he does not.

So you admit that your accusation is baseless. There is no evidence to provide, so your argument has no founding.

You claim "reality" is your evidence though. So which is it? You cannot present evidence or none exists?

And if this behavior of non-chastising is so evident to you, clearly it'd be evident to all of us if you posted a few threads that led you to make your assertion about his integrity.
 

GarfieldtheCat

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Untrue. Moonbeam explained it to you. The fact you refuse to listen does not magically make it irrelevant.

Moonbeam is irrelevant. He didn't insult me. You did. Answer my question.


And there you go, misusing the word troll again. You use it like an insult, which is against the rules. We both know you are using it incorrectly, so why do you keep doing it?

You don't know what that word means. And it isn't an insult, it a factual description of you.

You intentionally lie, refuse to admit or defend it, and twist words around. The very definition of a troll.

Jackstar has seen the same thing. You have no proof, no evidence. I proved you wrong with other things, I didn't just say "I am right"...I posted proof, something you have never done in your entire posting history here.

So again, you want to take back your accusation that I am in the KKK?
 

cybrsage

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Accusation repeated.

Evidence: zero.

Also, how do you know that Garf isn't on his ignore list? Hmm?

He replies to him. You are not very good at this logic thing, are you?

So you admit that your accusation is baseless.

Nope. You have a reading comprehension error.

There is no evidence to provide, so your argument has no founding.

You claim "reality" is your evidence though. So which is it? You cannot present evidence or none exists?

There is no evidence showing he ever actually attacked anyone he agrees with when they use tactics he claims he would attack them for using.

Since you have trouble understanding, I will explain using an analogy (what Garf calls an insult):

I claim there are no pink flying unicorns who poop rainbows and kittens. You say I have to show evidence there are none else I have to say my claim is baseless. How can I show there are none?
 

cybrsage

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Moonbeam is irrelevant. He didn't insult me. You did. Answer my question.

Following your logic here, you cannot use Hawking's work when you talk about science, since Hawking and you are not the same person. Yeah, pretty bad logic in use.

However, as I have already said, I already answered your question. Post 206 - which you already quoted once. You should read things you quote.

You don't know what that word means. And it isn't an insult, it a factual description of you.

I obviously do, since I not only posted the wiki definition but also reduced it to Classic Sentential Logic form. Don't you hate it when you are so soundly shown to be wrong?
 

cybrsage

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Look, you don't get it...I am talking about you, and not moonbeam.

You are trying to pretend you did not already have it explained to you. I will not allow you to pretend this.

Take it back or provide proof of why you think I am in the KKK.

And here you continue to pretend. Stop pretending, you are not good at it and it only makes you look silly.

EDIT: You really have three choices here. You can keep pretending it has not been explained to you already by more than one person and post over and over again pretending such. You can hit the report button and stop posting about it. You can stop pretending and stop posting over and over again pretending such. These are you choices. The one you select is up to you, of course.

EDIT EDIT: Forgot one. You can put me on ignore and then not have to worry about anything I say - since you pretend you did not read it anyway, this may be a good solution for you.
 
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GarfieldtheCat

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You are trying to pretend you did not already have it explained to you. I will not allow you to pretend this.

I am not pretending anything. You insulted me....you have the clear choice to admit you are wrong, or provide proof to back it up.

So far, you are trying to weasel out of it and try to blame others (typical troll behavoir).

So do you refuse to take it back? yes or no answer please.

If yes, present your evidence.
 

jackstar7

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There is no evidence showing he ever actually attacked anyone he agrees with when they use tactics he claims he would attack them for using.

Since you have trouble understanding, I will explain using an analogy (what Garf calls an insult):

I claim there are no pink flying unicorns who poop rainbows and kittens. You say I have to show evidence there are none else I have to say my claim is baseless. How can I show there are none?

Except you weren't just making a statement. You were attacking someone as a baseless diversion. And as you say, there is no way to prove a negative, so you just state it flatly and then insist that your target prove his innocence.

Also, your analogy is a failure as well, as it is also you making a pointless claim of a negative that you cannot prove, by your own admission. The only truth there is that you don't know if there are pink unicorns that poop rainbows and kittens. So why even mention a thing you cannot prove other (in this case your attack on Bow) other than to insult him?


