SolMiester
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13 and 14 year old going around saying that they are gay?? WTF? How the hell have they made that decision and what the fuck are their parents doing about it?
THIS^^
13 and 14 year old going around saying that they are gay?? WTF? How the hell have they made that decision and what the fuck are their parents doing about it?
THIS^^
So you are saying at 13 years of age you still weren't sure about whether you wanted to bang dudes or not?
So you are saying at 13 years of age you still weren't sure about whether you wanted to bang dudes or not?
LOL, whats with your reading comprehension?...I'm saying that at 13, nobody has any idea about being gay.....and if I had a child at 13 thinking they were gay, I would have them seeing the Doctor!
LOL, whats with your reading comprehension?...I'm saying that at 13, nobody has any idea about being gay.....and if I had a child at 13 thinking they were gay, I would have them seeing the Doctor!
LOL, whats with your reading comprehension?...I'm saying that at 13, nobody has any idea about being gay.....and if I had a child at 13 thinking they were gay, I would have them seeing the Doctor!
Hyperbole much?
Both my Son and my Daughter had problems with bullying and harassment at school. They were not Gay. This has nothing to do with being gay; it has to do with growing up in society. People kid each other all the time at work, in School, and everywhere else. Get use to it! Didnt you people go to High School?
I think at 13 boys may call each other names and may have a vague idea about sex, but they dont really know enought to be gay or straight, unless someone is teaching them what they should be and how they should act. I guess what really matters is if they are in a family where incest exists and they have access to sex partners things might be different. So a lot depends on the society you grow up in.
He attempted to make a joke about someone using his sexuality as a slur.
Democrats can be bigots too. Defending senseamp, I guess you're one of them, bigot.
So these gay kids take excessive abuse and kill themselves, but that's okay, they should toughen up, oh, and by the way, there's incest/sexual abuse at home making them gay. What the fuck is wrong with you?
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If I ever discovered that my child, gay or otherwise, tried to take her own life because of this sort of bullying, I'd burn the school to the ground. Lock me up for the rest of my life. At that point I wouldn't value my life.
I can't think of anything worse than losing your child to suicide.
Having children has made me alot more emotional about these sorts of subjects.
This. You hadn't already looked at a pretty girl and considered you wanted something to do with her?
Yeah. Right.
Isn't that your job as a parent, to make sure they learn how to handle criticism? Sticks and stones... You know the saying. I am teaching that to a 6 year old as of late, he freaks out if I call him a "jerk" like his life just ended. I could call him any other name in the book and he will just ignore me, but "jerk" is the one that sets him off. I'm trying to teach him that words don't hurt.
Isn't that your job as a parent, to make sure they learn how to handle criticism? Sticks and stones... You know the saying. I am teaching that to a 6 year old as of late, he freaks out if I call him a "jerk" like his life just ended. I could call him any other name in the book and he will just ignore me, but "jerk" is the one that sets him off. I'm trying to teach him that words don't hurt.
Physical abuse on the other hand is different, verbal abuse should be a non issue. I keep trying to teach him not to let verbal abuse bother him. He is the reason why the comment "jerk" bothers him, because he's letting it bother him. It should just roll off his shoulders no different if I called him "nerd."
Kids do funny things, mostly, they obsess about things they should not care about. Why should a girl care if a redneck punk bullied her by calling her "***." She should just think "Thats what rednecks do! I'm a better person because I'm not a redneck."
They commit suicide because they can't handle the emotional trama by someone who is irrelevant to their lives. They need to learn that lesson, and it seems alot of parents are not preparing their kids for things like this.
I call the 6 year old a "jerk" more now even though he hates it, not because I'm trying to make him commit suicide, but rather make him realize that it doesn't matter. It's called
desensitizing. I can't image what he will do in school if another kid calls him "jerk." He will just freak out. That is not healthy, and will only introduce bullying to him, because kids will think its funny, and use it against him. Fortunately he hasn't run into anybody yet to call him a jerk.
Why the fuck does one have to be criticized for being gay?
9 suicides in that school district alone says that problem is not with the children.
I don't think he meant to blame the children for this.
Isn't that your job as a parent, to make sure they learn how to handle criticism? Sticks and stones... You know the saying. I am teaching that to a 6 year old as of late, he freaks out if I call him a "jerk" like his life just ended. I could call him any other name in the book and he will just ignore me, but "jerk" is the one that sets him off. I'm trying to teach him that words don't hurt.
Physical abuse on the other hand is different, verbal abuse should be a non issue. I keep trying to teach him not to let verbal abuse bother him. He is the reason why the comment "jerk" bothers him, because he's letting it bother him. It should just roll off his shoulders no different if I called him "nerd."
Kids do funny things, mostly, they obsess about things they should not care about. Why should a girl care if a redneck punk bullied her by calling her "***." She should just think "Thats what rednecks do! I'm a better person because I'm not a redneck." They commit suicide because they can't handle the emotional trama by someone who is irrelevant to their lives. They need to learn that lesson, and it seems alot of parents are not preparing their kids for things like this.
I call the 6 year old a "jerk" more now even though he hates it, not because I'm trying to make him commit suicide, but rather make him realize that it doesn't matter. It's called
desensitizing. I can't image what he will do in school if another kid calls him "jerk." He will just freak out. That is not healthy, and will only introduce bullying to him, because kids will think its funny, and use it against him. Fortunately he hasn't run into anybody yet to call him a jerk.
Both my Son and my Daughter had problems with bullying and harassment at school. They were not Gay. This has nothing to do with being gay; it has to do with growing up in society. People kid each other all the time at work, in School, and everywhere else. Get use to it! Didnt you people go to High School?
I knew I was straight in kindergarten. I had crushes on girls at that age. I even remember one of them. The funny thing is, I can say I knew I was straight at age 4 and no one will even blink, but if someone says they know they're gay at age 13, then something must be amiss.