OT: I love her

[TAandy]

What a sad sh!t 🙁 🙂
Does my head in most times, but, what the hell????

 

[GeoffS]

heh... how's it going Andy? :beer:

 

[TAandy]

Originally posted by: GeoffS
heh... how's it going Andy? :beer:

Sometimes infuriating Geoff, we had a row a couple of months ago, she went down to her sister in County Mayo somewhere, took the kids, crashed the car on the Wednesday, was sexually assaulted by her brother in law on the Wednesday, was physically assaulted on the Thursday, bastard rang me on my mobile to hear it 🙂
Add to that direct debits being returned to payer, (no money in bank) , things are swell 🙂
Just drank a 10 glass bottle of vodka, just about tipsy, that's worrying 🙁)

 

[Fingers]

OMG! not that I think I could actually do much to help, but all your team members are hear for you if you ever needed anything.

 

[HayHauler]

Really sorry to hear about your troubles. My prayers are with you TAandy...

HayHauler

 

[Wiz]

Geez, doesn't she wanna come home yet?
That's a truly sucky time for all of you.
Sorry to hear mate, I really hope things get better soon.
And trust me, as one who's looked there too often, the answers can't be found in the bottom of a bottle.
You know that though, as you have definitely seen it often enough too.
I really do feel for ya, I hope things get back together.

 

[Coquito]

Please don't drink to forget about your problems. I've seen too many good guys go that way. Be strong; go & work out till you bleed. Then take a long shower & fall right out. It won't solve your problems, but it'll prepare you better to deal with them. You have to deal with them. Doesn't mean you won't be able to ask for advice & support though. 🙂

 

[amdxborg]

Hi Andy, I feel for you mate! It always makes me sad when bad stuff happens to good people...
I hope you and your loved ones can work things out. Don't be to proud to make the first move, you'll be glad you did when all are OK again!
Oh and let that bottle go buddy, I've seen to many good people and friends get ruined by it and I wouldn't wanna see you go there also.
My prayers are with all of you, so put your troubles and problems in God's hands, He's helped me out of some bad stuff and He'll help you to! 🙂

 

[theinsen1]

hi andy,
i don't know what to tell you.....
i ain't as mature as other guys here ,so don't know what to tell you.
i can say we will be here in this forum to give you support,friend.
do let it out here,its better than the bottle.

 

[Wolfsraider]

TA Andy,
(I am assuming quite a bit here)
I crawled out of the bottle 7 years ago, stopped the drugs at that time too.
Believe me when I say there is no woman worth the hell you are living in.
I always had friends, but I gave up existing, day to day.
I left that life behind and haven't looked back.
I have never been happier.
I left my family, my friends, everything I owned and started over.
I don't regret it.
I expect you have heard all this before.
I know I had.
Hell I hated that life, but it was all I knew.
Who would have thought,
The more distance I traveled, the stronger and happier I became.
How many nights I spent happy to be drunk, stoned, buzzed,
What I really wanted was my own life.
When I left that life, I took chances that I normally would not have taken.
I set goals and dared to dream.
Every dream I dreamt has come true.
Funny thing
It started 2 weeks after I started over.
I met the right woman.
Got a great job.
Had my first child
Has it all been great?
Nope, but I am happy that I am alive to deal with it, Fully sober.

If there is anything I can do, Please dont hesitate to ask.

Mike

 

[TAandy]

Thanks guys, that's been bugging me for a while.
Feels good to get it off my chest.
You lot are the best!

 

[dmcowen674]

Originally posted by: TAandy
Thanks guys, that's been bugging me for a while.
Feels good to get it off my chest.
You lot are the best!

If you need to talk/vent could always buzz me too. Didn't hit the bottle after what I just went through and not talking about the DC case but lost my now ex after 14 years.

Dave

 

[TAandy]

Originally posted by: dmcowen674

Originally posted by: TAandy
Thanks guys, that's been bugging me for a while.
Feels good to get it off my chest.
You lot are the best!

If you need to talk/vent could always buzz me too. Didn't hit the bottle after what I just went through and not talking about the DC case but lost my now ex after 14 years.

Dave

Thanks Dave, it's good to know there's someone there to talk to!