EDIT: Also, here's something you might not know, you can ignore someone and then read their posts. There's a View Post option over each blocked post. So it remains completely possible that Bowfinger has him ignored, but reads and responds to random posts. Also, he might not agree with your opinion of Garf's behavior as he also doesn't agree with your opinion of his character.
 
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Bowfinger

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What recourse?
Have you read the rules? The answer lies within them.


So you are saying trolling covers more than just trolling. :rolleyes:
Why is conversational English so difficult for you?


Well of course you are, since you say trolling covers more than trolling.
I am comfortable with the intelligence, English comprehension, and good judgment of our moderators. I'm sorry you are not.


In a political forum, troublemakers are anyone you (generic you, not personal you) highly disagree with and are not afraid to call you out on things they disagree with.
Absolutely false. That may be your definition; it is not mine. You are not the only conservative poster here. Some exhibit the same sorts of misfit behavior you do (though none so egregiously), some do not. I don't believe I've ever accused Fern, EagleKeeper, or Charrison of trolling, for example. Even though we frequently disagree, they consistently contribute intelligent and reasoned discussion ... even when they're calling me out.

Frankly, that's been my point for a long, long time. P&N needs more of them and fewer of you. We would have far more productive and thought-provoking discussions if we did. It is your behavior, not your ideology, that leads us to call you out for trolling.

If you start behaving yourself, acting in good faith here, I believe you'll find the complaints about your behavior will drop dramatically. You will also be able to stop obsessing about where the lines are drawn. Follow the spirit of the rules instead of continually plotting on how to exploit the rules and you won't need to worry about moderators.


Just today a mod, while posing as a non mod, used his mod powers to falsify a poll in a thread because he did not like the view of the poster. Since said poster is not going to be infracted for it, that means it is ok to falsify things in our posts, right?
Oh, grow up. He very effectively -- and humorously -- made a great point, aptly demonstrating one of the many reasons Internet polls are practically worthless. That simple example was more effective than hundreds of words of discussion.

By the way, if you read those rules I mentioned, you will find this is not the place for mod call-outs. I figured you'd want to know that since you're such a stickler for rules.


Without a usable defintion that everyone has to follow, we have people using random definitions based on their personal views. This may work in the Digital and Video Cameras forum, but not where people are so diametrically opposed and vocal about it.
Using the word "random" over and over still doesn't make it true. The definition of trolling must necessarily be imprecise because it is rooted in intent. That doesn't make it random.


You know the rules. Don't troll. Don't derail threads. Don't post misinformation. Don't lie. In short, behave yourself. It's really simple.
What is trolling?
Sigh. If comprehending "trolling" still escapes you, feel free to start by concentrating on the rest of the list. Don't derail threads. Don't post misinformation. Don't lie. In short, behave yourself. It's really simple.


Finally, I note you've once again altered my quote, silently omitting a significant portion of my comment:
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I don't think the forum "working together" has anything to do with it. Some people will not behave. That is a fact of life in a forum like P&N. I think the moderators shouldn't have their hands tied with a bunch of red tape when they need to deal with those who misbehave. I am in favor of letting them exercise good judgment.

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So? Welcome to life. If you believe rules are being applied against you unfairly, perhaps it's time for a little introspection. Everything the mods know about you comes from your comments on this forum. If those comments have caused them to perceive you as a troublemaker who deserves punishment, you should take a good, hard look at your behavior and figure out why that may be. I'll be happy to help if you're at a loss.

I believe America's laws prove exactly what I'm talking about. How many times have we heard of miscreants avoiding prosecution because they did something that was clearly wrong yet wasn't technically illegal? Or maybe they did something that is illegal, but there is not quite enough evidence to convict (e.g., cannot prove intent). Rules fail because they are too rigid, because they cannot encompass every possible scenario. That's why people intent on poor behavior love sharply-defined rules. It means they can run rampant, they can exploit the loopholes, while moderators stand back with their hands tied.

As someone who's been in management for over 25 years, I know first hand how frustrating it is to deal with a troublemaker who loves to exploit the rulebook. I shouldn't have to, our employees are at-will and I don't have any unions to deal with. I do, however, have HR departments, which in large companies tend to love rules, hate risk, and dismiss concerns about productivity. It becomes a real pain in the butt. Fortunately, I get paid well to endure such frustration. Our moderators don't, which is why I don't want to throw more hurdles in front of them.


The other difference between laws and forum rules is laws have severe consequences. Consequently, we have extensive laws and legal processes to ensure innocent people aren't punished. The rights of the defendant are paramount because the consequences are severe.

There's no need for that in a social forum. If a moderator makes a mistake, you aren't imprisoned. You don't lose your livelihood or your property. You get a sanction, and unless you're waaaay over the line, that's it. If it was a mistake, and you are generally well-behaved, nothing else comes of it. You got chided, there's a note in your file, life goes on.

But even if you are a troublemaker, justly earning sanction after sanction, the consequences are minimal. You eventually lose posting privileges on this forum for a short time. That's it. It's frustrating if you want to be heard, maybe a bit embarrassing, but there's no material harm to you. That's why society needs extensive, well-defined laws, while P&N gets along just fine with a few general rules. You are at no risk of harm if a moderator makes a mistake.
Therefore, applying the same "rule" you've invented in other threads, your failure stipulates that you agree with this section of my post. In particular, you agree that moderators should not have their hands tied with a rigid definition of "trolling". You agree that a detailed definition of "trolling" is inherently too narrow and actually hurts the forum. You also agree that real-world examples from America's legal system demonstrate how rigid rules often obstruct fair and accurate decisions. Finally, you agree that the lack of significant consequences for breaking P&N rules clearly demonstrates why all your fussing about rules and detailed definitions is ill-considered and a waste of bandwidth.

Fantastic! I believe I speak for much* of P&N in saying we are delighted you've finally come to your senses and recognized the blatantly obvious. Thank you.


(*Most of the rest have you on Ignore, so they don't know or care what you're fussing about.)
Guys, please don't let Cybrsage continue to sidetrack the thread with continued trolling. While I appreciate you defending me, it is unnecessary. (Nobody takes him seriously anyway.) He is trying to change the subject, once again dodging accountability for his own poor behavior. Don't be diverted. (Besides, his insistence that if I call out any instances of bad behavior I must call out every instance of bad behavior is so ludicrous and childish that all it deserves it uproarious laughter. Perhaps he has nothing to do but post here, but I actually have a life.)
 

Moonbeam

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If you have, the post a quote of you doing it.

Let's assume for a moment either that you and I are both trolls, or trolls but don't see it, or just honest folk who irritate others with our individual take on reality. Whatever the case, I think that your reaction to Bowfinger is different than mine here. We differ too, I think, I just remember, in a different example of this same thing, when you replied to Garfield with a comment that 'we both know you are lying'.

It seems to me that in these two cases we likely differ in our reaction. You don't believe that either person said as truthful, and I believe it is impossible to know that. You, therefore, demanded proof in the first case, and proclaimed lying in the second whereas I would have to conclude the people are being sincere. I don't like me assuming people lie because I do not. What is your reasoning? One thing I can assume from this is that how you see other people can determine a great deal about how they react to you.

You and I are not telepathic. We can't know, really know, if something somebody says is a lie, a result of total self opacity and self deception or us being the ones who are ignorant or the facts of others lives unjustly denying their sincerity. Now I say that people are motivated by feelings they do not know they have, and I am doing that right now here with you, implying that we are different even if alike in appearance. I am criticizing your assuming the worst in people just as I assume you do so because you do not trust people's word for perhaps unconscious reasons. The difference is that you state what you see as if it were truth, and I state what I do as a result of self knowledge, that what I see in others is a result of what I have seen about me.

I feel that you are not being fair in these two cases because it is a behavior I have seen in myself and done in the past, and a behavior I do now want to be a part of how I behave.

So for me what you did in these two examples is not what I would like myself for doing and if I did that I would feel guilty. It would not make me proud. Have I done it or do I do it? Not to my knowledge. More I cannot say but if you say I am insincere in this, I will just chalk it up to typical cybrsage behavior. I will only know that you can't see because you don't have my wisdom and nobody can put an old head on young shoulders.

This is because I know that when folk deny my sincerity they generally do so to cause pain, to make me doubt my own truth, to make me feel ashamed. But a long time ago my sincerity cause me to question everything I believed and loved as truth, and I found it all to be worthless lies. I felt all that pain when I died to it. I was a shipwreck survivor. I came ashore with only what can't be taken, an inner treasure I had forgotten long before and had not known I had.

So I hope that when you say that people lie, I hope you offer them something also better with which they can replace it.
 

Moonbeam

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You are ignoring me again (which is typical for a troll like you). What Moonbeam said is irrelevant. You said, and I quote:



Are you accusing me of being in the KKK? That is a blatant racist personal attack. You better have some pretty good evidence to support something like that, which I know you don't have.

People wonder why cybr is a troll, just look at this thread....accuses me of being in the KKK, then typically (just like everyone else he trolls) trys to intentionally and deceitfully twist words around to try and deny stuff.

Trolling in a stickied mod thread should make it obvious to all that he enjoys trolling and lying, and is unwilling to change, and needs to be banned to increase the SNR here.

Still in denial about your prosecutorial Boogieman hunt I see, hoping the mods pick off somebody who works up your bile. We all suffer fools and some of us don't suffer them lightly, but you seem to me to be in the active stage of denying yourself what can't be otherwise. I see your quest as self righteous and full of personal need. Water like the Dao finds its way to the sea. It does not contend. What you call trolling I see as visible only in a war of egos.

I don't mind that you fight, but why rely on the power of the mods? Isn't your own knowledge of what is true good enough. If cybrsage is the biggest troll on earth, how does that affect you? All us bigots act in the name of some higher truth we never examine. We are always just right, whatever it is we believe. If you can't ever be wrong, how will you grow if you are? These questions may not be important to you, but I think about them constantly. Everything that bothers me is a problem with me, in my opinion, so the more I am bothered, the more I have to learn and see. The gem is polished by friction.
 

Moonbeam

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Bowfinger: Guys, please don't let Cybrsage continue to sidetrack the thread with continued trolling.

M: Seems like what it's about to me.

B: While I appreciate you defending me, it is unnecessary. (Nobody takes him seriously anyway.)

M: Hehe, if people didn't take him seriously he wouldn't get any reaction.

B: He is trying to change the subject, once again dodging accountability for his own poor behavior. Don't be diverted. (Besides, his insistence that if I call out any instances of bad behavior I must call out every instance of bad behavior is so ludicrous and childish that all it deserves it uproarious laughter. Perhaps he has nothing to do but post here, but I actually have a life.)

M: When I am here my life is as real as anywhere else. Hehe.
 

LunarRay

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Cybrsage seems to have reasonable and contrary points that he proffers which tend to irritate and he may even 'couch' his comments in a more confrontational in your face manner than others but he does have those points that do represent a point of view.

Folks like my friend, Nehalem256, and others have a similar style... like a pit bull who can't or won't be swayed by what others feel are rational or obvious truths... They simply keep chewing away at tangents which at times don't go to the central theme but they are thought provoking in my opinion.

I don't really know what a Troll is or how to qualify or quantify Trolling. I don't get upset or maybe only marginally when I'm debating an issue and the folks commenting are all over the place, as I see it. I simply continue to pound out what I see as the only rational answer to the issue. They may not agree and as far as I'm concerned that is their prerogative.

In politics, religion, and a few other topics folks tend to be polarized and simply don't buy into the basic premise of the other side... That can't be trolling or I can't imagine that to be the case.

So... As far as I'm concerned trolling is non existent... But, personal attacks do exist and I suppose to some that is upsetting... It don't upset me and I don't know why it should... I see it as the ultimate frustration brought about by difference of position where nothing more can be said in a debate... it don't do much since it don't present argument... "I know you are but what am I"... from my youth was the way that was handled or "I'm rubber and you're glue..." Insults are only words... how can they do anything... It would seem to me that to be beaten in a good game of chess is more bothersome than being called some insulting whatever...